Be thankful, have patience and be humble.
This past week I’ve learned of how insecure people can be of you; your personal choices, actions, and of you when you’re out and about. It sucks that even calling a Hmong celebrity “bae”, and posting it on social media can make others justify that you “act single”. Or when a friends arm goes around you during a selfie or photos. It’s upsetting how happy and honest you are in your relationship, and can act this way with or without your partner, yet those close to you can still be so judgmental of you.
At the end of the day, I’m content, and I’m okay, because ... I remember that my relationship is bold, secured, and content; I am forever thankful and blessed to be with someone who aligns with me. Someone who is so secured, that I am able to call celebrities “bae”; someone who trusts me when I meet new guy-friends, or when I’m out at a guy friend’s birthday without him. Someone whom I support and respect in the same way if the roles were switched as well.
I don’t think people understand that, when you are free, loved and loyal, there is no threat when calling celebrities bae, or having guy-friends. Those who know me, knows my crappy past relationships; it almost feels like people prefer you to be naive, sheltered, and attached with your partner everyday to be considered a great girlfriend.
I deserve this; to be me. 💕 Not everyone will understand, and that’s okay.
