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¡! OCEANSIDE AERO — [ System blog || Call us Aero || They/Them collectively || ANTI ENDO! ENDOS DNI ]

[oceanside-aero]

>_ Sys Name : Oceanside Aero

>_ Collective Name : Aero

>_ Collective Pronouns : They/Them

>_ Relationship Status : Taken

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>_ Main Fronters :

—— Kasper/Charlotte [She/Her]

—— Malachite [He/Him]

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>_ DNI : T.R.A.S.H., Endogenic systems + supporters (includes neutral stances and polyminds), support harmful paraphilias (includes no-contact), pro-israel/zionist, pro-trump + ICE supporters

>_ Notes : Our DNI is a strict boundary, and not a suggestion. The only lenience we will give is for likes, but reblogs, follows, and other forms of interactions from people who fall under our DNI is prohibited and we will block you.

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>_ Tags :

🌐 || general

🌱 || rant

🌊 || vent

🐠 || reblogs

📧 || asks

[oceanside-aero]

the people who say "we should bring back bullying/bullying is necessary" have never been bullied btw.

"everyone's a little bit autistic" you say that but you're not the one being outcasted by all your peers for being perceived as different in a way that you can't understand.

people like this really, REALLY piss me off.

[caliber-collective]

IDEATOR // IDEATION HOLDER

(flag tba)

🟉 An alter who fantasizes about causing/wants to cause harm, whether to the system or body or those outside of it, but does not act on their desires. This may be due to being a reformed persecutor/prosecutor, being a holder of some sort (e.g. intrusive thought, anger, etc.) or otherwise.

🟉 This was coined because our ideator (that's me!) desired a more specific term for her experiences.

🟉 Subtypes + boundaries below the cut. Any instances of 'ideator' can be replaced with 'ideation holder'.

🟉 Internal Ideator - An Ideator who fantasizes specifically about causing internal harm to the system or the body.

🟉 External Ideator - An ideator who fantasizes specifically about causing external harm to people outside of the system.

🟉 Bideator - An ideator who fantasizes about causing both internal and external harm.

🟉 Fluctiator (fluct-ideation holder) - An ideator whose fantasies change aim depending on the situation, their mood or any other factors.

🟉 Fluxiator (flux-ideation holder) - An alter who is only sometimes an ideator, e.g. after being triggered or when upset.

(banner id: a box with a red and black forest background and a dark red border. the text reads: this term was coined by an anti-endo. hate asks are not welcomed. endos may save and use our terms but they may not engage with our blog or upload or terms to any pro-endo sites e.g. pluralpedia. /id end)

"endo" includes anyone who defines their origin as non-traumagenic or is in support of non-traumagenic systems.

[oceanside-aero]

I'm thinking about taking our main out of our intro post for privacy concerns

should we remove our main from the intro post yes or no

yes do it

nah keep it

Voting ended onJun 6

[oceanside-aero]

unanimous vote. okay it's gone.

[oceanside-aero]

I'm thinking about taking our main out of our intro post for privacy concerns

should we remove our main from the intro post yes or no

yes do it

nah keep it

Voting ended onJun 6

[oceanside-aero]

Since it's pride month, and I'd like to have a break from negativity for a moment, I'm going to talk about our collective identities and also some other identities we have individually.

Collectively, we identify as genderfluid, bisexual, and ambiamorous. Being genderfluid is easier to explain to singlets, and our main host experiences gender in a wacky way which is quite close to genderfluidity. I doubt I need to explain being bisexual. As for ambiamory, we've been in both mono and poly relationships, and we don't really prefer one over the other. Our current partner system is polyamorous, and we just go with their flow. If they want a polycule, then that's fine by us.

A large majority of us in system are trans. Almost all masculine alters identify as either transmasculine or trans male. The few fem alters often aren't fully cis either, usually either being demigirl or something else outside the binary. I, myself, am transmasculine, alongside being pansexual.

A small handful of us are on the aroace spectrums as well. I know of Durin being asexual and demiromantic, and a somewhat newer split, Nyhility, is demian (demiromantic and demisexual).

Some of us even identify with a few xenogenders. Our main gatekeeper, Overseer, uses a xenogender as one of his main identities.

Identities are strange. They mean a lot of different things for a lot of different people. You may choose a bunch of labels to describe yourself, you may choose a few general labels, or you may refuse labels entirely. Whatever and whoever you decide to become, you are loved, and you are valued on this planet.

[oceanside-aero]

I genuinely do not understand why people feel the urge to target others and attempt to hurt them, or make their life hell on purpose.

This applies to a multitude of issues, including things from our personal life, so I'll try to keep it general for the sake of simplicity.

It truly boggles my mind how people think it's okay and good to start harassment campaigns against a person or a group of people, and for what? All because they don't like you? And that makes it okay to spread false claims about them and tell people they're an awful person? No, it doesn't, and if you think that a dislike of a person makes it okay to harass them and try to hurt them, you are part of the problem and need to reevaluate what you're doing with your time and energy.

I try not to be a hateful and spiteful being. It isn't in my nature. But by the gods, everyone makes it so hard to keep that up. Ideally, we could all get along, and all the issues in the world would dissolve, but we don't live in a world built on ideals, no matter how much we wish it so.

[oceanside-aero]

Urgh. I really should confront some people on things. Yet, the thought is still terrifying.

