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me when the disability is disabling 💔
the way im incapable of having a conversation about weight with normal people. those conversations feel like a mine field because there are no right answers. im not gonna feel sorry for you that you gained weight and i dont have any dieting tips and your self depreciating weight jokes arent funny and i dont feel like congratulating you on your weight loss with how mean to your past self you are being and it doesnt feel good that you think that me wanting to gain weight is weird or stupid. sorry
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guy who only experienced torture: this reminds me of the torture i went through
guy who only experienced torture: i don't like this because it's too unlike the torture
guy who only experienced torture: i'm afraid of not being tortured
''i wasted those years'' who cares. you lived the only life you could've lived in those moments
You did the best you could with all you had and knew. That was then. Here is now
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A Warioware-inspired Homestuck fangame, playable for free on your browser starting April 13th.
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Oh my god i need to change my life NOW i need to be something else i CAN'T keep living like this (Does nothing) (Does nothing) (Sits there) (Does nothing) (Doesn't move) (Does nothing) (Does nothing) (Does nothing) (Does nothing)
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Sending that risky text (to my father, asking for him to treat me like a human being)
Strangling every finance job bro in my brain right now
If anyone else asks me whats wrong with me one more time i guess i will just show them this blog and that will answer all of their questions in more details than they would like.
This entire post warrants a big fat trigger warning that i dont know how to properly apply so if anyone knows what theyre doing better than i do feel free to let me know if im doing it wrong
Sometimes when i think im being too mean to my dad in my thoughts or words i remember that when i was 100 days since my near-fatal suicide attempt that put me in a coma, i was really proud of myself for making it past a big milestone like that, so i wanted to ask if i could have one of the homestuck plushies from a while back (i believe for fans by fans) since they were getting rid of the last ones for cheap and they wouldnt be around anymore after that.
And i was scared to ask him about this because i thought he might yell at me. So in my therapy session, i said that. And of course they said "well i see youre anxious about your dad yelling at you, but i think he will be very proud of you if you approach him with such a big milestone. how about we work on some strategies to help us talk to him without being scared?" because ultimately, above all else, a victimized child is an unreliable narrator at worst.
And after working so hard on this fear of my father i approach him and say that maybe i could have a homestuck plushie since they were on sale for cheap and it had been a long time since i had tried to kill myself and i thought i was doing a pretty good job.
And of course he yelled at me, said that i only came to him when i needed him because i was so ungrateful, said that i was psychologically manipulative and evil just like his sister, all these things until i was crying. And yet he got me the plushies while this was happening. Like "yes i hate you and youre worthless scum and here you are". And he was trying to get the cat to sit with me so id feel better. All the while telling me about how awful i was.
And this is always what happened. He would hit me and i would cry and then at the end i would ask for a hug because thats what kids on tv did to their parents did when they were sad and he would say yes and i would be held by the arms that were just hitting me a few minutes ago and sobbing into him while he told me about what a bad child i was and i absorbed that and let it become a part of me.
I dont have the brain cells to psychoanalyze this right now but that probably means something. I think it made it harder for me to hate him, since he was being nice to me, clearly i was the problem and i deserved all of this for whatever evil things i was doing (being a child).
When the plushies arrived, i couldnt look at them without choking up and feeling sick. I loved homestuck and yet it hurt me so much. Looking at the mayor made me think about what i went through to get that mayor plushie and it didnt make me feel good to have it in the end because it really wasnt worth it.
Moral of the story is that its okay to hate your dad if he sucks and also get a new therapist sometimes. Having a therapist as a child is especially difficult because you want to say enough that they understand but not enough that they take you away. But sometimes this intersection is impossible. Sometimes what you went through warrants getting taken away because its no way for a child to be raised.
I cant speak for what its like to be removed from an abusive home because that never happened to me because my dad guilted me into minimizing my pain until it didnt exist. But at the very least i can grow up to be an adult and see a new therapist and say everything that happened to me without censoring myself or being told that it didnt happen or maybe the answer is to just try again.
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It is really sad that we have proven that the whole websites userbase can revolt loud enough to undo a change in seconds and yet we fail to use this power to combat the transphobia and misogyny and racism on this website.
Being in eating disorder recovery is such a strange strange thing. Although i often forget to eat, I will preach the importance of eating, snacking, taking care of yourself, after ive neglected myself of these things for so long.
But a few weeks ago someone told me that i snack a lot and i looked at them afraid, like somebody got shot. I know this startled them because they were quick to rescind their statement, but i know this isnt a statement that needs attonement.
Its like in my brain i know that i want to eat more and gain weight, but i am reminded of being yelled at and degraded for eating and cooking any time something happens. And in my soul, i know that snacking and gaining weight is a good thing. I just have to let the rest of my body know that too.