nonsharer vents

a place for nonsharers to vent about their experiences

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welcome to nonsharer vents

hello and welcome to nonsharer vents! this account is exactly what the name claims itself to be, a place for nonsharers to vent about their experiences.

rules before you send an anon

do not name your f/o. obviously, this place is full of nonsharers, and i would hate for someone to be triggered by someone else's vent.

do not name drop anyone

do not send in not safe for work asks

no slurs or hate speech

properly place trigger warnings for your asks if applicable at the top of your message. triggers will be tagged (#tw sh , #tw sui mention , #tw ed , etc.) but please place a warning at the top of the ask so it is both easier for me to tag and others to scroll past.

anon sign off below the cut

(signoff last updated: april 9th)

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I wanted to come back and apologize for the vent I sent in about harassing a double. like I said in the vent itself I was angry at the time. that doesn't excuse me talking about what I did.

no one will care but the double who I harassed is doing fine. no I didn't reach back out to them and apologize but when I sent them everything I did they responded to it like they weren't bothered and I doubt someone who was bothered would have reacted in that way. yes I'm still on anon because clearly I'm embarrassed about this but I was triggered and sent into a psychotic episode when I kept seeing there posts on my feed even when I tried blocked them but I kept seeing reblogs of their things in my feed.

I hope you don't leave this account because I think it helps many of us not go harass doubles like maybe our thoughts tell us to. there's not any shipcourse free blogs other than yours so I don't know what I will do if you leave.

if I can explain myself I would like to though. I don't know why I was so triggered as to go harass them because I know people don't usually harass doubles but I know a lot of people who have through me talking about my experiences in discord servers and with mutuals who have also in a moment of weakness. you can't know what someone is going through when their being unkind to you.

I don't know if I want to apologize to my double because I still don't like them and they're doing okay anyways from what I see on their blog but if they do see this I hope they aren't actually hurt by anything I said because I didn't mean to hurt their feelings. I was angry and needed an outlet which is why I like this blog so much because now I have an outlet where people will actually see my vents and not ignore me.

that's all I wanted to say. I'm sorry that I made you get so much harassment just because I sent in a vent. I hope you don't leave but if you do I would understand I just find this blog to be a comfort. I don't have any way to prove this is the same anon from the one that got you sent hate but I don't see why anyone would lie about this especially since I got you a lot of threats.

you don't half to post this you can block me. I just wanted to apologize.

you are still weird. I do not think I am the person you need to be apologizing to either, anonymous. go apologize to who you harassed not me. I might leave this blog just because someone like you wants me to stay. this feels manipulative. get off of Tumblr.

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This blog is still sooo appreciated and I'm tired of seeing pro ship anti ship debate on impersonal confessional blogs I am also neutral because I go to college and touch grass

thank you. every anonymous confession account that is popular doesn't like proshippers I think that is disappointing because it is a stupid argument to have so this account is neutral

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Someone broke their own dni to tell me they like my f/o more than I do

Bitch YOU have doubles dni in your bio, don't interact with someone you don't want to interact with??? Especially not to say rude shit like that? I didn't even know you existed and wouldn't have cared until you did that. Funny how you broke BOTH our dnis for this all while reading through my blog and liking every post I made about my f/o

Anyway enjoy getting reported and blocked ♡ they love me more than you bc I don't do shit like that

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Why are some nonshares so mean tho 💀

are we mean or do you think that because your feelings are hurt? if you choose to get personally offended by anonymous message to a confession account maybe you should get off of Tumblr.

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I'm scared to visit the tag for one of my f/os because the way he gets treated by everyone (doubles or not) is so infuriating it makes me sick.

He's not your wife. He wouldn't be friends with the people that said his family and friends deserved to die. He wouldn't be a womanizer, not because he stinks but because he literally doesn't have the time and doesn't even care about that kind of thing! He wouldn't be nicer to some characters just because.

And for the love of God they are physically incapable of talking about him in a serious way. They always mention how hot he is, how stupid he is,, how much he sucks, how much of a good person he would have been if he just went to therapy (didn't exist when he was alive, he wouldn't go to therapy anyway.)

