This is what we called āA Professional Swingerās Answerā
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The bold words is our question and the italic word is the single guy answer, not many will come out with this kind of approach, this is the nicest oneā¦.
Hi guys,
Thanks for the above guidelines (?) and the dos and don'ts etc. Iāll try to answer some of your questions. Do let me know if thereās any more inputs that you need if thereās any. Here goes. For us hygiene is a big issue for us it contributes a lot to our mood, this what we dislikes: pubic hair, armpit hair, beard and mustache and bad odor, we like to getting simple shower before and after the session. - Definitely gonna be clean. Iām sporting a Wolverine-ish beard, but thatās a small matter. Will shave it off on the meet up. And all the other hairy areas. BO? Donāt have it though the shower before activities is a common thing when we swing right? ;) No rough sex or any of BDSM elements, anal or deep throat, just consider she is your one night stand GF, she loves to cuddle and friendly when she like the person, hope everything will goes slow at first and please it would be much appreciated if you could follow the rhythm and finally goes to the faster side when she requested. - It is all about what the lady wants. Will abide by this, no problems. Though it will definitely help if Mr **** from time to time can remind me when Iām nearly crossing the line. And some extra guide on what to do while weāre at it do helps too.
We are very serious on safe sex, condom at all times, her mood will be evaporated if the strangers is asking for penetration without condom, please advice us on your size but the wifey would like to try the dotted condoms. Lubes and other safe sex tools will be provided by both parties. - Definitely! Safe sex is priority!
Before you proceed, for those who not send yet their photos, please do so, what we need is just a full body photo (with or without face anything that comfortable with you) and intimate area tools photo a.k.a dick, our appearance in the website below is the same conditions as per requested from you because the photo inside the website is just our body and intimate area photos and please describe yourself (not in detail, but for making her calm), your age, you race (donāt worry we are color blind, if not your nationality maybe the region you come from), your height and weight (we would like to know what we dealing with, just to get ready) and a bit about your normal life (because we also a normal couple). - The required photo is attached. Hope that would be sufficient? A little about me. Iām lean, 5 and a half feet tall, around 50-58kg, bespectacled, close-cropped hair, and tanned skin. Typical local Malay guy. Nearing 40 (ouch). Working as a professional as an administrator in the public sector. So discretion is key. ;) Happily married, used to swing together with the wife way back; but now going solo. Mostly just enjoying same-interest acquaintances. The physical aspect of swinging is just a bonus actually. Comfortable more in just knowing people in the scene and making new friends. :)
just a brief fantasy on our approach on sex: we would like to have a GF experience type of sex, where the other male with threat the wife with dignity and compassionate. Hubby like to talk to wife having sex and hubby like to watch erected penis inside wifeyās pussy, hubby like to witness closely sperm ejaculated inside the condom while in wifeyās pussy and would like to watch the strangers pulling his dick from wifeyās pussy - Iām game with this. Has been in the swinging scene before. 3some, 1-on-1, 4some, gangbang etc. Should be no problem with this.
are you comfortable with other guy (means a group of guy) together in our session (e.g.: mini gangbang or MMMF) - Very comfortable. But with the hubby setting the rules and everyone else respecting set boundaries.
can you host us?, if not please give us an early notice since we are living in our family house during our stay in KL, all the hotel cost shall be shared by both parties. - Yup, can host the activity in a private 5 star hotel. Which I preferred. Cost will be on me. My treat.
do you comfortable with the hubby mild bi-curious side, we would like to experiment that night, but if the male partner are totally straight please ignore the following conditions, It totally on the approval of the male partner and the wifey, the mild curious stages could be considered as probation stages, hubby would like to try hold a dick of the male partner while penetrating her, hubby would try to lick wifey pussy while dick penetrating it in doggie position and if all in the position to agreed. - Iām straight but wonāt mind brief contact. Used to double a girl before i.e. both cocks inside her pussy. ;)
do you comfortable if the hubby just watch the session - Very comfortable. Used to this too.
do you comfortable for short close-up video session (only point at genital parts not the whole body or face), photography session (only point at genital parts not the whole body or face), each time the hubby will inform the single male when and where to shoot video / photo, the hubby shall be personally editing both media and shall share with the single for safekeeping approval through email, you are free to object any of photos or videos that deem to indiscreet of your normal identity and appearance, all the raw files shall be deleted once all media have confirmed by both, this media shall belongs personally to both parties and shall not be revealed to any medium without both consent. - No problem with this if both parties have a say in it.
g) do you comfortable in ejaculation on my wife body parts (breast and rear side of the face) - No problem at all!
Well, thatās about it. Do ask me if there are anything else you guys wanna know. Till I hear from you both again. Have fun.
