Omega Paradise

Just an Omega living their best life. Happily taken and mated

[anxiousgreenboy]

Guide to heats (early signs, types of heats, how to deal with it)

contents: non-sexual heats sexual heats submissive heats dominant heats sick heats Note: these are based mostly on my and my system's experiences, though i have looked through the misce tags to see other people's experiences. you may not have all of the signs or experiences here, and thats okay. everybody is unique.

All heats: (won't reiterate these later on) Pre-heat/early signs: -more clingy, affectionate. want to spend more time than usual with loved ones/pack. (may have opposite behavior and want to stay away from others, feeling vulnerable.) -nesting/denning habits more apparent. adding more material. -more protective and possessive over your things -slightly higher body temp -Heightened instinctual desires and emotions -unexplainable random sadness (closer to heat for me) full heat: -want to spend most of the time in nest and/or den -Noticeably higher body temp than usual -muddled thoughts at times -instinct as noticeable as when in fight/flight timeline: -different for everyone. some can keep a schedule and it arrives on time, some get them sporadically or very frequently, some have long heats, some have heats that last a day. -my cycle is long pre-heat, short heat, medium-length break. (long as in a week and a half. then heat is abt 3-4 days with a week break) how to deal with: -keep water near at all times and snacks if hard to leave nest -if you have to go to work/school wear comfy clothes -air con and/or fan non-sexual heat: pre-heat: -more hungry than usual -desire to bring loved ones into nest/den and keep them there -may not experience raised body temp until full heat. may be lower than normal in fact heat: -nest makes up half of your thoughts sexual heats: pre-heat: -raised arousal (may also have raised libido) -raised body temp -lower inhibitions -slick heat: -constantly horny -weed-like effect how to deal with: -clothes that don't stain easy and are easy to take off -if you need to go to work/school make sure u can contain urself. if not, don't go. submissive heats: pre-heat: -asking for guidance/tasks more than usual -less need for control/independence -want to be taken care of heat: -hard to take care of self -hard to disobey people you trust how to deal with: -be aware of your vulnerability to being taken advantage of -ask someone you trust for help -don't go to work/school if strong heat dominant heats: pre-heat: -when helping people you are more hands on and controlling -very defensive of space -snap at small things -more moody when told what to do heat: -desire to take control over someone else -more aggressive, destructive how to deal with: -remind yourself other people aren't trying to piss you off -vent your frustration on objects, not other beings sick heats: triggered by illness, doesn't follow typical pre-heat and full heat patterns signs that you are in heat while sick: -nest/den becomes more cocoon-like -temperature fluctuates -more dehydration -sickness's symptoms different than usual in some ways how to deal with: -keep stuff for sickness near your nest/den -keep space aerated (open windows and doors often)

[lepus-fangs]

Personal Nest Moodboard !

[talon-dragonbeast]

FUCK cringe culture make yourself a nest and scent all your plushies

[misceclique]

playful omegas that bite their friends when goofing around. broody omegas that nom on their nesting items to self soothe. impulsive omegas with their own teeth indents all down their arms. dominant omegas that mark up their mate(s) when in heat. fussy omegas that nip when you try to help them, because goddammit, they're independent. affectionate omegas that nibble on their packmates or partner(s) when cuddling. bitey omegas.

~ari 🌧

[omega-paradise]

@she-calls-me-bugga

[geekqueen99]

Omegas that have recently given birth still have an influx of hormones. Their heightened levels of Omegon drive their omegan instincts up. They are often more emotional and more protective of children (especially their own). Scenting and nesting more are both important in this period of time because it helps comfort the dam. Not only do they create a nest for themself, but they will also create one for their young children. Sometimes these nests are completely separate and sometimes they are created within the omega’s larger nest.

Baby nests are often created for newborns, sick or sleepless infants and toddlers, or if the young child is in need of comfort for any other reason. Omegas that are close to young children that aren’t their own may also create or help create a baby nest for the child. Because nests were so abundant in early civilization and were seen as not only a comfort for dams, but also necessary for children, baby nests are seen almost everywhere. Most beta families even create nests for their babies and toddlers.

