Nads Maj.

The greater danger for most of us lies not in setting our aim too high and falling short; but in setting our aim too low, and achieving our mark.

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Hit & Miss | The Accountability Gap

-Nydia Major

Election season in The Bahamas often called “silly season” reveals more about us as a people than it does about the parties themselves. While we point fingers at the Free National Movement (FNM), the Progressive Liberal Party (PLP), or even emerging voices like the Coalition of Independents (COI), the truth is this: the culture we see in leadership is often a reflection of the mindset we’ve accepted as a people.

We “hit” every rally, every neighborhood party, every giveaway, but we “miss” the moments that truly matter.

We don’t miss the free food, the drinks, the music, or the entertainment. We show up in numbers for paraphernalia, for colors, for vibes. But we miss the opportunity to ask real questions. We miss the chance to demand accountability. We miss the responsibility of making informed decisions that will shape the future of our nation.

Some claim loyalty to a party, others attend everything regardless of party allegiance, but this isn’t just about loyalty or even greed. It’s about mindset. A mindset that prioritizes short-term satisfaction over long-term national development.

During this critical time, instead of focusing on policies, plans, and progress, much of the conversation becomes centered around one question: “What can you do for me?” Not “How will this impact The Bahamas in the years to come?” This individualistic thinking has created a cycle "you for me, and me for you", rather than a unified vision for national growth.

And then we wonder why, once elected, leaders appear to only serve those within their circle or party. The uncomfortable truth is that this behavior mirrors what we, as a people, have normalized and, in some ways, rewarded.

We gather in large numbers, but not for town halls. Not for meaningful dialogue. Not to press leaders on healthcare, education, national security, or economic sustainability. Instead, we gather online for commentary filled with noise but lacking substance. And while our voices may be loud on social media, we must understand that they cannot live there alone. Our voices must be heard beyond posts and comment sections, they must show up in rooms where decisions are being made. They must be present in spaces where accountability can be demanded and change can be influenced.

We invest energy into tearing down opposing parties, digging up dirt, and creating division. This energy that if redirected, could build a stronger, more unified Bahamas.

It raises a difficult question: Do we truly want change?

Because change requires more than attendance, it requires accountability.

Why do we continue to support candidates who have repeatedly failed to deliver, simply out of tradition or loyalty? Why do we accept temporary benefits in exchange for long-term neglect? Why are we satisfied with seasonal gestures, events for our children, community giveaways etc. when these efforts are not sustained beyond election cycles?

This reflects a deeper issue: a mindset conditioned to accept handouts instead of demanding development. A people who are pacified in moments, rather than empowered for the future.

We must also confront the reality of misplaced priorities. During election season, vast sums are poured into rallies, merchandise, promotions and an excessive flood of campaign signage. Billboards crowd our roads. Posters pile on top of posters in every community, fighting for space and attention.

At some point, it’s no longer visibility, it’s overkill. It’s waste.

We see it. We drive past it daily. The overkill is undeniable.

And the question we must ask is simple: What is the real return on this investment, if any?

Because while all this is being spent to dominate public spaces with faces, slogans, and party colors, our hospitals continue to struggle with basic supplies. Beyond the capital, the gaps become even more alarming. On our family islands, clinics operate with limited resources, emergency transportation is often unreliable, and access to urgent care can become a matter of timing rather than treatment. Our schools in these communities continue to face shortages that quietly impact the next generation.

In Abaco and Grand Bahama, the effects of hurricane destruction still linger. Many families remain in need of affordable, sustainable housing, yet progress feels slow and, at times uncertain. Outside of the port areas in Grand Bahama, there are communities that fall directly under government responsibility. These spaces that should reflect intentional development but instead highlight missed opportunities to truly improve the lives of the people.

The imbalance is both evident and concerning.

Are we more committed to being seen than to actually serving? Are we more invested in winning perception than delivering progress? Even more concerning, have we as a people, become so conditioned to this display that we no longer question it?

Because real leadership should not have to rely on overwhelming visibility to prove its value. The work should speak. The results should stand. The impact should be evident long after the signs come down.

So the question becomes: where is our outrage? Where is our collective voice when it matters most?

Why do we only raise concerns when criticizing the opposing party, but remain silent when it comes to holding our own accountable?

And what about the systems we interact with every single day?

Will we challenge the public service sector to raise its standard?

To hire qualified, competent individuals not based on connections, but on capability. To build teams that reflect excellence, professionalism, and pride in service. Because too often, there is a widely accepted narrative: that once you enter the government system, the expectation lowers. We’ve all experienced it or heard it.

Long wait times. Poor communication. Minimal urgency. Attitudes that suggest inconvenience rather than service. A culture where low morale has become normalized, and in some cases, enabled.

But the real question is who is holding that system accountable?

Are employees being continually trained and developed?

Are there systems in place for evaluation, growth, and correction?

Are there consequences for poor performance or has complacency become comfortable?

Because accountability is not just for elected officials, it must exist at every level of service.

We cannot continue to accept substandard experiences in spaces that are meant to serve the public. The standard should not drop simply because it is government operated. If anything, it should be higher because it serves the people.

So when do we begin to challenge these systems?

When do we demand not just access, but excellence?

And even deeper, when do we challenge ourselves to reflect the same level of responsibility, discipline, and pride that we expect from those serving us?

Because systems don’t just fail people, people allow systems to remain broken.

And then there is the future of our nation; our young people.

