Why is it hard to find a good daddy? How can I find one?
TUMBLR DD/lg 101: FINDING A GOOD DADDY
There is a large number of misinformed Tumblrs, who don’t understand how to find a quality relationship with the object of their kinky dreams: a Daddy Dom. Tumblr often perpetuates this idea that good Daddies are like a tree full of apples, and all that one needs to do is keep pulling them down until they find the perfect one.
A good DD/lg relationship, by and large, starts with a very vanilla “relationship”, while the “DD/lg” aspect of it comes later. So the bad news for all those lonely little girls out there, is that getting to that relationship you hunger for is going to take a lot of time and patience. It’s not going to be happening for you tomorrow, next week, or even next month, because to find a good Daddy, you are going to have to get to know your candidate to the point that you feel a burning and shining trust for Him, so much so, that you are willing to give him power over all your care, your final decisions, your sexual activity, and even as far as who you are to become. If you think that giving someone who you’ve been chatting with online for a week that kind of power is going to work out for you, the likelihood is that you are in for a world of hurt and disappointment. I see that hurt and disappointment expressed nearly every day here on Tumblr.
Want some guidelines for doing it right? Try this…
1. Start on a place like Tumblr or FetLife. This way you know you are swimming in a pool of kink while you looking, otherwise you are hoping that man that you meet will be good with your kink, and DD/lg is not exactly widely accepted out there in the world.
2. Create your social media space. Make sure you give a lot of information about who you are, and what you’re looking for, but please, not so much information that you are unsafe. Be open about what resonates with you in the word of kink, and what doesn’t. If you are looking for a Daddy who will be local, you better give some indication about where you live.
3. Now that those who find you can see who you are, and what you are looking for in a relationship, you can go exploring for partners yourself. Message Daddies that portray the types of things you’d like to explore on their blogs. Message Daddies whose unique words or image palatte resonate with you. Message them with the intent to get to know them - REALLY KNOW THEM - through days, weeks, and months of conversation. If they seem like they want to get sexual with you right away, or very soon after you’ve met, it’s an indication they lack patience and self control, two qualities that the “good Daddy” typically boasts. The desperately horny and invasive masses will likely be MOST of the interest you get coming to your own social media space. The fuckbois are driven by a primal need, and they will try their reindeer games with anyone that crosses their path. When they come knocking on your door, turn them away, because you are waiting for one of those “good Daddies”.
4. At some point (weeks, months, years after you start looking) you will find yourself talking to someone truly exciting, who will ask and listen about your life, and all of its challenges, before he tries to get you to send him naked pictures of yourself, or asks for a high degree of power over you. Test this man. You hold all the power in the days leading up to your offer of submission. Make sure he is patient, and demonstrates self control. Make sure he sees your good days, and your bad. Make sure he is equally excited about meeting and getting to know you, as you are about meeting him. Ask him a million questions, and make sure you have to answer a million from him. If this sounds familiar to everyone, it’s because this is how most vanilla relationships start as well. Meet someone, get to know them, get to trust them, ask them out, get to trust them more than you’ve trusted nearly anyone in your life, and then commit to them in a serious way. Offering submission should be a final phase of your relationship with someone, not an initial phase, if it is to have it’s due.
5. Finally, when you reach that day when you find that you are willing to give him power over all your care, your final decisions, your sexual activity, and even as far as who you are to become, then you have reached the day that you can kneel, offer your submission to Him, and boast that you have found the elusive “good Daddy”.
(P.S.: I hope that gives you some things to think about Miss Courtney. Thank you for your patience while I was waiting to find time to answer this question comprehensively, because this is a big and common question to both new and experienced little girls out there. Remember that I offer relationship requests here on my Tumblr space. I invite you to fill one out, and let me post it. While my relationship request business is not exactly booming yet, I’ve run a blog previously where it was very popular, and expect it to catch on here in the not so distant future. Get in on the ground floor. Remember I’m here for specific questions while you are on your search. I’m always happy to give what wisdom I’ve gleaned to anyone who wants my opinion. The best of good luck to you on your search.)
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