These nests are shallow and typically take up very little space. The different styles of nesting that an omega uses for an adult nest can be applied just as easily to a baby nest. Some baby nests look like miniature bed nests, some hang within a hammock or have a dome covering. The diversity of baby nests is as widespread as their larger counterparts.

- Other Nesting Styles -

[soft-alpha-posting]

[All photos from Pinterest, used for inspiration, can gather credit if it is needed]

⋆.˚ Cozy Omega X Beta Moodboard ⋆.˚

B has a cat.

O loves to bake sweet treats. The scent lingers on them.

B tries their best to flirt, and it's so obvious.

O loves to tease B.

Even before they're dating, B is one of the few welcome in O's nest

Most of the soft toys and fun add-ins are from B.

O doesn't know how to flirt back genuinely, so they keep gifting "extra" treats to B.

B walks around, smelling like fresh baked cookies after every visit with O.

O doesn't mean to scent mark B, and when someone calls them on it they are so embarrassed. B finds it cute, and invites them to mark them more.

O gets flustered.

When they start dating, B feels a little self conscious that they can't mark O as well as an Alpha.

O starts wearing B's flannels to make them feel better. (This also satisfies omega desire to be 'claimed')

Their lives merge together perfectly. Friends to lovers. Soul mates.

(Feel free to use these ideas. Just tag me so I can see <3)

[omegaverse-anthropologist]

bites

this post is inspired by @beta-adjacent’s post about bite marks. i got really emotional thinking about friends exchanging bites and wanted to say more about it lol

bonding bite facts

bite scars, like all other scars, vary in visibility and permanence from person to person. in historical practice, various substances (clay, ash, or ink, most commonly) were applied to a fresh bite to improve visibility and permanence. modern practice uses ‘bite powder’ or ‘bite ink’ for those who want a more permanent, easily detectable scar. this is the most common scarification practice, present in most cultures globally.

bites can be exchanged in various locations on the body. claiming or mating bites tend to be found at the scent glands on the neck, but can be left anywhere on the body. marking other locations are considered nontraditional—it would be akin to wearing a wedding ring on a finger other than the left ring finger (in cultures where that is the traditional location).

healthy bonding bites do not typically affect a person’s inherent scent. a person may release more detectable ‘happy pheromones’ after exchanging bites with a loved one, but these tend to fade after a few weeks. conversely, a person may release more detectable ‘distressed pheromones’ after receiving a bite under duress, and these tend to linger much longer.

biting someone who accepts under duress is no different from biting someone who has clearly rejected it. in the US, forcing a bite is considered felony assault and battery

mating bites may be administered in a variety of settings. a traditional practice between omegas and their alpha or beta mates is to exchange bites during their first heat after the pair has agreed to mate. some cultures practice ‘claiming ceremonies,’ where the mated pair exchanges bites in front of their families and friends, community leaders, and/or religious leaders.

bite types

mating or claiming bites - most commonly located on or around the scent glands at the nape. historically, alphas were not marked when mating with betas or omegas, but in current society bites tend to be exchanged between mates of any sex rather than used as a tool for alphas to stake a claim on someone of a so-called ‘lower sex.’

pack or bonding bites - most commonly located on or around the scent glands at the wrist. in some more traditional or long-established packs, either the pack alpha or chief omega administers pack bites to new members. popular culture treats this practice as old-fashioned, with some young people referring to it as a ‘boomer bite.’ in younger or more progressive packs, any member may extend the bite to an unmarked pack mate.

camaraderie bites, also called ‘bestie bites’ - may be located anywhere on the body. a more recent practice, only from the last 60 years or so, stemming from the free love movement and sexual revolution of the 1960s and 70s. these bites are exchanged between close friends, but are not typically an expectation. to share a camaraderie bite with a friend is a mark of profound intimacy. in many young adult novels, a life changing experience shared between friends is punctuated by the exchange of camaraderie bites. some groups have expressed displeasure with this trend, as they feel it cheapens the significance of the camaraderie bite.

bite perks

mated pairs report increased happiness in their relationship, though causality between the bite’s presence and relationship satisfaction is unclear.

