祝日 / Permanent Vacation
Stranger Things
Alisa U Zemlji Chuda
I'd rather be in outer space 🛸
shark vs the universe
Misplaced Lens Cap
Sweet Seals For You, Always
$LAYYYTER
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we're not kids anymore.
Aqua Utopia｜海の底で記憶を紡ぐ
taylor price
Sade Olutola
pixel skylines
titsay
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ojovivo
Discoholic 🪩
JVL
almost home
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@pegflicker
The Game Of Thrones women Meets Fairytale women series!
Arya Stark: Little Red Riding Hood Yara Greyjoy: Gretel Sansa Stark: The Little Mermaid Olenna Tyrell: Baba Yaga Daenerys Targaryen: Cinderella Margery Tyrell: Aurora Brienne of Tarth: Merida Ellaria Sand: The Evil Queen Cersei Lannister: Maleficent
The Star Wars Saga
may the force be with you
Working in film lets me travel, which is one of my passions. I like to visit remote places and see real people.
Dirty talk but you both use your customer service voice
Thanks I hate it
partner: *cums*
me: great! will you be needing anything else today?
Customer service but you use your dirty talk voice
You’re a nasty little bitch aren’t you? Trying to return these shoes after 30 days.
Mr Darcy’s only crime was falling in love with a heartless monster *cries*
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“Hunger is the feeling of losing weight.”
You’ve probably heard of Akita Inus:
And Shiba Inus:
Which are really cool and cute Japanese dog breeds. Let me introduce you to these other cool and cute Japanese dogs, which I think deserve equal attention.
The Kishu Inu:
The Hokkaido Ken:
The Kai Ken:
The Shikoku Inu:
I just really love dogs, and look how cool they are! Dogs!!!
d o g g o s
it’s wild how they look like japanese dogs.
and by that I don’t mean japanese people that have the ability to presume the shape of dogs, I mean “why do they look like exactly dogs one would only expect from that part of the world”
I KNOW you lot know what I mean
^Thats the first thing I thought: How do these dogs…LOOK Japanese??
RIGHT?!?!
i dont belong anywhere.
Fear of being boring
If you were a child who grew up fearing that you’re boring everybody by talking, then it more than likely stemmed from invalidation as a child.
Sometimes as children we find a topic we enjoy, and talk endlessly about it. Most parents might not be wildly enthusiastic on the inside, but they will show interest for the child to validate them. Mine were different, they showed absolutley no interest whatsoever, no matter what the subject of interest was. They behaved as if I was boring them, or they said they were tired, busy or had a headache. Constant invalidation or uninterest was rampant in our house.
To make matters worse, they were fascinated if my brother brought up the same subject, and to this day they both deny their obvious favouritism. And on the rare occassions they did show interest, I found myself questioning the sincerity of their supposed interest. And then it happened. “We’re doing it to be polite”. Those words angrily buzzed like startled wasps in my brain. I was so surprised and hurt that they could lie, after screaming and calling me names for some sneaky lies (“no, I didn’t do anything wrong”). I stopped talking to them about things I liked altogether, not just to them, to everyone.
As a result, if I get carried away with a subject in adulthood, I repeatedly apologise for being boring or uninteresting. And if they do show interest, I always question the sincerity of it. “Are you sure I’m not boring?” “Really? If I am I’ll shut up”. Are two of my most common phrases. Other times I won’t care and I’ll waffle on about what I please. But there’s always a part of me that holds back on too much enthusiasm. I am always second guessing whether someone is genuinely interested in what I have to say. And this, parents, is why you validate your children. Otherwise they’ll grow up thinking everybody secretly hates them and is bored by them.
My mood is either “Be nice to everyone because that’s how you’d like to be treated” or “be mean to everyone they should feel the shit you felt” it’s never anything else
Why won’t you look at me?
Anyone else feeling hopelessly empty and lonely on this bitch of an earth today?? ? ??
Friendly Reminder
Just because they feed you, doesn’t mean they’re not abusive.
Just because they changed you as a baby, doesn’t mean they’re not abusive.
Just because they keep the roof over your head, doesn’t mean they’re not abusive.
Just because they pay for your food/ medical care, doesn’t mean they’re not abusive.
If your parents use the most basic necessary childcare against you in order to claim some fictious moral highground that exempts them from behaving in an abusive way, that itself is abuse.
If they throw what they do in your face as an attempt to force you to feel guilty about your own unchosen exsistence, that’s abuse.
If they invalidate you, but also convince you that their opinion is the only one that matters because they’re assuming a position of authority, that’s abuse.
Being a parent does not automatically void any abuse.
Something that really fucking sucks about BPD is that there’s no satiation. It doesn’t matter how much attention I get or how good I feel I’ll always go back to the empty pit of longing and not feeling good enough and it fucking sucks.
im the most emotional emotionless bitch
