detox just to retox.

MJ. 21. Aries. you are what you love, not who loves you

[midnite-wet-dreamz]

Ok but gay porn is really teaching me about life and finances

[bob-belcher]

Incredibles 2 - Official Teaser Trailer.

[quotemadness]

And even if somebody else has it much worse, that doesn’t really change the fact that you have what you have. Good and bad.

Stephen Chbosky (via quotemadness)

[politicalsci]

[gumtooth]

the sun has no business tapping out at the tender hour of 5pm bitch i have depression

[the-perks-of-eating-pussy]

people who are super cute and dorky but also secretly kinky as fuck are very important

[wellbutrinboy]

i love laying the FUCK down and sleeping

[lyrics-and-music]

Heavy Lies // Neck Deep

[cornprices]

[multitrackdrifting-deactivated2]

DONT FUCKING REVIVE THIS ANCIENT DISCOURSE

[hotvampireadjacent]

but Henry infinite chocolate

[robotjiji-deactivated20190529]

[gangueiro]

[owlmylove]

it’s officially impossible for me to fall in love bc last night at a party drunk-me remembered that sober-me had thrown 3 funsize kitkats into my bag with the explicit thought “drunk-me is going to be so excited when she finds these” and i don’t think any other person is gonna be able to love me like that

[yoko-goto]

Reblog if you think a woman can be complete without children

[camdamage]

The only two motivations anyone has for working out;

To look good naked

To prepare for the apocalypse

[marcitlali]

military parents coming home 2 surprise their american child on video after they were complicit in the deaths of multiple children in the third world

[geekdawson]

one of the more valuable things I’ve learned in life as a survivor of a mentally unstable parent is that it is likely that no one has thought through it as much as you have. 

no, your friend probably has not noticed they cut you off four times in this conversation. 

no, your brother didn’t realize his music was that loud while you were studying. 

no, your bff or S.O. doesn’t remember that you’re on a tight deadline right now.

no, no one else is paying attention to the four power dynamics at play in your friend group right now.  

a habit of abused kids, especially kids with unstable parents, is the tendency to notice every little detail. We magnify small nuances into major things, largely because small nuances quickly became breaking points for parents. Managing moods, reading the room, perceiving danger in the order of words, the shift of body weight….it’s all a natural outgrowth of trying to manage unstable parents from a young age. 

Here’s the thing: most people don’t do that. I’m not saying everyone else is oblivious, I’m saying the over analysis of minor nuances is a habit of abuse. 

I have a rule: I do not respond to subtext. This includes guilt tripping, silent treatments, passive aggressive behavior, etc. I see it. I notice it. I even sometimes have to analyze it and take a deep breath and CHOOSE not to respond. Because whether it’s really there or just me over-reading things that actually don’t mean anything, the habit of lending credence to the part of me that sees danger in the wrong shift of body weight…that’s toxic for me. And dangerous to my relationships. 

The best thing I ever did for myself and my relationships was insist upon frank communication and a categorical denial of subtext. For some people this is a moral stance. For survivors of mentally unstable parents this is a requirement of recovery. 

[fuks]

[cleopatraiv]

[hazeleyed1]

Legendary.

[postracialcomments-deactivated2]

I used to get off on this song