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i have been struggling with my mental health the last couple of weeks, it has been hard to balance work & school but I’m slowly trying to go back to my routines with a healthier approach 🌷
how will 2019 go for you?
︾ some posts to help synthesize ︾
numerology for 2019 - where you are in your 9 year cycle and how it mingles with the universal 3 year
a general outlook through the modality of your planets
jupiter transiting the fire houses, earth houses, air houses, and water houses - in what ways you will be both relieved of and granted with opportunities while jupiter is in sagittarius
the approaching conjunction of saturn to pluto - whatever house is occupied with capricorn (specifically 18-23 degrees) will be what you are dedicated to - you are persisting and facing major barriers while also creating your own boundaries to better resiliency here
uranus and chiron ingress into taurus and aries - a major new chapter of development
for a more personal analysis: find what transiting outer planets/nn are aspecting your natal planets/angles and possible formations of aspect patterns. look to your progressed chart for shifts (planets changing sign or houses, angles changing sign, new aspects within the progressed chart) new aspects to your natal chart, and transiting outer planets/nn aspecting the progressions. look to your solar return chart (it’s a birthday to birthday - 1 year outlook so if your birthday is later in the year, after july or so, be sure to look at your sr for 2018 as it is still in effect. we can feel our sr charts up to 3 months before they happen though so if you begin to feel different a month or two before your birthday and feel your life is taking a turn look to your 2019 sr chart)
I don’t know who needs to hear this right now, but your progress is not ruined after 1 bad day, 2 bad days, maybe even a month or more of bad days. Everything you experienced and learned during that time is valuable and essential for your growth. Forgive yourself, and try again.
Not OP but I have a follow up from your comments on Raskolnikov in C&P. Are INTJs and INFJs equally likely to be delusional because Ni is the main problem?
Probably. Recall that Ni is a perception function, which means that it is an irrational function. When taken only on its own, dominant Ni is susceptible to false beliefs because it enables one to easily believe that one's intuitions are true or even "The Truth". To counter this tendency, the judging functions must be developed properly, so that one understands the importance of putting intuitions through proper examination and verification.
All else being equal, INTJs and INFJs have the same odds of suffering from unhealthy Ni. However, the manner in which they become delusional is different, because the other functions also contribute their dysfunction. Remember that people don't only use one function. INTJs usually become delusional through an entirely unearned confidence in their speculations, while INFJs usually become delusional through very faulty logical justifications of their speculations. Intuition is speculation and Ns suffer when they keep mistaking it as fact.
Attracted to...
Venus in:
Aries: Boldness, High Energy, Confidence, Intensity, Adrenaline
Gemini: Wit, Intelligence, Play, Giggles, Knowledge
Taurus: Sensuality, Stability, Loyalty, indulgence, sexuality
Cancer: Imagination, Nurture, empathy, humor, sensitivity
Leo: Drama, adoration, affection, extravagance, admiration
Virgo: Wit, Care, practicality, intelligence, Serving
Libra: Harmony, diplomacy, intelligence, romance, fairy tails
Scorpio: mystery, transformation, secrets, intensity, possession
Sagittarius: Expansion, humor, optimism, freedom, travel
Capricorn: Support, formality, productivity, ambition, dry humor
Aquarius: Eccentricity, originality, innovation, quirks, intelligence
Pisces: Art, Spirituality, empathy, escapism, illusions
Venus Signs And Standards
Hi! So, I’ve noticed that the Venus sign usually dictates your standards for yourself and others.
Venus in Aries: Believes that themselves and everyone else should be fun and lively. They hate stick-in-the-mud types. You’ve got to be fun to be with these people! They like impulse too, a meticulous planner (me) would probably annoy them.
Venus in Taurus: These people love stability and pragmatism. Instability terrifies them! They love people that seem to have their shit together. They’re also slow movers, so don’t try to force them into anything.
Venus in Gemini: These people want to be smart and they expect everyone else to be as well. People who can’t keep up with them intellectually piss them off. They also hate it when people seem smarter than them, trust me on this one! They also love diversity!
Venus in Cancer: These people believe that they are nurturing and loving, so everyone else should be too. Cold, uncaring types are not right for these people. Yeah, they don’t like aloofness either *cough* Aquarius *cough*.
Venus in Leo: These people think they’re fun, so that’s what they expect of everyone else. Shyness isn’t their thing either, they prefer more outgoing types. They’re ready to party!!!!
Venus in Virgo: My Venus. These people have ridiculous standards. They have lists of qualities that people need to have. If it’s not a written list, it’s a mental one. Don’t try to fucking tell me otherwise, I know myself and I know other Venus in Virgo people. To be fair, their standards for themselves are just as high if not higher than their standards for others, hence why many of them are very self-critical.
Venus in Libra: These people think they’re very polite and charming and everyone else should be that way as well. Brash, rude types are not their thing! They’re all about peace and harmony. Isn’t that lovely?
Venus in Scorpio: These people are deep, complex, and sexy and they expect everyone else to be on their level. Shallow people aren’t their cup of tea. Stuck up or prudish types rub them the wrong way as well.
Venus in Sagittarius: These people are adventurous and philosophical and they expect everyone else to be that way. They don’t like those boring, sit around types, they want fun! Close-mindedness is very off-putting to these people.
Venus in Capricorn: These people view themselves as pretty serious and capable, so everyone else must be like that as well. Super emotional types who can’t keep their shit together are not very appealing to these people. They love status too!
