what she says: i'm fine
what she means: asexuality is so hard to deal with in modern society because sex is such a big part of our lives and relationships that it's unfathomable to most people that a relationship or marriage could survive without sex therefore making it so incredibly difficult for asexuals who still desire romantic relationships to find someone who's either okay with having a romantic relationship without sex or who is asexual like them because many asexuals are so ashamed of being "weird" or "messed up" because of their lack of desire for sex that they end up being in sexual relationships anyways and never identifying as asexual so they never know that there are people out there like them and nobody wins and everyone is unhappy