Our students should never feel that the main pathway to success requires leaving home. Opportunity should not feel imported, it should be cultivated right here.

The Bahamas should be a place where education is not just available, but competitive. Where our colleges and institutions are so strong, so innovative, and so well-resourced that they attract students from across the region and beyond.

But instead, too many of our brightest minds leave… and never return.

Not because they don’t love home, but because they don’t see a future that matches their investment.

They study. They sacrifice. They earn their degrees. They gain exposure. They build capacity. And then they face a harsh reality: limited opportunities, inadequate compensation, and a system that too often prioritizes "who you know" over what you bring.

This “who you know” culture is one of the most damaging barriers to national development.

Because it discourages excellence. It sidelines merit. It frustrates those who have worked hard to qualify. And it creates environments where connections outweigh competence.

How do we expect progress if the most capable are overlooked?

How do we build a strong nation when talent is either underutilized or exported?

And how long will we continue to normalize a system that quietly tells our young people: your effort is not enough, your access is what matters?

That mindset is dangerous.

Because a country that does not create space for its own people to thrive will always struggle to move forward.

We cannot just encourage our young people to dream, we must build systems that allow those dreams to be realized right here at home.

The challenges facing The Bahamas are bigger than any one party.

They require a shift in mindset, a move from passive participation to active responsibility. We must become a people who ask hard questions, demand transparency, and expect results.

Our future depends on it.

Election season should not just be about rallies, memes, and momentary enjoyment. It should be a time of evaluation, reflection, and intentional decision-making. A time where we consider not just today, but tomorrow. Not just ourselves, but generations to come.

If we continue to “hit” the distractions and “miss” the responsibility, we cannot be surprised by the outcomes.

The Bahamas deserves better.

But first, we must demand better. And even deeper than that, we must be better.

[nadsmajor]

CREATING A SAFE SPACE FOR YOUR CHILDREN

Often, as parents, we desire for our children to come to us, to share about their day, what they’re feeling, what they’re facing. We admire those parent-child relationships that are close, where communication flows easily and trust is strong. Yet, we’ve also seen the opposite; relationships strained by distance, misunderstanding, or even resentment. And then there are those in-between relationships: not broken, but not deeply connected either.

Many of us grew up in an era where parents made it clear: “I’m your parent, not your lil friend.” In Bahamian culture, that often came with phrases like, “Watch it now, I ain’t none of ya lil company.” While the intention was to establish respect and boundaries, those moments often became instant shutdowns. A child, simply being themselves and trying to share, would suddenly feel rejected, causing them to retreat and hold back.

While boundaries are necessary, there is a thin line. We can be both a parent and a safe place. Our children should have space to come to us unfiltered and unscripted. Scripture reminds us, “There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens”(Ecclesiastes 3:1, NIV). This means there is a time to correct, but also a time to listen, to laugh, to engage, and to simply be present.

In the world we live in today, I would much rather not only be my child’s parent, but also their safety, their comfort, and their place of refuge. I want to be the one they trust, where they can come without fear of judgment or rejection; while still being a mother who provides guidance, correction, and love.

Too often, children grow up and find someone outside of their home to confide in, even when their parents are present. Many times, this happens because fear has taken root: fear of our reaction, fear of punishment, or uncertainty about how we will respond. When safe spaces are not created at home, children look elsewhere for acceptance, understanding, and comfort.

When I think about this, I’m reminded of how our Heavenly Father loves us. No matter how broken we are, we can go to Him freely. Scripture says, “Let us then approach God’s throne of grace with confidence…” (Hebrews 4:16, NIV). If we can come boldly before God, our children should be able to come boldly to us.

Now imagine if they cannot.

If our children cannot find safety in us, they will find it somewhere else. And not every voice will align with your values or with the Word of God. Someone else may begin to fill that space. Someone who listens, affirms, and gains their trust. And once they have their ear, they also have influence.

This is where the story of Eve becomes so important.

In the garden, the serpent didn’t start with force, he started with conversation. He engaged Eve. He got her attention. “Did God really say…?” (Genesis 3:1, NIV). In that moment, he had her ear. And because he had her ear, he had the opportunity to plant doubt. Eve knew what God had said, yet the serpent’s voice slowly began to distort truth. What started as a conversation turned into deception.

That’s how the enemy works.

He looks for access. He looks for ears that are open. And once he gains attention, he begins to influence, subtly shifting thoughts, beliefs, and decisions away from God’s truth. The same strategy applies to our children. Whoever has their ear can shape their direction.

That is why creating a safe space at home is not optional, it is essential.

As parents, yes, we are called to train, nurture, love, and provide. But we are also called to be aware, to be present, and to create an environment where our children feel safe enough to open up. “Start children off on the way they should go…”(Proverbs 22:6, NIV). That training doesn’t happen only through correction, it happens through connection.

This doesn’t mean we avoid discipline or boundaries. It means we balance them with grace. We become something for our children that they cannot find in the world; a place where they are loved, seen, heard, and valued.

I had to learn this personally.

There were times I questioned myself as a mother, how I could have wisdom for others, yet struggle to connect with my own child. And I had to recognize it for what it was: a tactic of the enemy to create division. That realization required intentional change, maturity, and a willingness to grow.

I also had to confront what I experienced growing up.

My mother worked hard to provide, and while she loved us deeply, time and patience were limited. Because of that, I often found myself seeking comfort in others, people who would listen. And while some meant well, not all were godly influences. But they had my ear. And sometimes, just being heard felt like love.

