Beautiful Disaster

I find beauty in imperfection and the chaos of ones inner struggle. For to truly know beauty, one must also know ugliness in all its hideous shapes and forms. I am a fascinating mess! A beautiful disaster.. I am me..

[dazeddigital]

The black punk pioneers who made music history

Six rebel icons who debunk the whitewashed history of punk.

[wnq-writers]

I go back and forth between wanting the universe and wanting nothing more than a small corner of the room.

(via lieandsneak)

[islamic-art-and-quotes]

Quran Animation (93:3)

Originally found on: akumuhaimin

[eazavala]

The City by the Bay. #blackandwhite #sanfrancisco #aerial

[dailydccu]

Are you drawn to playing intense characters?

[shelikestowakeupandjustfakeit]

SHUT YOUR EXTRAORDINARILY HANDSOME FACE.

[cosmicwizdom]

The more homework that a child receives, the more likely that child is to suffer from depression.

- unknown (via quotelounge)

  (via quotelounge)

[american-radical-deactivated201]

Children of Aleppo

[capacity]

Im a big fan of anything that will help me chill the fuck out

[asifeq]

Invocation for someone who tells you:

أُحِبُّك لِلَّهِ

“I love you for the sake of Allah”

(Reply by saying)

أَحَبَّـكَ الّذي أَحْبَبْـتَني لَه

“May He for Whose sake you love me, love you.”

Recorded in Sunan Abu Dawud 4/333. Shaykh Al-Albani graded it Hasan in Sahih Abu Dawud 3/965.

[words-of-emotion]

Be so busy with your own life that you don’t have time to judge other people for theirs.

(via words-of-emotion)

  (via words-of-emotion)

Take note

[kushandwizdom]

Hahahaahhahahaa

[naz1024]

Ties that bind

One thing about my family is that we are VERY VERY close... I don't take kindly to lies and accusations being made against my son.. FEAR ALLAAH and check yourselves..

[dribbblepopular]

[kushandwizdom]

If someone isn't available during your most crucial time, then their presence any other time is useless.

[mymindsecho]

This isn’t realistic for adults. I’m sorry it’s just not.

Don’t fall into believing that, “if they’re a true friend they’ll drop everything and run to be by your side!” crap.

As a responsible adult there will be times that your friends are hurting and you won’t be able to go to them.

There are times that you will have to go to work, or take your sick kid to the doctor, or do many other things that will prevent you from being there for your friend.

When your friend calls you and they’re falling apart and it’s ten minutes until you have to leave for work, you’re not a bad friend for saying, “Look, I love you. I’m sorry this is happening, but I have to go. I’ll call you back tonight when the kids are asleep.” Or “I’m so sorry this is happening. I love you and I want to be here for you but I’ve got to get to work. I’ll call and check on you during my lunch.”

Adult life is hectic and busy with important things all the time and unfortunately it’s also full of shitty things happening to people we love.

Do your best to be there for the people you love and ask for support when you need it but be understanding when being a responsible adult comes before helping you.

[neurotoxinsonline]

The idea that people need to be there any time you need them is really damaging and unhealthy, too. You can’t place value on a person or a relationship based solely on whether or not they’re available, no questions asked, whenever you need them.

In addition to the above: sometimes, someone simply does not have the energy to help. Maybe they’re coming out of a rough patch themself, maybe they have been busy all day,maybe a chronic illness is flaring up. There are a myriad of reasons someone may not be able to be there.

Obviously, if someone is taking you for granted, and never seems to care how you’re doing, that’s an issue. But to write someone off because their life and your life didn’t line up quite right at a given point in time, or maybe even on more than one occasion, is not a healthy way to handle things.

[larmoyante]

My heart is so tired.

Markus Zusak, The Book Thief (via larmoyante)

[fohk]

[austin-n-oli]

Confession: I have a friend who likes to text me at like 4am when he’s had nightmares or he can’t sleep or he just needs a friend. He thinks I’m always awake at 4am but really I go to bed around 12am and I change his text-tone to the loudest one I have just so it wakes me up when he needs me.

[cryptv0id]

you’re the kind of friend everyone needs

[austin-n-oli]

I think that since its been a year since I made this post its time for an update. In the past year I’ve watched this post grow and grow, people I work with have told me about it as “this post I saw the other day” and they have no idea it’s my post. The person I wrote this about has even reblogged it. He is no longer texting me at 4am. Not because we no longer speak but because the nightmares have stopped. He and I both are in a much better place. Most often the only times he’s waking me up at 4am is when he’s pulling me closer to him while we sleep. He’s more than a friend now and I’m forever thankful to have him. Everyone messaged me saying he was lucky to have me but I think I was just as lucky to have him and I would do it all over.

[princesssmurff]

The update just makes it even better ❤️

[rubydat98]

😢😢😩 OMG. My heart.