it’s great that women are responding to “locker room banter”, but...
A lot of the fantastic posts I'm seeing tearing down the "why didn't anyone say anything sooner" say things like 'all women have been assaulted' or 'all women deal with this at some point in their lives' or "all women are told to smile and suck it up". NO WE FUCKING DON'T! Because we are NOT, I repeat NOT, a single homogenous group. Yes, a LOT of women deal with unwelcome advances or are told as children to put up and shut up. Yes, it is very very very clearly a gender-skewed problem (so sit down and shut the fuck up, people who think that saying 'I like chocolate' means 'I hate vanilla' aka MRAs). But the whole problem with other sides is that they already see women as one singular group. "Kellyanne Conway/Betsy whatever are sticking up for Trump so the women complaining about things are just salty hypocrites" - where the fuck do you think statements like this come from? Or, let's talk about Pence's conviction that he has the right to determine when women should have access to healthcare - do you think he even stops for a moment to think that not every woman is his wife? PLEASE make your statements without saying that women have one universal experience. It isn't true and it reinforces the minority status of women - by implying that all women can be reduced to a singular experience. Also, get the fuck out there and vote for offices besides President. These Republicans signing away the rights of rape victims got to office by being ELECTED.











