Stay Out Of My Pants

Starting a new post because the other one has almost completely fizzled out. Hi, we're a family of trans women. We need help with rent, medicine, other bills and dealing with our bank account screwing with our money. Please help us and out cat @rickybabyboy stay housed.

To be very, very clear, if I do not get the help I need I will need to sell my wheelchair and I will not be able to leave my apartment.

$665/$1050 raised

Edit: unexpected bills, need for temporary medicine alternative

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I am begging one more time, please dont make me sell my wheelchair and lose the ability to leave my apartment whatsoever.

So I'm going to be honest, we need significant help, we need to get more groceries then I thought because I spent so long trying to avoid fundraising for it, we need to finish up fundraising for psychiatry, get more medicine for both of us and cover a few household things (one of which is hanging the ethernet wiring because we're having trouble with tripping on the cables lately). Along with all that I am going to need to raise $1000 for rent this month because I needed to use some of what we get for help to pay back people that helped us last month. Please help a family of disabled trans women and our cat @rickybabyboy stay housed. Thank you for reading.

$392/$1300 raised

Edit: if we do not get this help I will have to sell my wheelchair to make ends meet, I am begging you all to help

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We need to start raising money for rent and to refill another couple prescriptions. We're two disabled trans women who had a very hard month attempting not to get evicted please help us make sure that wasnt for nothing! If it helps we're the moms of @rickybabyboy

$475/$1050 raised

Edit: bills

Edit: money didnt come in that was supposed to

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Urgent help needed for trans family

Hi, I'm remaking my post because I worded it badly and we really need help with rent and now medicine and food very urgently (by October 1st). Please help @rickybabyboy s moms!!

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We're almost halfway there!!

Urgent help needed for trans family

Hi, I'm remaking my post because I worded it badly and we really need help with rent and now medicine and food very urgently (by October 1st). Please help @rickybabyboy s moms!!

$235/$1050 raised

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Making this post now so we have a bit more time. We need to raise money for rent, I would like to try and give my girlfriend who has been helping a lot with rent a break for a couple months and if we can raise $1000 I can do that and during that time I also won't need to ask you all for help with rent. Please help two disabled trans woman and @rickybabyboy stay housed.

$95/$1000 raised

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lynette-mirror

Otoge heroines as LIs

part 2 https://www.tumblr.com/lynette-mirror/768541890777841664/otoge-heroines-as-lis-part-2-part-1

communistkirby

4/15

$0/1100

yo, back again with another rent post. yet again, i still have not established a solution for our abject poverty, so please, if you would be so kind, please help us out in this trying time

again, as always DO NOT TAG THIS POST with anything. Thank you in advance!

communistkirby

5/6

$872.45/1100

Ok folks! today is the last day before our rent is officially overdue. we need $227.55 to close it out and we need it by the 7th. please help us, I can't stress enough how urgent this is

Help a disabled transfem family eat

Hi, I know people usually don't want to help with food but I'm hoping I can get even a little help with it since we're struggling with it pretty hard. Please help us out by sharing and/or donating if you can.

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had a really really weird interaction with a dude today that tried to get me to be some weird proxy to roleplay and get with my dnd character???? i started having a breakdown and borderline panic attack but a couple of friends were available to chat and it helped keep my sanity in check

the guy was nice and kept saying stuff that got my guard down so to suddenly take a left turn like that really got to me i think lol

told the dm about it to get him kicked bc fuck that noise

anyways sometimes men suck and now i need advil for my headache

#rambles #life #sadly i need a cleanse now so im gonna chill it on some stuff before i get back to functioning funny order #dude has kids #and idk if he's got a wife or a partner or what #he never brought it up i don't think #who knows #this was definitely a first for me

been having a lot of bad physical/mental reactions and struggling with balancing things out so i scheduled an extra session with my therapist later this week. Also talked to my mom and she, my sister, and i are gonna get lunch on friday. i'm playing dnd tonight and tomorrow i should be playing bg3 with a friend attempting honor mode again.

having a lot of social plans line up like this i think is gonna help bc i did notice socializing is helping ease things off as a distraction and eases a lot of body tension for me (which is hard when im on my own)

setting up a session with my therapist and even asking my mom to give me a hug this morning (the lunch plan was her idea after) helped a lot before there was follow up action. It just always feels better for me to take action vs sorting through it mentally! was even a discussion i had with my mom at work about family she knew that would be able to more reliably soothe themselves just mentally

which, i CAN tbh, but mostly when it's a familiar experience? or had time to practice LOL i'm more solid about grief, anxiety, and even anger sources now but when the root cause is something very unfamiliar??? guess im a hot mess LOL

it is what it is in that department so hopefully this week ends on a better note hahaha

the guy was nice and kept saying stuff that got my guard down so to suddenly take a left turn like that really got to me i think lol

told the dm about it to get him kicked bc fuck that noise

anyways sometimes men suck and now i need advil for my headache

woah man new car who this

bought a car for the very first time late last month!! learned some stuff i didn't find out in my researching. i financed a fresh new car! unfortunately, what's not often mentioned, even if a new car gets a lower APR, if you're a first time buyer your APR is a lot higher. so that was a killer 😮‍💨

then i learned my FICO scores are way lower than the silly vantage scores from credit karma showing me. so there was less confidence to make the apr lower

looked into why finally after hunting down a FICO score from one bureau.... and it was exactly the reason why i thought it was while in the finance office. one old card i'm still paying off is fucking up my score!!! bc it was done as a charge off!!! so even though i've been slowly paying it off, that's actually bad!!! bc the account sits there, every month, claiming i have a late/non payment..... even though i pay their internal collections every month!!! i hate credit card companies man....