They don't understand him at all! Actually, I think they hate the real him! They hate who he is so badly that they want him to be a different person entirely!

I hate his fans. I hate the people that also selfship with him. None of them understand him and none of them ever put in the effort to understand him.

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Me & f/o laugh at other ships with him in it xD theyre so bad... compared to ours... and its weirdddd cos u dont even know him LOL

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I feel bad for blocking doubles but my jealousy issues are so so so so bad and I fell like I'll be rude

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not a vent or anything, just here to say that all of you are so valid, and that you deserve to feel safe and happy. i hope everyone reading this has a wonderful day/night, and i hope you know that your f/o loves you so much <3

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So glad I have a niche F/O. If I had to share him I would explode.

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when you get bored/tired/leave this blog, would you consider allowing another mod to take over? idk how that works but having a venting place free of shipcourse for nonsharers is rlly good and id hate to lose that lol

maybe is my answer but unfortunately i am getting at least five or ten anonymous messages in the inbox telling me I should kill myself and it is unfair for me to give that to someone else. I have been called a pedophile and told I should get shot and many more things. so I do not really think that I should give this to someone and even if I did find someone I am not sure if their intentions are genuine. I suggest once I am eventually tired of this someone else make one free of ship course if they can handle it.

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I like this blog more. I kinda don't have time to worry about shipping stance discourse even as a proud anti. There's too many restrictions.

Now for the vent. I know I SHOULDN'T have to worry about being his number one, but I still do against my will. I see everything in life as a competition and I want to stop because it makes everything so stressful but I worry it strips me of who I am, my personality, my masculinity and how much my fictional other would love me. I have OCD. I have to be his only partner or I have a crisis about it. And like I mentioned in an earlier post, intrusive thoughts. Is it really that bad to be mentally ill? My fictional other helps me with that stuff better than the new blog can. Always trust your fictional other. They love you.

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In reguards to the anon talking about the other accounts similar to this not allowing venting - it's a classic example of purity culture, theres been a spike in this since 2020 when normies joined fandoms and want to make everything "PURE" and "MORALLY RIGHT" when in reality these people never learned how to separate fiction & real life, or to just not consume things they dislike.

they dont accept others having diff opinions. if you dont have theirs then its the "wrong opinion"

this and conservatism. people are on anonymous in the inbox saying they cannot be ableist because they are disabled. you can be a minority and be an oppressor at that same time. it is a conservative way of thinking that what makes you oppressed makes you exempt from oppressing. no one can name one instance of me allowing people to send death threats to others because it does not exist. if people believed this they would send something off of anonymous and say it with their chest with proof. no one has proof because it did not happen. saying you wished someone would die or go away is not a threat. I live in a country where our right as a citizen to free speech is always in the balance. this is why I am so passionate about letting people speak freely on the blog I run.

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“awwe [character] is my wife-“ she is NOT. she loves me. she would not be your wife.

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People are making accounts that are meant to serve the same purpose as yours... except theyre completely sanitized and not actually vent-friendly. Do people not know what fucking VENTS are? Theyre obsessed with coming across as being "healthy" as if venting isnt a necessary outlet. People are GOING to say things that SOUND mentally ill and unhealthy because thats what a fucking VENT IS.

i know. it's just ableism. people do not like when mentally ill people sound mentally ill. it is just like I said people do not like the mentally ill unless they are something defendable and easy to swallow. censoring the disabled.

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breaking my silence, I don't like my f/o popular ships and the thing is like a majority of the cast are men and he gets shipped with his best friend and it always ends up getting me to avoid any content of my f/o.

Yes I love him but searching for his content always makes me feel sick to the stomach because if I scroll a little bit, I'll end up seeing ship fanart of him. I feel guilty but sometimes I wished his friend would just stay away :(

I don't like how he's always the anchor to f/o and it makes me feel so insecure to the point where I just really feel like I'm not worth being his partner but at the same time I feel extremely jealous and wished that it was me instead.

I don't hate his friend but sometimes I wish I could just insert myself in his actual source and replace parts of the interactions with me instead and be f/o's only one to rely on, be vulnerable with and those other stuff that his friend had the privilege of having.

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do i want doubles to die? yes. that is all.

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