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🌈🌈🌈 PROSHIP DISCORD SERVER HI
were lowkey DYING i dont wanna become inactive and i feel like it being a dm-only type thing was the problem so. HERE IS OUTWARDLY THE DIRECT LINK. there is a short form just to make sure youre the target audience!! but!!! its easy i promise
were proship/fic, propara (ANTI CONTAAAAAACT.), pro all good faith labels, andddd? we have pluralkit+tupperbox, various art channels, various dedicated ship/fic channels, and an open suggestions channel you can recommend WHATVEERRRR
server owner CHILL but also lowkey a menace hey hi. im very lenient and friendly i only bite if im excited (threat)
server is 15+ by the by and owner is a teenager! if that makes you uncomfy i understand you dont gotta be here
were very chaotic please join
ACCEPTING OF EVERY AND ALL FANDOMS PLS PLS PLS SHARE YOUR FANDOMS W US!!! AND/OR OCS!!! MULTIFANDOM SERVER!!! NO MATTER HOW CRINGE!!! B W US!!!!
also i feel its important to mention: this is NOT a radqueer server but if you feel safe here as a rq you are 100% allowed but be aware there are anti-rqs myself included. its not my business to decide whether or not youre worthy of a safe space just make sure to not make anyone uncomfortable or hurt and that goes for EVERYONE this is a space of peace and joy there will be ZERO ILL INTENT and when i see that i shut it down QUICK dont mess w me grrrrr growl
lmao imagine saying you're plur when youre literally supporting the spreading of CSEM and perpetuating the cycle of grooming. gross. you'll never be plur.
gang this blog aint even active anymore who the fuck are you talking to
also as a csem vicitm, WHAAAAAAAAT???
stay away from children. fiction is NOT csem stay away from children please i beg of you FGET OUT
i literally just came here to check an old blog and i see you trying to like. intimidate me?? use scary words to make me feel guilty??
"heh... the blogs inactive... now i can send hatemail because they wont respond to it and im too scared of confrontation! h-heh, im so badass..." LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO kiss me
hi guys havent logged in here for a while but im alive i promise. im the mod that deals with like the. management? the person who is not the persona of this account. idk what to call myself. IM THE SECOND MOD 💥💥💥💥THE ONE THAT💥 who cares honestly
this blog is HIGHKEY INACTIVE so sorry. its been. two months. which isnt awful HOWEVER
me and Numero Uno Mod had a Drama and we kinda ghosted each other and ig hes been salty and hasnt posted on ANY of his socials including this one which ok whatever.
i. MIGHT talk about it like another time but idk if that would feel. overreactinf? idk it was like a personal me and him problem it feels a bit stupid to make it yalls problem i DONT KNOW but i just felt i should give like a proper. "hey. this blog is officially Dead" (well like not really i might just take over but YOU KNOWWWW i cant make any promises)
anyways sorry guysm been fun love yall kiss kiss hug. love yourselves foreveer be in peace take no shit and spread no evil i have you all in my hearts 🐛🐛🐛🐛🐛 dms always open i think. just slow responses thanks kiss kiss kiss
despite being insanely involved with proship/antiship shit I have never EVER seen an self proclaimed anti NOT go against their own values
"all of us want people to get better and have therapy" then uses "fat", "fatherless", "psychopath", and "delusional" as an insult, triggers proshippers purposefully, stalks, and interacts/supports people who does these things. plus a ton of y'all resort to suicide and death threats when somebody is weird and/or disordered in a way you don't like.
"we just don't want children to think incest is okay" then threatens, grooms, gaslights, or even ships REAL people with REAL rapists just because theyre a proshipper (also, look after your own damn kids.)
"but these topics are seen as desirable, and can still influence anybody" then enjoys media that has you play as a murderer, media that is just about gore, or media that is told by an unreliable character (eg. tell-tale heart, lolita, etc) that shows their criminal actions in a good/okay light.
"this is/could be illegal, so you shouldn't do it" then plays/watches free/pirated games and movies, threatens others, and has probably vandalized a structure in a way they don't realize (or acknowledge) (also how is liking a ship ever going to get close to being illegal?)
"your content could trigger somebody" then, again, will send threats, stalk, say that proshippers deserve their trauma, and do nothing except belittle them
How to know if you've been manipulated into believing you are an anti
> Guilt by Association:
If you've been told that liking certain content automatically makes you a bad person or aligns you with harmful groups, that's a red flag. This tactic plays on guilt and can push you to reject things based on fear, not your own beliefs.
> Pressure to Conform
Have you ever felt like you must agree with a group or face being ostracized or attacked? Manipulation often relies on social pressure to force people into one perspective.
> Misinformation
If the arguments against proship rely on scare tactics or misinformation (like over-generalizing harmful behavior or falsely equating fiction to reality), that’s a sign that you may have been influenced through fear rather than facts.
> Silencing Nuanced Conversations
If you’ve noticed that discussions around proship/anti-ship in your circles discourage nuance, critical thinking, or even hearing out differing opinions, it’s likely you’ve been steered into a rigid belief system.
