[sexandtheastrology]

What patterns have y’all noticed in the people you tend to attract or be attracted to ? 

[islandofmisfits-deactivated2020]

They don’t want me lol

[bijah-tuu]

^^^^

[badgyal-k-deactivated20190901]

^^^^^

[unspokengrief]

im so scared the rest of my life is gonna feel like this

[actualsasori-moving]

I’m gonna share the most important thing I’ve ever learned.

it doesn’t mean a damn thing if they love you if they’re not treating you well. loving you doesn’t mean they’re good, and it doesn’t mean they deserve you, and it doesn’t mean they treat you properly.

it doesn’t mean fucking SHIT if bad parents love you. it doesn’t mean SHIT if a bad partner or bad friend loves you.

love doesn’t mean shit on its own.

[podencos]

I cherish small intimacies. A head resting against a shoulder, lips brushing against a nose, a kiss on the neck, a hand reaching out for my own

[addicted2success-1]

A good goal should scare you a little and excite you a lot.

Chris Soriano (via fullybalanced)

[addicted2success-1]

A good goal should scare you a little and excite you a lot.

Chris Soriano (via fullybalanced)

[theorydictatespractice-deactiva]

what i’ve learned is that if you’re gonna engage in a romantic relationship during your young adult years, it damn well better be with someone who makes your insides explode with nothing but positive emotion. someone who takes the time to be kind, patient and understanding, more often than not, and who is as warm with their words as they are with their touch. life is too short to be focused on people who do not have your growth and best interest in mind. the right person will love you in a way that makes you feel completely free and accepted within your own skin. they won’t attempt to hinder your development out of fear or insecurity that your new experiences might lead you into the arms of someone else. good lovers will desire to see your personal success just as much as you do, and they will support and respect your decisions. stay away from people who make you feel guilty about desiring the best for yourself. they don’t love you for you, they love you for what you can provide for them. and that is not love.

[thegolddig]

[lisselundin]

[sarahbyrk]

I don’t mess around or play games. I don’t believe in them. I just want honesty. I’d rather wake up one morning and say, “You know what? I had a really terrible dream that you were fucking someone else. Can you love me extra today?” instead of getting in a fight about some stupid shit and then at the end of the day being like, “Okay, can I tell you why I’ve been acting like this?” I’d rather say “Heads up” than “I’m sorry” later. Your relationship is supposed to be the safe place.

John Mayer on the secret to having a good relationship (via sarahbyrk)

[smothurs]

[cybergata]

[memewhore]

[shopminnki-deactivated20181108]

[vicforprez]

[aspectacularstart]

[rainhadaalegria-deactivated2019]

don’t announce things. don’t share your plans. show your progress. prove your growth. let them see your prosperity, not what steps it took to get there.