That’s how vulnerability can be mishandled.

People can take advantage of a child or even an adult who is simply looking for someone to listen. Which is why we must be intentional about being that first place of refuge for our children.

I became more aware of this with my own daughter. I noticed moments where she would come to me, and because I was busy, I unintentionally pushed her away. I could see it on her face that look of defeat. And I realized something: even when what she was saying seemed small to me, it was important to her.

Now, I make it a priority to acknowledge her. I may not always stop everything, but I make space. Because those small moments are what builds strong bonds. When a child knows, “When I call on my parent, they respond,” trust is established.

This is also how generational cycles are broken.

What we didn’t receive, we can choose to give. What was missing, we can rebuild with intention. Through God’s help, we can become more present, more patient, and more aware.

It is important to understand however, that safe spaces don’t only have to exist within the home. God places community around us for a reason. “Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed” (Proverbs 15:22, NIV).

In the same way, spiritual parents and mentors also carry a responsibility. Much like natural parents, they are entrusted with the hearts of those they pour into. Life has a way of throwing curveballs, and sometimes we have to pivot. I know this personally. After losing my mom, I found myself having to seek counsel elsewhere, needing a trusted voice, someone who would listen and guide me.  That’s where spiritual parents, mentors, and community are meant to step in.

In those moments, they help fill the space life has shifted. But with that comes responsibility. 

It is not enough to simply have the title, they must be intentional about making space, giving time, and nurturing those God has placed under their care. “Be shepherds of God’s flock that is under your care, watching over them…” (1 Peter 5:2, NIV). When that responsibility is neglected, those seeking guidance will begin to gather counsel from many different voices, some of which may not align with God’s truth. This is why spiritual covering matters. There must be consistency, accountability, and genuine care, so that those being led are not left vulnerable to confusion, but are instead strengthened, grounded, and guided in the right direction.

There will be moments when our children need wise counsel from others and that’s okay. The key is ensuring those voices align with your values and your faith. We should welcome godly community; people who can partner with us, reinforce what we are teaching, and help pour into our children in ways that supports their growth.

Because at the end of the day, parenting was never meant to be done alone.

But the key is understanding that it does start with us.

Our children’s first point of reference should be home. They should know who they are, whose they are, and that they are loved…by God and by us. They should feel safe, protected, and accepted, without having to search for those things elsewhere.

Create the space.

Let them come. Let them speak. Let them be seen.

And when they do, make room for them to exhale.

[nadsmajor]

GRACE UPON GRACE

Last night, I failed. But I am not a failure.

I failed at being patient. I failed at self-control. I failed at reassuring my daughter in herself and in her work. But I did not fail my daughter.

As a mother who wants the best for her children, who wants to see them become all that heaven has declared them to be, the head and not the tail, I sometimes realize I can be too hard on them when it comes to schoolwork. I’ve realized that there is a fine line between being present and supportive and becoming so overwhelmed that your child freezes in fear.

What should take average 5–15 minutes of doing homework was stretching well into 2–3 hours. To me, the work seemed simple. But standing in front of a mother who feels intimidating, a child doesn’t focus on the homework; her focus is on whether she’s about to get it wrong or not. She’s not wrestling with the work itself she’s wrestling with fear.

And that realization broke me.

I don’t want my children to be afraid of me. I want them to honor the God in me, but never shrink in fear of my reactions.

 “There is no fear in love, but perfect love casts out fear.” ‭‭1 John‬ ‭4‬:‭18‬ ‭ESV‬‬

In a moment of honest self-evaluation, I had to admit something painful: my approach was hurting my daughter more than helping.

Two days prior to this particular homework setting, I had already felt the frustration building. That night, after hours of trying, I laid in my bed and sobbed. I wept because I couldn’t figure out how to help my child. I searched Google. I searched ChatGPT. I broke the work down into its simplest form and Nothing worked. She stood there with a blank stare, as if she didn’t understand anything I was saying to her and I felt helpless.

Eventually, I sent her to her room, grabbed my keys, and went on a drive. It was the blurriest drive of my life. I felt like I was failing as a parent and even questioned myself as an aspiring teacher and a founder of a teen girls ministry. How could I teach and help others if I couldn’t teach my own daughter?

I reached out to trusted voices. Some just for a listening ear because I needed to vent. I needed to release the frustration in hopes of it helping me to feel better versus bottoming it all in. But I knew what they would say: They would reassure me in the area where I was spiraling because truth is I was.  “You are not a failure. You’re a good mother.” And while I appreciated the encouragement, the place I was in at that moment I wasn’t even capable of receiving anything because I was so torn and broken. After being able to clear my chest a bit with regard to the situation I realized what I needed most in that moment was wisdom. 

“If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him.” ‭‭James‬ ‭1‬:‭5‬ ‭ESV‬‬

That night I after I got back home I prayed and asked God to give me what is necessary to help my child. After prayer and a restless night, I tried again the next morning. Swollen eyes. Rested body. Different headspace, or so I thought.

But frustration resurfaced.

I found myself now shouting affirmations: “You’re smart! There’s nothing wrong with you! Just think!” Because in my head at least I’m encouraging her. Yet the problem wasn’t her thinking, It was my impatience.

I had to confront a hard truth: If someone reacted to me the way I was reacting to her, I would shut down too. So, Why was it acceptable for me to do that to my child?

