Sending love to all the kinky queers on NSFT who are recovering from trauma, have more hard NOs than some, get exhausted from intimacy quickly, can't be on their accounts for long periods of time, have frequent or intense mood swings, need reassurance before/during/after intimacy, often have to leave explicit conversations early, stay away from distressing hashtags even if they're popular, are Cluster A B or C, have stigmatized mental illnesses, have a hard time telling when someone's flirting, are hypersexual, or are aro/ace.
Your restrictions, triggers, experiences and feelings are all valid. You deserve to be here and you're just as much a member as anybody else. You don't have to put up with people disrespecting your boundaries just because your life doesn't fit into their fantasy. You don't have to be anything or anybody, even for people who do respect you.
Take your time and be your authentic self. Eventually, people will wander to you who have been looking themselves.
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