We only just found out that someone we know has regular contact with a person we despise for legitimate reasons. We were already losing trust with him, and we barely consider him a friend anymore. This is pushing things way too far, though.

The person he has contact with has repeatedly harassed our partner system for over two years, spreading false information about them and overall ensuring that everyone would despise them. I don't understand how anyone could willingly talk to that kind of person, knowing what they have done and are capable of doing. The ONE time we've personally spoken to them was to hopefully get him to stop, yet it did not work.

I really hope that our... acquaintance... can find some defense for himself before we block him everywhere. I have little patience for that kind of person, a person claiming to be unbiased yet makes allegiances with the enemy. Your bias is showing clearly now, my friend. I hope the jury holds some sympathy for you, for mine is dwindling quickly.

[oceanside-aero]

I can feel the walls closing in it's happening again I can't escape it this time

[oceanside-aero]

I feel like AM sometimes. actually, more like a lot of the time. is that a bad thing?

honestly, I'm not bothered to find out if it's good or bad. if it's bad then oh well. I don't have the energy to care.

I'm fueled by hate and spite. I won't be hurt again, and those who have hurt me will pay for what they've done one way or another.

[oceanside-aero]

you ever just have one too many bad experiences with introjects of certain sources that now you have a distrust of all of them because of that?

I hate judging people without knowing them. and I also hate linking introjects back to their source. but I've had enough bad experiences with other ratio fictives to not want anything to do with any of them other than the one in our system.

one of them called me delusional for being a selfshipper with his source, another one lovebombed me and also wasn't even actually real (the person was found to be faking DID as a manipulation tactic), and I think one we still talk to doesn't even like me as a friend.

no hate to any of you guys, I'm sure you all are lovely people, but I don't want to risk getting hurt again. one too many times, as I've said.

[oceanside-aero]

I'm gonna just assume that us and our partner system are doomed to have dreams that act as warnings for the future because what do you mean we've both had essentially prophetic dreams.

not going into too much detail on their dream, but it was basically a vision of the future where they talked with their "daughter" who said our ex partner (John from the last post) was gone (broken up with) and that we both were still together.

then all of my dreams are warnings about people who will make a return in some way (our ex John from the last post again and also an ex friend who sided with John in the breakup)

could be a coincidence, sure, but I don't believe that

[oceanside-aero]

YOU'LL NEVER FUCKING GUESS WHAT HAPPENED

ok so for context, a few days ago I had a dream where our ex came back for no reason to try and bother us (us being the system plus our partner system) by using pluralkit as a block evasion tool.

so, literally earlier this morning, HE MESSAGED US ON TIKTOK IN THE GROUP CHAT WE FORGOT ABOUT

just waltzing in going "elloo" like nothing happened. like he didn't break up with us and cause over two months of mental anguish and suffering that's still ongoing thanks to him and our ex friends who turned into his fucking goons or whatever.

both us and our partner sys have him blocked on tiktok, so I'm anticipating some kind of block evasion to take place soon. if he tries anything I'm cussing him out hard.

I know he wont see this, but in the slim chance he does, FUCK OFF JOHN WE FUCKING HATE YOU GO AWAY

[oceanside-aero]

ok yeah I'm a shark therian. uh. what sounds do sharks make. glub glub? I dunno.

[oceanside-aero]

I might be a shark therian but I have a UTI so I'm not worried about that rn

[anti-endo-sleepover]

🦄🌙 Anti-endo System Ask Game 🌙🦄

Introduce yourself !

🎂⋆ Do you have a collective name or a system name ? How did you choose it ?

🍓⋆ What pronouns do you prefer to go by ? Are there exceptions in the system ?

🦋⋆ What do you like to do in your free time ?

🌺⋆ What's your dream job ?

🌞⋆ Do you play an instrument ? If not, is there one you would like to learn ?

🍨⋆ Do you speak multiple languages ? Which ones ?

🐇⋆ Do you have pets ? Would you like to introduce them ?

About your systemhood !

🌜⋆ What is your preferred term to refer to alters ?

🪻⋆ Do you prefer to be referred to as multiple people, a system, a person with a CDD or something else ?

💫⋆ When and how did you realize you had a CDD ?

⭐⋆ Do you have a lot of amnesia ? How do you deal with it in your day to day life ?

✨⋆ How do you experience switches ?

🌱⋆ Do you have grounding techniques that you like to use ?

☘️⋆ Do you have an inner world ? Would you like to share some fun facts about it ?

About favorites and comfort media !

🌈⋆ What's your favorite color ?

🦩⋆ What's your favorite animal ?

🌷⋆ What's your favorite plant or flower ?

🍬⋆ What's your favorite food ?

🍧⋆ Do you have a comfort show, book or game ? What is it and what do you like about it ?

🐝⋆ Who is your favorite character in media ? Why ?

🌻⋆ What genre of your music is your favorite ? Do you have a favorite song? If so, which is it ?

🍒⋆ What kind of themes do you like most in games, books and/or games ?

[oceanside-aero]

sorry for the lack of posting, we've been doing stuff on other blogs mostly.

anyways. I almost fainted yesterday.

so, we have POTS, but until now, we've never come close to actually fainting. We've mostly just had tachycardia as a main symptom. I was just filling up our water jug and then started struggling to breathe and then everything was going dark. fortunately I didn't faint and was able to call to our father to help in case we did, but it was terrifying.

genuinely didn't know our body could do that but I guess.