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Q: Am I too young to be a Dom?

I get a lot of questions from young women about whether they're old enough to get into bdsm. I don't see a lot of men asking that question, but it's just as important.

There are a lot of people who talk about how "older men do it better" and how women want someone who's "experienced" in sex. To me, that kind of thing is sort of vague, unimportant, and very much debatable.

But if you're going to enter into a dynamic that's reflective of the patriarchy, you need to have an actual understanding of the patriarchy.

Have you ever talked to a woman/girl about how it feels to be cat-called?

Have you taken the time to understand the difference between a woman feeling pressured to serve a guy sexually and her actually wanting to?

Do you understand and fully believe that not. all. women. are. subs?

I don't think there's an age that makes you too old or young to Dom, but I do think there are some minimum qualifications that take some time, effort, and experience. The bottom line is: don't play with bdsm until you unlearn all of the harmful patriarchal messages we've all been fed all our lives, or else you're going to do some damage.

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I kneel in-front of You, because I trust You, I gave You my full consent, to use in whatever way You feel fit DD, Your tender yet firm touch on my bare body drives me insane, Your warm breath give me goosebumps and Your deep voice make my legs shiver❤️‍🔥

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Submission can be a beautiful thing as said here. Its all about trust.