Astrology observation that I don't see people talk about enough👀
Sometimes the most intense synastry is not romantic at all.
I've seen people with insane Pluto overlays, exact Moon contacts, heavy Saturn, even 8th house synastry….....and they never date. Never kiss. Nothing.
But they change each other forever
Some people enter your life to emotionally rearrange your entire nervous system. That's the relationship.
And I think astrology communities focus too much on will they date?? and not enough on why can't I forget this person even after years?
Because that's where the chart starts getting scary accurate.
The person who triggers your abandonment wound may not be your soulmate
The person who feels like home may not stay forever
The person who barely touched you can still leave fingerprints on your life
Very 8th house.
Very Pluto.
Very Saturn.
Very Neptune too.
I also noticed that people underestimate soft aspects because they aren't dramatic enough for social media
But some of the strongest long-term couples I've seen had charts full of trines and sextiles with just enough tension to keep things alive. Meanwhile the 'can't eat can't sleep twin flame telepathy' synastry burns out in a few months because nobody can breathe like give room to breathe! Jeez....
Not every intense connection is meant to survive and not every stable connection is meant to consume you
And one more thing:
People with heavy Scorpio/8th house placements usually know when someone is obsessed with them. They just pretend they don't because acknowledging it makes the energy worse.
I have a few spots open this week for relationship readings 🌻✨
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