I hate the people who get mad at Tony for having a family in the five year gap. Like that somehow means he couldn't use his billions to help the earth (universe?) recover from the snap. Do they think he built 30 more iron man suits for no reason? They claim he abandoned the Avengers, but don't seem to want to think about who is still paying to keep the compound running. Then they try and pretend it's not implied Steve hasn't Avenged in a long time too. They just make up their own movie.
Thor: *spent the five-year gap as a reclusive, depressed alcoholic, abandoning his duties as king of his people in New Asgard*
Bruce: *spent the five-year gap eating at diners as Shrek*
Steve: *spent the five-year gap in Decimation group therapy sessions talking about a woman whose death was years before the Snap even happened*
Clint: *became a literal serial killer and spent the five-year gap murdering POCs in cold blood overseas*
Natasha: *spent the five-year gap back at the Compound running things and co-ordinating with Okoye, Rhodey, Carol, and Rocket etc. (and had Rhodey on a side mission trying to find Clint the Ripper)*
Tony: *spent the five-year gap raising his young daughter on a secluded lake farm with Pepper*
Antis really have no standards for any other characters whatsoever besides Tony, huh?