In seeking God, I gained clarity. My daughter may simply be a different kind of learner. Her learning style isn’t one I’m used to but that doesn’t make her incapable. It means I must adjust. 

I often said I didn’t want to parent the way I was parented where punishment replaced support. Yet in my frustration, I was repeating a cycle in a different form. 

One thing I am not is too proud to admit when I’m wrong or to say that I need help. I need more patience. And this season has exposed that in ways I’ve never experienced before.

I reached out to a school counselor who offered reassuring and practical guidance. I’ve scheduled meetings to explore testing to better understand how my daughter learns. I’m even praying about placing her in an environment that better supports her learning style if necessary because I don’t just want her to survive, I want her to blossom. I also had to learn when to step away. To breathe. To come back later. The fruit I wanted would never grow from the seeds I was planting. So I apologized to her.

And that evening, I approached homework differently. I made it fun. I incorporated creative tools and even allowed a little TV to reinforce concepts. Was I perfect? No. There were moments I had to catch myself. Rome wasn’t built in a day. But awareness made all the difference.

This is a journey. And I am willing to walk it out fully.

I refuse to allow the enemy to build a wedge between me and my child.  I will rely on the Holy Spirit to make me her safe space not a place she resents. 

Breaking generational cycles isn’t passive work. It requires awareness, humility and Spiritual discernment. The enemy will fight hard to repeat what you’re trying to end. But I serve a God who reveals truth so I can walk in freedom.

I don’t want to spend my days helping other people’s daughters while mine feels unseen at home. So this isn’t just a mindset shift. It’s a heart shift. An intentional shift. I’m focusing on her love language. I’m speaking life over her. I’m creating affirmations not just for her, but for myself too. Because here’s what I know:

I may have failed in moments. But I am not a failure. And neither is my child. With God’s grace, I will extend grace to her and to myself. 

I rest confidently knowing I am doing my best while remaining open to growth. I am a great mother not because I never make mistakes, but because I am willing to see them for what they are and correct them.

And to the parent reading this who feels overwhelmed, frustrated, or inadequate take heart. You are not alone. You are not failing because you are struggling. The very fact that you care enough to reflect, to pray, to seek wisdom, and to try again speaks volumes about the kind of parent you are. Give yourself grace.

Parenting is not perfected overnight. It is refined in surrender. It is strengthened in humility. It is sustained by grace.

You are doing your best. And with God’s help, your best will keep growing.

Grace upon Grace. 

“For from his fullness we have all received, grace upon grace.”

‭‭John‬ ‭1‬:‭16‬ ‭ESV‬‬

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Oh but to LOVE and be LOVED in return...

I’m in a season where I’m learning to embrace loving people again.

The question may be asked, "Why were you resistant to loving people to begin with?" Well, if truth be told, life has taught me the hard way that sometimes love doesn't last always. However, that doesn't mean that we shouldn't give love, and be open to receiving love.

After many years of pouring love into relationships and watching life happen seemingly causing that love to somehow change, it is expected for one to be a bit discouraged. Sometimes you'll hear people say I'll never love again. However, understanding seasons helps us to better adjust when things as such occur. (But that's another topic for another post)

I had to teach myself that IT’S OKAY TO LOVE PEOPLE & it's also okay to allow people to in turn love me. It's also okay if the love you once had for someone shifts or dwindles! It's all a part of growing and maturing and navigating this thing called life.

If we look back over our life time, we can all testify of having a friend at one point or the other, that we are no longer connected to for whatever reason, good or bad. Nevertheless, it doesn't mean that you didn't love that person when you were connected and for some, even after moving on...

One things for sure, you can’t fight forever how you feel about someone. If you love them, then let it be just that! Love hurts sometimes, but it is also patient and kind, and gentle as well as understanding.

I believe as people in general, we should learn to embrace love more in our every day relationships. This could include friendships in different areas of life and communities such as work, school, church etc. We must understand that love isn’t only subjected to romantic relationships! We should also not seek to take on the world's perspective of only love who loves you. Sometimes the love you give to others is just what they need to keep going; to not give up. You’ll never know how the love you show can possibly help to save someone’s life! I truly believe the world would be a better place if we choose to be more loving towards one another.

Love is a joyous feeling! It's generous. It’s that feeling that makes you leap a little on the inside when you connect with someone thats important to you! Just being in their presence brings a little ray of sunshine to your life and brighten your day! Love is when you care about someone and their well being. It’s wanting to see someone reach their full potential, and selflessly going out of your way to help them reach and accomplish their goals! Love is also corrective but embracive!

There are so many different types and expressions of love, yet we put so much focus solely on romantic love that we miss out on all that love truly encompasses.

When you love someone, it is important that you let them know. Telling them you love them is one aspect of showing love, but your love should also be displayed in your actions. You should encourage people you love, show up for them, pray for them, celebrate them, and support them during good and bad times! Affirm them, stand by and with them, correct them when wrong, applaud their accomplishments and the more...

When I speak of love, I’m always reminded of the Sunday school song we sang as children; "Love is something that you give it away, you give it away, you give it away, Love is something that you give it away and you end up having more!"

So I encourage you, show love today, give love, everyday and everywhere you go!

“A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another.