bite-bonded packs demonstrate a similar phenomenon with similarly unclear causality

friends who exchange camaraderie bites tend to report a stronger sense of connection, satisfaction, and contentment in all of their friendships, not just the bite-bonded one.

individuals in healthy bite-bonded relationships of any type report a stronger sense of self and belonging, which is associated with positive health outcomes, job satisfaction, and overall happiness

bite-bonded married couples and unmarried couples with registered mating bites receive the same social and legal privileges

global acceptance for same sex (i.e. a-a and o-o) mates is increasing rapidly, with legal recognition for these mating arrangements in over 85% of countries

[nestinqomega]

baby fever is at 100000%

[omega-paradise]

Pleaseeeee

[omega-paradise]

Things I love about my Alpha

1. He takes care of me, treating me like his prized possession

2. He is very protective over me and does not care what I identify as. 

3. I do not ever have to tell him when I struggling because he can tell by my lack of body language

4. Not for a second do I have to worry about anything in my life because my alpha has it all taken care of.

5. He marks me nightly to remind me who I belong to

6. The moment someone gets to close or gets a little too comfortable with me, he is right by my side to protect me.

7. He makes THE BEST DENS AND SNACKS EVER

Got me WAGGING MY TAIL AND SHIT, CAUSING A SCENE IN PUBLIC BECASE IM HIS GOOD PUP!

[elevenbear]

i need to be shoved face down into my nest and bred sloppy style until i cant breathe

[chocobochaserstories]

Pack Dynamics

Overview

Historically, a pack is a group of omegas, alphas, and betas who live together, raise children as a family, and share the same space or territory. In modern times, a pack is generally comprised of a polyamorous relationship with at least 3-5 main members, not including children. A pack may contain alphas, betas, and omegas, or any combination of the three. A balanced pack will contain one alpha, one omega, and the rest beta, however in modern day this is not true in most cases. 

Alphas

Alphas in a pack are most superior of the ranks, and carry out roles such as leadership, paternal roles, and decision making for the pack. Generally, only the alphas are allowed to inseminate the omegas or betas. In a pack with more than one alpha, there is always a lead alpha or a head alpha, and other alphas submit to that head alpha.

Betas

Betas, when in a pack, serve as diplomats and mediators, however they still submit to the pack’s alphas. Betas are not always marked by the pack’s alphas or omegas, but are always scented. Generally, betas serve as a safe place for omegas when they can’t access their nest. In a healthy pack, alphas are not permitted to force their presence onto an omega if the omega wants to be with the pack betas. Betas also help raise pups and handle homeschooling if done by the pack. 

Omegas

Omegas in a pack are the focus of the pack. Everyone in the pack revolves around the omegas. There is generally one omega in a smaller pack, but it’s not uncommon to have more than one. Omegas in a pack generally experience their heats together (in sync) and will spend those periods in each other’s company. Alphas may or may not have their ruts syncronized. Omegas cluster together by nature, and this is true in the pack. Omegas are the members of the pack that nurture everyone else. They will scent other members and keep the pack in good health. An ill member of the pack will stress out an omega. Omegas also are tasked with providing the pack with young. In a pack with omegas and betas, generally only the omegas have pups. When one omega falls pregnant, they’ll often trigger the heats of the other omegas. This is for two reasons: One, from an evolutionary standpoint. Two, from a social standpoint. Historically, omegas in a pack would not have all of their pups survive to adulthood (Disease, predators, injuries, etc). This is mitigated nowadays due to modern society and healthcare. From a social standpoint, several pups born at the same/similar times creates a healthy social heirarchy to grow up with. The pups will have others their age from birth, which fosters interactions such as speech, play behavior, and healthy immune development that a child born as the only pup in a pack would not get until entering preschool (around age four-ish).

