Ik ben steeds de uitzondering

Overtuigd van mijn normaliteit zet ik mijn abnormale passen in het leven. Zo kom ik misschien nooit vooruit maar opzij gaat het ook wel. // My bookblog

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If you’re reading this please be nice to yourself today because you do matter

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No one really knows you. They know their own version of you.

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unironically people need to learn to say “they haven’t done anything wrong i just find them annoying”

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I personally think people need to understand that if someone hasn’t wronged you or anyone else, you should NOT dislike them. You don’t have to like them; just remain neutral.

[hollowboobtheory]

nope! this is the kind of attitude the leads to you picking apart every little thing a person does digging through their past for dirt and problematizing everything about them, exaggerating harm, assuming the worst about them, putting words in their mouth, etc, to justify the fact that you simply don’t vibe with them when the truth is that you will not get along with everybody you meet in life and it’s extremely possible to be civil to someone you don’t like. you don’t have to be friends with everybody its fine. it’s certainly nicer than falsely accusing them of some heinous shit rather than admit that you’re not some Disney princess who’s never had an unfairly mean thought in her life and loves everybody and sings with little birdies and is never bitchy or irritable. sometimes you get annoyed for stupid reasons and understanding that your personal feelings about a person aren’t necessarily related to their morals or worthiness as a human being is the first step to being a civil adult.

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Chatty catty.

[adamsmasher]

She has OPINIONS  and CONVICTIONS but no THOUGHTS

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Waarom ben je niet meer actief?

Ik zou hier veel verschillende redenen kunnen geven, maar kort samengevat komt het er gewoon niet meer van.

Maar je bent altijd welkom in mijn chats als je meer wilt weten :)

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no we don’t use that room there was once a spider in it

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I think the best thing I learned this year was that I have a finite amount of time and energy and that it’s okay for me to stop wasting that time and energy on people who don’t deserve it.

That's definitely a good life lesson! I hope you get to spend all your time and energy on people you love in 2022!

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Always reblog

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As a former zookeeper we would hear this a lot. “If you don’t study hard you’ll end up cleaning poop for a living.” It’s the one time we’re allowed to go off on the visitors. I once heard my boss rant for five minutes at a lady, in front of her kids, about how he had a Master’s degree, how people literally worked there for free, and how dare she judge people without bothering to know anything about them. Later that day his boss came by and said, roughly, “She told us what happened. Thanks for not throwing anything this time.”

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I can count on one hand the amount of times I have gone off on people, but employment snobbery gives me the rage. I was showing the new kid how to use the fry scoop at McDonald’s “.. like this, and then just sort of hold it perpendicular and give it one tap..”

And the new kid sniggered “isn’t perpendicular a bit of a big word for McDonald’s?”

Something in me was just so annoyed by this 16yr old who was learning to work right next to me and somehow felt above us? Fuck that shit. I pointed at the people just on the floor and went off, “she’s a 4th year law student, she’s the primary career for her terminally ill daughter, he raises 100,000 for charity every year, she manages 3 stores and more than £16mil in turnover a year. What the fuck do you do?”

He just sort of mumbled “I didn’t know”

“you shouldn’t have to know, you’re not better than us. So. You tap it once and then move it here to release…”

[jaylacucu]

“I didn’t know.”

“You shouldn’t have to know,”

[radmenace]

yes to all this because workers can be educated and intelligent, but also, even if workers are formally uneducated or dont know big words that doesnt mean they arent equally deserving of respect

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Image description: "You are not lost, you are redirecting. You are not a failure, you are learning. You are not behind, you are preparing" written in a tweet by thelovelymc.

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if ur nose isnt stopped up and u can properly breathe through it right now…… take this time to appreciate it