John 13:34 NIV

p.s I love you 💕

- Nads

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Flower Works - Tribune Newspaper

Around this time last year I was is in tiptoe anticipation to get my hands on a Tribune newspaper. I went everywhere in search of one and finally at a local Rubis gas station there they were  stacked up. I paid the cashier for 2 copies and went and sat in my car turning the pages filled with excitement. Then boom, there it was. The excitement was so real when I realized that I didn’t  have a small section feature or even a one (1) page write up but two (2) pages, full color feature!!!!! Pages 8 & 9 to be exact!! Can I tell you how I completely lost it!!! God is so faithful to his word and his promises!

Today as I reflect on the beginning of last years excitement, I want to share with you the interviewers questions and my responses in full. This way, those that would’ve missed it last year, can get the full read and get to know a little more about me and my business! Be blessed.

1. Can you provide an updated brief on your brand/ a little about yourself?

My name is Nydia Major; wife to my amazing husband Alessandro and a mother to two beautiful girls, Alyssa and A’Liya Major. I was born and raised on the island of Grand Bahama but I currently reside in Nassau Bahamas. Both of my parents had an eye for craft like work and in some way or the other inspired me to work with my hands. My dad worked as a jeweler and my mom owned two hat shops, one in Nassau and the other in Grand Bahama before her passing. I have both of them to thank for my artistic skills but mainly God above.

Ive had a passion for art ever since I was a child. I always looked up to my parents and older sibling who would always be seen either doing nails or drawing and painting pictures. I always tried to mimic what I saw them doing and eventually I began to find my own route. During my school years, classes that allowed me to use my creativity were the highlight of my younger years. Specifically my Computer Drafting and Design course under the tutelage of the amazing teacher Beverly Hinds. Mrs Hinds was a no nonsense teacher who didn’t allow her students to hand in just any quality of work but pushed us to produce the best work that we can and always stressed the importance of the creative fields in the work community.

Today I am the owner and lead crafter behind the business CRAFTED242 where we cater to a wide variety of handcrafted artwork. When I launched the business in 2018, I mainly catered to paper flower inspired crafts (eg. paper flowers, backdrops and paper flower selfie frames) hence the name Flower Works. Since then, I’ve decided to not limit what my craft business would offer because inspiration to create something new always presents itself. I pride myself on offering quality, unique work and excellent customer service. The company is currently solely online; however, shipping is available to family islands. Flower

Works has now become a special section under my business umbrella where I cater to creating all things centered around paper flowers and artificial flowers. Our flowers can be used to accessorize any room or event and make a bold statement. Crafting is my passion, thus I take pleasure in using my Crafted242 and FlowerWorks platforms to bring various visions to life.

2. What do you like most about being an artist entrepreneur, especially during a time like this?

I love the freedom that I have being an artist. The opportunity to create anything imaginable and bring customers ideas to life is liberating. Seeing the joy on customers faces when their visions come to life is unexplainable. Just the thought of knowing I was able to help in some way to make their special day or occasion stand out is simply amazing. Adapting during these tough times actually wasn’t hard at all. Being in lockdown with so many businesses closed, somehow pushed more persons to pull on small creative businesses to help celebrate occasions at home. There is a great demand now for customized unique pieces that you simply wouldn’t be able to grab at your local store. This is where I come in and use my gifts to match and or enhance the vision for each customer.

3. Where did you get the idea to start your Flower Works Designs? Or what was your inspiration/motivation to start?

When I found out I was expecting my fist daughter Alyssa, I began looking for ways to decorate her room. I saw a design online with paper flowers and thought to order some. Then I thought to myself, hmm I’m

sure I can make those myself. I searched some tutorials online and was able to create the flowers that I wanted. From there it was history.

4. What products/services are now offered under your brand of flower works? Where is the home base?

Flower Works is the paper flower section in my business CRAFTED242 where we offer a wide range of anything craft. Under Flower Works we offer a wide range of paper flower crafts in all different styles, sizes, colors and paper textures. We can emulate almost any flower design with paper. From roses to poinsettias to sunflowers, whatever the flower, we do what’s necessary to create it. My company is strictly home based in Nassau at this time, but I do offer shipping to the family islands.

5. What makes the pieces unique?

Each flower is delicately handcrafted one petal at a time. No two flowers ever come out looking exactly the same although the same love and attention goes into each one. These flowers are also unique in that they can accessorize almost any room and stand out. Once handled with care they can also be reused and sometimes refurbished. These flowers can be made very tiny to fit in the palm of your hand and also very large so large that they won’t fit in an average size car. There’s so much you can do with the flowers to help beautify spaces whether in a child's room, work space or at an event, these paper flowers provide lively color as timeless decor!

6. What is the creation process like for the pieces?

Creation time can take anywhere from 35minutes from start to finish for each flower. The amount of time depends on the size of the flower and the technicality in the flower detailing. The flower petals are usually drawn out free handed or from a template and cut out with scissors to start shaping. For mass flower production and more detailed flower petal cuts, sometimes we have to use a machine. Each petal is then carefully shaped and glued to a base that was a handmade, the hook is then attached for hanging purposes. Centerpieces can vary and require a lot of cutting and attention to detail. In most cases the centerpiece is usually the last piece added to the flower other than if there are special effects like painting or if the flower is being made freestanding which requires starting with the centerpiece and working your way to the outer petals.

7. What feedback do you usually receive from Bahamians regarding your work?

Bahmians typically like the crafted work however, a lot of persons, like myself prefer to go the route of creating them themselves instead of purchasing them. Sometimes I feel that the job itself - the time, effort and money, is underestimated, and by extension the product is undervalued. I’ve also had a lot of persons interested in taking lessons on how to create the flowers but not wanting to invest in the classes. A main feedback or concern is persons are skeptical about the flowers durability and reusability. These flowers are sure to outlast any real flower and if properly taken care of can hold up for a very longtime.