Visual Representation:

[whinypupboy]

The way i need to be knotted right now, knotted like the good breeding pup i am, filled the fuck up to the hilt with someone’s knotted strap, feeling my puppycunt stretch to barely fit it, having my hair gently tugged while i’m full of knot, and whining about the hands on my sensitive waist. I just need to be bred so bad i can’t take it anymore. It doesn’t even matter if my t dick is fully ignored at his point, i just need to be filled up

[maniamega]

"TRUE MATES" OMEGAVERSE AU EXPLANATION

Hi, guys! So, I have this Omegaverse AU I like to call the "true mates" AU. I'm currently working on a full length slow burn fic in this AU and decided to write out a full explanation of aspects in this universe that are relevant, just to have on hand for my fic.

SCENTS

Scent glands are located:

Under the jaw (on both sides)

On the crux of the shoulder and neck (on both sides)

On the inner thighs

On the inner wrists

Scent blockers come in both sprays and roll on versions, like a deodorant. It dampens a person's natural scent. Scents display strong emotions and can trigger other designations instincts (i.e. an omega's distress will put anyone nearby on guard). People use scent blockers out of politeness and manners- its seen as rude to "flaunt" your scent openly as an adult. Its more acceptable for pups with immature scents to not wear scent blockers since their scents are still maturing and developing and scent blockers may interfere with a scent's development.

MATING/BONDING

The terms "mating" and "bonding" are synonymous and can be used interchangeably. A mating bite is formed when a scent gland is bitten hard enough with either omegan or alphan canines which were evolutionarily developed for this express purpose. Betas cannot form mating bites because they don't possess the correct canines.

A bond is formed when two people perform a mutual mating bite- if only one person forms a mating bite, it won't stick and will eventually fade. A bond only forms when a mating bite is mutual and two people bite each other's scent glands.

A newly bonded/mated couple should not be separated. Instincts are heightened and both omega and alpha can become violent until the bond is fully settled.

"Newlyweds" are sometimes referred to as "newlybonds". There is a special leave off of work called Newlybond Leave.

INNER ALPHA/INNER OMEGA

An "inner alpha" or "inner omega" is the more instinctual, less rational side of a person's designation. Most times imagined as an internal, separate version of a person that is led completely by their emotions and instincts and less by reason and polite society.

THE COURTING CHASE

Running away from an alpha is seen as an open declaration of wanting to mate and is often used in courting. A courting chase between an alpha and an omega usually occurs in the last stages of courting, leading up to mating, as it triggers both the alpha and the omega's primal instincts. The omega's role is to run, the alpha's role is to chase. Running away is the invitation and giving chase is the acceptance. If the alpha catches the omega, it "proves" that the alpha is worthy to be the omega's mate.

TRUE MATES

A "true mate" (or "soulmate") bond is when a compatible alpha and omega first meet and their designations (or "inner alpha/inner omega") decide they are completely compatible. The alpha/omega are sent into their respective cycles within 24 hours to insure a mating/bonding takes place. "True mates" are regarded as extremely rare and highly sought after, often romanticized in stories about "The One".

[discountlittlebro]

I WANT to be a brat so bad

I want to fight back and make snippy comments and wrestle around and tease but the minute someone says

“Don’t you wanna be a good boy for me? Where’s my good boy?”

The switch in my brain flips SO FAST and I’m a whimpering whiney mess bc like yeah, yeah I wanna be your good boy. That’s me, your good boy is right here hey hi hello please? Please please wanna make you feel so good. Tell me what to do, what do you hmnnnngggg call me good boy again skajsisnwm I’m weak, I’m a weak willed mutt

[denning-alpha]

Being an alpha with *glasses* can suck because like

I’m trying to rub my face on my mate and bunt them and love on them

Plastic face screen in the way

Now it’s smudged. Goddammit.

[omega-paradise]

Being an omega with *glasses* can suck asssss because you rough house and break them

Hehe I love you, Alpha🥹

[yoybearz]

shoutout to the omegas that have trouble taking care of their nests due to disabilities 🥲❤️

[omega-paradise]

SHOUT OUT TO ALPHAS WHO STILL CARE FOR THEIR OMEGAS AND BETAS EVEN THOUGH THEY STRUGGLE DUE TO DISABILITY 🥹

[philcollinsenjoyer]

why do people think you're like a pervert if ur interested in how people smell like oh i'm so weird for caring about one of my 5 senses