just a dumb himbo in love

23 y/ old straight, thankfully not cis, british dude ✨ happily taken by my beautiful domme 🥰 lego, gaming, movie dork. NO MINORS, TERFS, or RACISTS. 🔞❗if ur still here after that, enjoy n peace ✌🏻

[itxylopez]

[nb-nightwing-deactivated2022111]

You're not being a very good trans ally if you treat nonbinary people differently based on if they're amab or afab

[everythingfox]

little fluff

(via)

[lvd2]

[cinematikaa]

We love her

[jlterry9]

[whitewinesupernova]

no offense but nonbinary ppl can have boobs…..nonbinary ppl can have long hair, wear dresses, use makeup, have beards, be tall or short, muscular, thin, or curvy……there is literally no wrong way to be nonbinary 

[occamsraider]

[empyrealhesper]

gosh it was so nice to read this

[cherriesandcharms]

thinking about puppy play n how good boys don't talk

[bpdbeforehoes]

[naisbitch]

@babykaisowner

[tangleme]

being forced to beg > literally anything else

[strawberryswinger]

if being hard on yourself worked, it would have worked by now

[bakwaaas]

[kisslvnd-deactivated20220404]

[michaelblick-deactivated-deacti]

[king-monky]

yeah i understand women. they all want daggers and swords. it’s quite simple really

[deactivated-blog]

hearing that last sleepy “i love you” before going to bed is a beautiful moment.

[helperhoopoe]

remember to cry for help without guilt-tripping. i know it feels like you’ve been abandoned and betrayed, but it’s probably not true, and it’s not okay to accuse the people around you of something they might not have done.

“i guess none of you like me” could be better phrased as “i feel unloved right now”

“but nobody cares anyway” could be better phrased as “i feel insignificant and i need reassurance”

rather than assuming others’ feelings, give them time to explain them. you’ll usually get a much better answer.

[randomslasher]

This is really important for future predictions, too. “You’re eventually going to leave me” is impossible for someone else to disprove without just sticking around forever, but no one wants to stick around when they’re being constantly accused of future abandonment. Giving someone no choice but to either stay with you forever in order to prove you wrong or leave you and prove you right is incredibly emotionally manipulative, whether you mean it to be or not.

“I get scared sometimes because I’m afraid of being alone again” is easier to address and doesn’t leave your partner(s)/friend(s) feeling as though they’re being preemptively accused of something.  

[toastheaven]

these are called I Statements arnd are super healthy to focus on for general communication! Any time you feel the urge to call out others, say “you xyz”, try to think of a way to make it an I sttement instead. You cant control the actions and feelings of others; focus on properly communicating how YOU feel in a constructive manner and you’ll get a much more accurate read on reality, which will help support and ground you towards better decision making and engagements with others.

[everythingfox]