with some extra help, i'm putting a big payment down to get them GONE and hopefully they'll pull off my history quickly since I paid in full.... i'll be done paying them off in July at least so it gives time

I plan to refinance my car to help with the current payments i gotta make but i won't be looking into that until my score improves and generally gonna wait until like Septemberish

At least my insurance isn't too bad! still on my mom's plan but i'm just gonna stay on it since i get a better plan for much cheaper through her 😂 and i just pay her back

in the end it's so nice i've got a fresh new car, a functioning ac, so much modern tech without it being overwhelming bc the car is still pretty mechanical, and TINTED WINDOWSSSSS

they were able to tint the windows while i was at the dealership (they said they do that but i'd probably needed to come back, sales guy was able to get them to tint them while we were talking to the insurance guys) and ever since then it's been a whole new world (old car wasn't tinted at all the whole near 12 years i had it)

the payment situation isn't as overwhelming after the fact at least! not as scary? intimidating? mainly because i can make a plan of action to make it easier. and also the fact that im building better spending habits since the start of the year its helped to build more financial confidence in myself hehehe

my financials are finally starting to get into a rhythm! thanks to that, even though this next paycheck is going to hurt a tiny bit from being less, the actual money that's going out this week (between expected weekly, paying off previous expected payments but via credit card with no excess, and saving for monthly expected costs, not paying off excessive purchases) is so little that i still have a good chunk leftover i could cry

i got so used to sending out hundreds every week towards credit cards and never catching up that it's so weird to see it feels illegal LOL

i'm moving a tiny chunk into my emergency fund, and i think at the end of the month i'm gonna assess what all can go to what savings

might make another savings account for specific sinking funds i want to save and prepare for. I have one for max's vet future vet bills i anticipate but i want one more for me? although i would just need to assess it because i have technically another one for the money i give my mom for car insurance and then my therapy sessions.

i'm thinking maybe of just having a car specific account? for future car payments and proper insurance and anything else that comes with cars. i have a car specific credit card for emergency or smaller purchases like fuel but that could just be me being excessive

we'll see! i like organization but even i know i shouldn't go super crazy so i need to space out when i do things

i think i'm just getting overstimulated again with getting stuff done LOL

already had my room rearranged yesterday with my mom's help and i need to still go through the little things to figure out what to get rid of or keep

gonna take that day by day even though it's really making me want to spend money LOL

WHICH i already beat it back last time it happened last month i can DO IT AGAIN

definitely a sign i need that weighted hoodie my therapist and i talked about since this is starting to become a pattern lol

overall goals i need to get the hoodie, save the last 1k i need to solidify 1 month emergency fund, and then save 1k for future car. also saving bulk for the 6m insurance cost and then all the extra costs that come with new cars

feels like a lot but i think im getting to a point where it feels a little more feasible. just gotta make sure to work this saturday for that sweet sweet extra cash

my therapist recommended for me to get something weighted when i get overstimulated with too much physical energy and i found a hoodie and brand i could get (that others recommend) but it's so EXPENSIVE im gonna have to save up for it i cry

the hope is i can buy it by the end of this month or sometime in april

feeling pretty down and depressed this week bc of a lot of stuff just adding up between worry, fear, disappointments, stuff being overwhelming

i think it's time i broke out the old otome games to spark joy

apparently i haven't touched any really since 2023

i played one for a bit and while the common route in this is a bit of a drag i felt alive playing it so :)

i remember i was starting on a route i wasn't interested in to ease through story stuff and build up but i think the long break gave me room to enjoy even the route im not interested in again LOL

in a shocking turn of events something got to uplift my mood a little but NOT on the way i anticipated.

tyranny saturday we were supposed to get a beach episode but didn't bc someone new suddenly joined our group so plot continued a bit and idk when we're getting beach episode anymore and ive been asking for it for ages cries

and it feels like a lot still continues bc now we're trying to find my girlie's home apparently and she's NOT A FAN and the new guy seems fine as a person but he's not that great at paying attention which is interesting but if he keeps trying to discuss the rules a bunch i'm using the campaign as nap time bc wtf

that got me so deflated that sunday i didn't even go into work like i planned all week so comes curse of strahd where i was stressing all WEEK about the upcoming fight..... and also getting through the bulk of the fight then learning there was a BOSS FIGHT BEING SUMMONED????? WE STILL FUCKING WON????? thanks to a between combat phases lvl up, me shifting and keeping full focus on healing (i'm a life cleric too), some smart plays from our warlock that saved my ass, and solid teamwork WE WON BOTH FIGHTS EVEN THO THE BOSS HAD NEARLY FULL HEALTH..... there were deaths but no perma deaths so had some injuries

im still in awe of us winning and saving the NPC we were looking for (that i helped earlier that day)..... we survived our first night in the village of barovia and there's more mysteries to uncover hehehehe (there was a beat where the group was spending WAY too long on discussing rules on Twin Spell and some death saves during combat i nearly fell asleep and the chopin music didn't help LOL so its even more shocked things picked up again afterwards)

the night cost us a hand, a leg, someone's hearing, and a broken rib, but we LIVED SLUTS!!! TAKE THAT STRAHD

#rambles #dnd session

feeling pretty down and depressed this week bc of a lot of stuff just adding up between worry, fear, disappointments, stuff being overwhelming

i think it's time i broke out the old otome games to spark joy

apparently i haven't touched any really since 2023

i played one for a bit and while the common route in this is a bit of a drag i felt alive playing it so :)

i remember i was starting on a route i wasn't interested in to ease through story stuff and build up but i think the long break gave me room to enjoy even the route im not interested in again LOL