polyam life @notgloomymoon - Tumblr Blog

I'm a lesbian

10 years of living with 5 cis men (at different points in time but some overlap)

Only one of these guys was normal, the rest:

One voted for Trump at least once

One made me feel unsafe in my own home

One judged me and my girlfriend because *checks notes* she'd get me water when I was too unwell to walk, among other such help when I needed (called us codependent? Like brother I don't think you know what that means)

One s*xually assaulted me

NEVER CLOSED THE CABINETS, I've come home to the fridge being left open

Lies??? So much lying and deception

Being transphobic (in general but also to my partner)

Ableism 😐

Might add more for venting purposes

aardvaark

uhhh lesbian as a gender and lesbianism and gender being inextricably intertwined compilation

comics: all from alison bechdel

book page about butch identity: from Butch Is A Noun by S. Bear Bergman

image IDs in alt text (you have no idea how long that took lol).

nothorses

Found this in the comments of Shaun's latest video on Andrew Tate, in which he talks pretty extensively about how important it is for men to find ways to be confident in their genders without trying to adhere to, or enforce, anyone else's ideas of manhood on anyone.

Highly recommend checking it out.

Anyway. I rarely see folks talk about the positive impact transmascs have on manhood as a whole, and I think it's important to acknowledge and celebrate that.

catpop12343

reblog to give a lesbian a cup of hot chocolate

japplejottomjeans

bitchboytwink

I love you butches i love you femmes i love you trans lesbians i love you butch trans lesbians i love you he/him lesbians i love you gnc lesbians i love you trans lesbians who dont want surgeries i love you lesbians on t i love you nonbinary lesbians yall r amazing

gaygothmemes

Me and my polycule are attempting to remove the word "$tr@ight" 🤢 from our vocabulary.

Instead of the s word, you can say "continue forward," "directly ahead" "level it out" and so on.

sappho-ism

why are you so gay

women.

kaijuno

When you see a tattooed guy but he's 🦅🇺🇸🦌 tattooed and not 🦇⛓️🗡 tattooed ☹️

dykedotexe

dear god, the girls you made to have insane gay sex together are having to clock into work

humunanunga

when transmascs and transfems come out:

honeytuesday

the best part of growing up is that you always will be!! there's always gonna be something more to learn and see and feel and think and that's what u gotta look forward to babey!!! the universe is infinitely expanding and so are u!!!!

trevenanl-deactivated20200913

Mama didn’t raise a quitter but she did raise a homosexual and and an idiot

autumn-gaze

if i could have one wish in this world, it would be that all the queer people of the past could come and join a pride parade. to be able to see that they were never in the wrong, to be able to openly kiss and hold those they loved. to see all those people who are just like them and see all the support that floods through the parades <3