Iāll make sure you never get a date again.
Over two years ago, I dated a boy for around 5 or 6 months. Letās call him X. Ultimately, I broke up with X because he routinely sexually assaulted me, cheated on me, threatened to tell my mother horrific and untrue things about me if I left him, and many other things of that sort. We donāt talk regularly, but every time he likes a girl heāll pretend to text me accidentally and tell me about it in an attempt to make me jealous. I have a friend who X talks to regularly, and this friend will then tell me the name of the girl heās crushing on.
Every time this happens, I send the girl a DM. I tell her that I heard that X has been crushing on her, and that sheās free to make her own choices about dating him, but before she should do so she should know the kind of person he really is. I then tell her the truth about what he did to me, sprinkling in some old screenshots Iāve saved just for this occasion. I make sure to include that itās entirely possible he may have changed, but should they date she should look out for those warning behaviors. I ask her to please not share any of the information Iāve given her, as he could still tell my mother many of the thing she threatened to before (not that she would believe him).
So far, Iāve done this with 4 girls. None of them have ever said anything, and all of them have unexpectedly stopped talking to him out of nowhere (according to the mutual friend). He posts on social media all the time about how he can never get a date, and occasionally rants about how women are so picky and choosy and always flake out halfway through a flirtatious relationship.
It may seem over the top, but the sexual abuse I suffered through has deeply affected me, and I fully intend to make sure he can never get a date again. Take that, b*tch. (source)
Nothing wrong with looking out for other women!!