8. Who would you say is the biggest influence in your life and why? (please list names of person/ persons mentioned)

It is hard for me to really pinpoint any one person in my life who has had the most influence on me and where I am today. I can think of many family members, teachers, and friends who have all given me important pieces of advice or were great examples to me.

I would have to say the most influential person in a very intimate way was my mother Lydia Simmons Dames(deceased). My memories of my mother are those of a very strong, independent and hard working woman. She was a hardworking mother who very skillfully juggled two businesses, her family and other responsibilities. I never once heard her complain or breakdown despite having four children and a full schedule. I certainly would not be the person I am today without the influence of my mother. I can only aspire to imitate her work ethic and her refusal to be silenced by other peoples disapproval. Her tireless example is truly inspirational.

My Husband Alessandro Major and his family also plays a major role in my life. They support every single idea that I have and pushes me to become my best self. Sometimes I’d present new business ideas to them and doubt myself and they’ll see the vision and help me tweak and perfect it and support me in any way possible with seeing the vision to completion.

My Mum, Sheniqua Davis is an extremely important figure in my life and continues to leave a great impression on me. She’s a woman of great influence because of her stability and her work ethic. She’s such a strong determined God fearing woman. She encourages me to put God first in all that I do and challenges me to commit everything I do to prayer.

My Mum has taught me that hard times can be overcome once we put our full trust in God and trust His leading. She has taught me more than I could have learnt from any book. She sets an inspirational example to me teaching me how to live life and make wise choices, as a wife and mother and even in the most uncertain situations. One quotes says that “Behind every successful woman is a tribe of other successful women who have her back” and Ive been blessed with some amazing women who have been a large part of that force.

9. How does it make you feel to push a small business like this during a global pandemic?

Being able to push a creative small business thats in high demand during a pandemic is a great feeling. However, it does come with its challenges as I am currently working another full time job. Although a demand for the creative arts is now blooming, being a full-time wife, mother and employee encourages me to balance my time more effectively.

10. As a creative entrepreneur yourself, how are you keeping yourself encouraged, and have adapted your business to - a time that calls for social distancing?

Craft work is a passion of mine so as a creative entrepreneur I rarely have road blocks because there is always something new I want to try and make or that a customer will challenge me to create. I run to my work space and try my hand at new things almost every week. Somethings take longer to perfect but when I get it, I get it. Because there is really no limitation to what you can create as an artist, I am always finding new things to create whether for my home or for friends and family members.

Because my business is home based the social distancing doesn’t affect me much at all. When customers come to collect their items, we follow the safety protocols with mask wearing as their items to taken to their vehicles. The only real exchange is the payments and handing over the items.

11. What are your plans for Flower Works going into the new year, 2021?

I plan to put more emphasis on creating a wider variety of flower designs that will capture the eyes of my present and future customers. In doing so, I will be able to allow them to see how paper flower crafts can accessorize a room or space for any event. I also plan to post more of my work to my social media pages. During the pandemic, my eyes have been opened to how useful and powerful social media platforms can be when it comes to marketing and it is my goal to be able to take advantage of every opportunity to reach more persons with my handiwork.

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FREE INDEED

2018 has been dubbed my #FreedomYear I’ve used the term “I feel so free” so many times this year it’s almost unbelievable. One thing I know for sure is that God is amazing & even when we sometimes don’t feel his presence, He’s right there working things out on our behalf.

God placed something in my heart early in 2018 to do and I just couldn’t understand exactly what it was or even what angle to go with it. To be honest, I probably allowed fear to overtake me concerning it more than I actually noticed. Months would’ve passed and still I did nothing because of fear as well as not being 100% clear on the assignment. I got confirmation at a “ Talitha Cumi - Daughter Arise” conference I attended in March #BeSilentNoMore

This summer I went to Teen Camp Abaco 2018 as the Assistant Camp Coordinator. During the beginning of the week we had the campers all write down anonymous questions for the counselors to answer during a question and answer segment to be held on the Thursday evening. Boy were we in for a treat. Those young persons had some real questions that needed real, relevant and God centered answers. I was the person responsible for reading each question so I knew first hand what question would be next on the floor. After reading a few questions a question on homosexuality came up and I placed it aside to deal with other questions; and then another came up which I also placed aside because I didn’t feel like it needed the attention at that time. So I carried on with other questions and once again another question concerning homosexuality popped up all of which were worded differently. I figured then that this question clearly needed to be answered. All of the youth leaders were sitting on the edge of the basketball court facing the teens who were sitting on the bleachers. As the questions were asked any youth leader that felt lead to share would respond. Sometimes more than one leader would give their input on the topic at hand to help better explain their experiences or how they would’ve struggled in the area and eventually overcame.

So now the question is on the floor... “How do I overcome being a homosexual” or something to that effect.

There was a slight pause after the question was asked. It almost seemed as if none of the youth leaders wanted to take that question or knew how to approach it. Pastor Bruce then started to speak up and when he did it felt like I was literally being pushed from behind as to say NO, this is your question. So I interrupted him. This question, like so many others that evening called for someone with experience to answer and not just give a “read your Bible and pray” kind of answer. Im not discrediting that they are things that can be done, however, this question in particular needed a more in depth response.