Venus in Aquarius: These people think they’re objective and unique, so they like objective and unique people. They hate conformists! Super clingy types are not for them, they just want a nice, quirky discussion.
Venus in Pisces: These people aren’t very picky. They kind of just freely give love. Isn’t that so endearing? They just like kind people. This placement makes me smile.
venus in aries requires: excitement, crusades, play provides you: loyalty, stimulation, protection
venus in taurus requires: continuity, sexual appreciation, pleasure provides you: comfort, repose, sensuality
venus in gemini requires: lightness, open communication, change provides you: amusement, knowledge, laughter
venus in cancer requires: reassurance, affection, solace provides you: warmth, unconditional love, guardianship
venus in leo: requires: validation, royal treatment, treasuring provides you: sunshine, pride, exuberant affection
venus in virgo: requires: routine, recognition, mental rapport provides you: support, understanding, healing
venus in libra: requires: devotion, traditional romance, companionship provides you: equality, gentleness, allegiance
venus in scorpio: requires: depth, provocation, curiosity invocation provides you: passion, mystic riches, dedication
venus in sagittarius: requires: movement, variation, intellectual rapport provides you: wisdom, joy, worldliness
venus in capricorn: requires: encouragement, the promise of something long term, vision provides you: inspiration, safety, dependability
venus in aquarius: requires: independence, eccentricity, mental stimulation provides you: insight, exhilaration, sexual liberation
venus in pisces: requires: tranquility, safekeeping, a sanctuary for the both of you provides: empathy, otherworldly transportation, guidance
earth moons + relationships
earth moons (taurus/virgo/capricorn), emotionally, need security. the emotions of an earth moon like to be kept to themselves as they strive to balance themselves without help. earth signs like efficiency and dislike dependency. they need a sounding board, someone to simply listen when it comes to be more than they bargained for. giving advice or suggestions isn’t what they want to hear, they want to know they’ve been heard. as the words come out, their head will be searching for their next step.
earth moon + fire venus
molten lava; gushing but solid. this combo needs for their lover to have the spontaneity you’d find in an affair but the consistency of a relationship. they will love to keep you on your toes but at the end of the day they need to know that you’ll stick around because although independent, their earth sensitivity will worry that you’re not the real deal. their emotions are a self-made foundation while their love is in your face demanding a hot pursuit. this lover may challenge you, test you if you will; it lets them know where you stand with them.
earth moon + earth venus
rock solid as heck. they yearn for a partnership that is of equals. a down to earth lover who wants you to be reliable, always there at the drop of a hat. an extensive level comfort is something that will be a necessity, whether it be in a casual fling or a serious relationship. maturity is a highly admirable trait for them as they want a well-rounded, established relationship. this person will stick around through the good, bad, and indifferent. a taurus venus is a high security bank, a virgo venus is the reliable assistant, and a capricorn venus is the CEO.
earth moon + air venus
boss combo. as in, this person will be independent down to a ‘t’. they have the ability to look at their relationship in the most rational of ways and understand when to confront issues in such. they’ll be up for late night talks and they’ll be there for early morning blues. they can seem a bit flighty at times and they may even be flirtatious but commitment is something they’ll take somberly. though it may take a while to find someone to keep them stimulated, once that connection is made, its durable.
earth moon + water venus
loving almost to a fault. the emotions of an earth moon are generally kept behind the curtain as the person sorts out any issues internally. earth moons will be inclined to seem sure of themselves as they feel they can handle it while a water venus will give themselves wholeheartedly in a relationship, no matter what. this person will strive for a safe, deep-rooted connection. they may get tugged between their earthy practicality and watery sentimentality which can lead to a feeling for them of being out of their element (no pun intended). their water venus’ sacrificing nature may drive their earth’s need for security.
Venus
Venus in Aries: steamy windows and beat up converse
Venus in Taurus: va-va-voom curves and independence
Venus in Gemini: mental journeys and pixie haircuts
Venus in Cancer: white lace dresses and innocence
Venus in Leo: glowing tans and hollywood glamour
Venus in Virgo: nerd glasses and sexy intellect
Venus in Libra: killer smiles and floral sundresses
Venus in Scorpio: funeral roses and black lace
Venus in Sagittarius: toe rings and wandering souls
Venus in Capricorn: winter beauty and stilettos
Venus in Aquarius: purple hair and open-relationships
Venus in Pisces: soft curls and romance books
Do's + Your Venus Sign
Venus in Aries: Do keep me on my toes
Venus in Taurus: Do be in it for the long haul
Venus in Gemini: Do stimulate my mind
Venus in Cancer: Do make me feel safe
Venus in Leo: Do let me show you off
Venus in Virgo: Do let me help you
Venus in Libra: Do treat me as your equal
Venus in Scorpio: Do let me protect you
Venus in Sagittarius: Do be upfront with me
Venus in Capricorn: Do let me know where I stand
Venus in Aquarius: Do give me space every now and then
Venus in Pisces: Do be gentle with me
Don'ts + Your Venus Sign
Venus in Aries: Don't bore me
Venus in Taurus: Don't be impatient with me
Venus in Gemini: Don't be too serious
Venus in Cancer: Don't leave me hanging
Venus in Leo: Don't neglect me
Venus in Virgo: Don't take me for granted
Venus in Libra: Don't take advantage of my kindness
Venus in Scorpio: Don't betray my trust
Venus in Sagittarius: Don't fence me in
Venus in Capricorn: Don't try to pry into me
Venus in Aquarius: Don't be ordinary
Venus in Pisces: Don't push me away