Truth is, for many years I had struggled with my identity; who I was, who I wanted to be and who God & man saw me as. For a long while I had struggled with the thought of if I liked girls or not but I never acted on it. I knew that being in a same sex relationship was wrong and I knew it went against God’s will & plan for my life. So while the thought was there, I did my best to keep it right in my head as just that, a thought. Little did I know, a seed was already planted with a simple thought. Soon enough, that thought(seed) after being watered enough started to grow. Eventually, that seed grew into a plant and I found myself now acting on the feelings I once managed to cover. I thought I was covering my feelings by hiding them but really I was fertilizing it instead of shutting them down completely and dealing with it from the root.... Just like that, I found myself in a relationship with a female and going against God’s plans for my life to appease my flesh. In the beginning, it was really awkward and uncomfortable mainly because everything about what I was doing I knew was wrong. In time as that now “plant” continued being watered I got more and more comfortable and my plant started to grow it’s leaves & branches. 2 1/2 years later I was in love with a young lady that I was 100% sure I wanted to spend the rest of my life with.

So there I was, standing in front of a group of young persons, with this question before me that I’m sure at least 3 of them needed an answer to. I had first hand experience and advice that they needed at that pivotal moment set up by God; but I was afraid. Fear has a way of crippling us to a place where we second guess what we know God has called us to do because of fear of judgment by other people.

So I interrupted Pastor Bruce and shared my testimony of how God delivered me from a same sex relationship after for 2 1/2 years. I can’t recall exactly what I told them but I do pray that in some way it was helpful. That particular question was the last question that I was able to read before I had to go up to my room to relieve the babysitter from her duties that night. All I can remember telling the person as I walked off is how “Free” I felt. It was almost like I was floating to the room. This wasn’t the first time I had shared that testimony, but it was the first time I had shared it on a large scale and felt that way.

Ever since that day I’ve been running from this very post “FREE INDEED.” Why was I running if I knew how “Free” I felt when I shared the last time and I know this is what God asked of me? Truth is God had placed “FREE INDEED” in my spirit and that was it. But if Im completely honest there were times that I didn’t feel “Free” at all. Sometimes I struggled so hard that I wanted to go back to that old lifestyle at any cost; but He’s been keeping & sustaining me.

All during my period of trying to figure out what angle to go with what I believed God was telling me to do, I kept hearing the scripture in John 8:36, “So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.” I wrestled with this verse hard because I had let go of the lifestyle, I had prayed about it and even asked God’s forgiveness but somehow I found myself still struggling. Another scripture that always dropped in my spirit is “ And they overcame him by the blood of the Lamb and by the word of their testimony, and they did not love their lives to the death.” So I came to the conclusion that Nydia, your full deliverance is wrapped up in your obedience to God to share your testimony. Embrace it, share it and help someone to understand that what God has done for you he can do for them too.

So here’s my Freedom Cry: I’ve Been Delivered by the Grace & Mercies Of God Almighty from a lifestyle of Homosexuality & I couldn’t feel more “Free” & just as God did it for me, he can sure do it for you, or your cousin, or your family member that’s facing the same challenges I was. I am confident in knowing that no amount of guilt or shame can cover the depth of Christ’s love extended towards me. #FreeIndeed #FreedomYear #FreedomIsAMust #SilentNoMore #DoItAfraid #HisGraceIsSufficient

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WHO’S SUPPORTING YOU?

Growing up I was always involved in something; Church plays, dance, drama, softball, basketball… just something. I always remembered looking into the audience or crowd to see which one of my family members came out to support me. Honestly, most times there were none. I couldn’t understand it! Other persons families were there every game and every time they ministered, where was mine? 🤔 I knew my mother would’ve loved to support me more, but reality is she was too busy out there trying to make sure that when I got home I had something to eat… cause Lord knows that was very important lol! I’ll never forget that time my grand mother Mary Simmons visited Calvary Temple & I ministered to “My Worship is For Real”. Having her there meant everything to me & so much more! When I was done dancing, I looked over at her and she was wiping a tear from her eye. I don’t know if it was because the ac was so cold that day, but I would like to believe she was overwhelmed with emotions and super proud of me! There’s just something about support. I think everyone likes to know when they’re doing something good that they have persons there especially family to support them. I had a love hate relationship when it was time to minister at COGOP concerts. After we danced they would stop the program and literally ask persons to send up monies for the girls to come off the stage. Imagine about 15-20 girls on the stage waiting for their families to send up monies 1. For them to get down and 2. For the program to continue… What a time! I would stand there for every time thinking of a way to slip off the stage without anyone noticing me to save myself the embarrassment! I can tell you that my grand father Samuel Simmons always came through in the clutch at the last minute and send one lil something something up so I could come off the stage; Sis Netta would usually rescue the last few on the stage also. I use to be so happy when my name finally got called. Sighh! 😰 Today I ministered in service along with my dance sisters of Rendered Hearts. I love those Ladies!!!! I can’t say that my family was there only because I was ministering because I’m kiiiiinda adopted by the pastors family soooo they’re usually there lol!!! 🙈😂 but nonetheless it was great to have my family upfront and center smiling back at me. I’ve been blessed to be a part of The Davis Family for some time now and The Lord knows I Love and Appreciate them so much especially for the little things…. they mean the most! My biggest supporter now is my husband. I can guarantee if no one else is there, he’ll always be right there supporting everything I do, especially because I get his approval first anyway! I look forward to his “AyeMeeen” every time I’m done lol! To sum my story up; We’ve got to support those who support us. Support is Everything. One may never know the importance of their presence. Who’s supporting you? Who are you supporting?

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About 3 years ago I would've looked at this picture and become very irate. One might ask why? It appears to be a picture with what seems to be a proud father with his daughter that's excited to have her father there to support her in her pageant; and that's exactly what it is. Thing is, for me it's a picture of my father, supporting my step sister in a way that he has never done for me... Ever! I must add that before she was born I was his baby girl; literally! In moments like these I find God to be so awesome and I'm extremely grateful for his amazing grace! I thought I would never be able to forgive my father for simply not being the father that he should've been to me. Reality is, he has never supported anything I've done growing up. From softball games, to basketball games, church dances, to Twenty Pearls, or the Princess Club etc. Most of which were things that having your father present just made the moment a little more special. I think I had every right to be upset with him. There's something truly amazing about God though, and his power to turn the hardest heart into a heart of love and forgiveness! He was able to move me from that bitter place in my life that I carried for so long, to a place where I can release my father and forgive him for all his wrong doings in particular not being a father to me. When I looked at this picture surprisingly I was happy. I was happy to know that 1. It seemed as if my father is now taking care of his responsibilities and 2. that also meant that my little sister doesn't have to go through the enormous amount of emotions that I went through dealing with the absence of my father. For me this is a great photo and I'm grateful that Lavasia can have the feelings I longed for of having my dad present in my life and supporting me. Support is everything and I’m grateful that she has that! It's too late for my father to even try and correct all that went wrong on my end as I'm grown now. Nevertheless, it's a good feeling knowing that he's stepping up to the plate and being a father to his now little princess! 👑 #CongratulationsLavasier #CongratulationsLevain #Growth #God’sAmazingGrace #ForgivenessIsAChoice

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Day 4. A MAJOR DAY #MajorDecisions #OurMajorDay #NewBeginnings #BeautifulDay #July4th 👰🏾👰🏾 #24on24th #JourneyTotheCovenant #MrsMajorToBe #OhHappyDay

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His Bride to be!! @majorboyy242 #excited #AlmostThatTime #GodLeadUs #GuideUs #OrderOurSteps #ProtectUs #AMajorLoveStory #OurMajorLoveStory #Majorboyy #MajorGirl #MajorCouple #MajorWedding #MajorJourney

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Perfect wedding song! Anthony David ft. Algebra “4Evermore”. Add to your playlist.

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Yesterday I had the awesome privilege to assist Pastor Bruce & Co Pastor Sheniqua Davis & the members & followers of New Birth Church in a small way with their Good Deeds On Good Friday event. I was in awe of all the excitement that filled the air while everyone worked together to make the event a success. Volunteers packed thousands of grocery bags, folded, sorted out & hung up loads of clothing. But that wasn't it. I took a trip to RM Bailey Park where the actual event took place all to find ladies not only braiding hair but also re twisting locs & styling them, washing hair, styling it & placing persons under the dryer! The men were able to get their hair cut as well as they even had barbers on location. There was also a section where you could've gotten your nails done, I mean the works!!! You could've gotten your cholesterol & blood pressure check and also see a dentist! The blood bank was also out there for persons wanting to donate blood! Did I mention that all this was absolutely FREE?? It's great to know that we do have quality men & women of God who's focus isn't just on collecting offering & living a lavish lifestyle. We still have men & women of God that have sight & can clearly see the need of the people surrounding them & make it their business to be a blessing to those in need. Pastor Bruce & the entire New Birth Family did an exceptional job yesterday! Good Deeds on Good Friday was a GREAT success! If each one can continue to reach one this world will be a much better place. I'm proud to know that Pastor Bruce & his wife takes no credit for what took place yesterday rather their humbled & acknowledges that all praise is to God alone. A humbled man & woman of God indeed! Keep up the great work Pastor Bruce & Co Pastor Sheniqua Davis & the entire New Birth Family & may God continue to bless the works of your hands for His Kingdom! I look forward to helping out again in the near future! -signed a happy helper Nads

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My NASSAU people!!!! Join New Birth Church on RM Bailey Park this Friday April 3rd for GOOD DEEDS on GOOD FRIDAY!! 12:00pm - 4:00pm FREE #Grocery #Clothes #HairCuts #HairBraids #DentalCheckUps #PressureCheckUps & much more! Come out & be blessed! If you want to know how you can be a part of this Great event or need more information you can call 601-5105. Let's do something #GOOD this #GOODFRIDAY #Matthew5 #16 #NewBirthChurch

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My NASSAU people!!!! Join New Birth Church on RM Bailey Park this Friday April 3rd for GOOD DEEDS on GOOD FRIDAY!! 12:00pm - 4:00pm FREE #Grocery #Clothes #HairCuts #HairBraids #DentalCheckUps #PressureCheckUps & much more! Come out & be blessed! If you want to know how you can be a part of this Great event or need more information you can call 601-5105. Let's do something #GOOD this #GOODFRIDAY #Matthew5 #16 #NewBirthChurch

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On the job #babysitting #Aaron #iLoveKids #LordHelpAlessandro #blessMyQuiverLord #HelpmetoFruitfullymultiply 👶👶👶👶👶

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Latest Blog Post http://bit.ly/1ujRokH

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Yaaaaaaasssssss 🙌🙌🙌

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I promise you she's chucking up deuces #iYouth #YouthMinistry #CalvaryTemple #selfietime #wegood