> Disconnecting from Your Own Likes
If you once enjoyed certain ships or fictional works but now feel uncomfortable or ashamed to admit it(without any clear personal reason)ask yourself if that shame was imposed from outside.
> Shaming for Thought Crimes
If you've been made to feel guilty or ashamed for simply thinking about a ship or idea, even if you’ve never acted on it, that’s a form of thought policing. This tactic implies that even private enjoyment of fiction is wrong and that you're only “good” if your thoughts align with a certain group.
> Cult-Like Group Dynamics
Does the community you’re involved in enforce strict rules about what can and can’t be enjoyed, isolating or attacking anyone who doesn’t follow the norm? Manipulative groups often demand loyalty to a single cause or belief system, punishing deviation with social exclusion, harassment, or cancellation.
> You Feel Conflicted
If deep down you still enjoy certain ships or fandom content but feel torn between your personal enjoyment and the pressure to conform, take this as a sign. Internal conflict often arises when you’re being pushed into beliefs that don’t align with your authentic self.
> Over-reliance on “Influencers”
If you’ve formed your opinions solely based on what online personalities or fandom influencers have said, you might want to rethink. Influencers can sometimes push their own agendas, and it’s important to critically evaluate their claims rather than blindly accepting them.
> Redefining Terms
Have you noticed how certain communities redefine words like “abuse” or “harm” to fit their agenda? Manipulators often blur the line between fiction and reality by changing definitions. For instance, enjoying a fictional ship doesn’t mean supporting real-life harm, but some people will try to convince you otherwise to gain control over the narrative.
> Fear of Being “Canceled”
If your fear of being attacked or “canceled” is driving you to adopt anti-proship views, then your stance is likely based on external pressure, not personal conviction. The fear of social backlash can force people into silence or compliance, even when they don’t truly agree with the anti-proship movement.
> Gaslighting
If people in your fandom spaces make you question your own enjoyment of ships, telling you that your feelings are “wrong” or that “you don’t realize how harmful that content is,” you might be experiencing gaslighting. They’re trying to make you doubt your own tastes and values, convincing you to adopt theirs instead.
> Virtue Signaling
Does your involvement with anti-proship ideas feel more about proving that you’re “good” or “moral” in the eyes of others? Virtue signaling often relies on outwardly showing alignment with the “correct” opinion without encouraging deeper thought.
> Isolation
If you’ve been cut off from friends or fandoms that are proship, ask yourself if this was really your choice. Manipulators often push you to distance yourself from people or spaces that don’t align with their views, isolating you in a controlled environment where your new beliefs are constantly reinforced.
> Moral Panic Culture
Have you noticed how anti-proship rhetoric mirrors larger societal moral panics, where certain ideas or interests are exaggerated to be dangerous or harmful? These movements often rely on fear-mongering, claiming that enjoying fictional content can lead to real-world harm, without concrete evidence to support it. Being swept up in a moral panic can make you feel like you’re doing the “right” thing, but it often stifles critical thinking.
> The “Right Way” to Fandom
If you’ve been told there’s only one way to enjoy fandom and that anything outside of those strict guidelines is wrong, you’ve likely encountered gatekeeping. Fandom is about exploring different interests, genres, and relationships. There’s no “right” or “wrong” way to engage with fictional content, but manipulation tactics thrive by enforcing rigid boundaries and shaming those who deviate.
Vs the ACTUAL Antis - how they behave?
In many fandom spaces, the term "anti" refers to individuals or groups who position themselves against certain ships, content, or fan activities, often on moral grounds. However, beneath the surface of this "moral crusade," many antis engage in harmful behaviors that revolve around bullying and censorship rather than promoting genuine discourse or protecting others from harm.
> The Focus on Bullying
Antis often claim their actions are about "protecting" people, especially minors, from harmful content. However, what they’re really doing is targeting and harassing individuals who enjoy certain ships or tropes they dislike.
Public Shaming: Antis will often single out and publicly humiliate individuals over their fandom interests, especially if they engage with “problematic” ships or tropes. This public shaming can include doxxing (releasing personal information), starting harassment campaigns, and rallying others to dogpile their target.
Harassment and Threats: Instead of engaging in productive conversation or respecting different views, antis frequently resort to sending hate messages, insults, and even death threats to people who engage in content they think is inappropriate. This extreme bullying behavior shows that the goal isn’t about morality—it’s about control.
Name-Calling and Labels: Antis are quick to label anyone who disagrees with them as dangerous or morally corrupt. They’ll often call people “abusers,” “pedophiles,” or “incest apologists” simply for enjoying certain fictional ships, even if those claims have no basis in reality.
> Censorship Over Discussion
Antis don’t engage in thoughtful dialogue or debate—they aim to censor and silence any opinions that don’t align with theirs.
Mass Reporting: One common tactic is organizing mass reporting campaigns to get fan art, fanfiction, or even entire blogs taken down. They’ll flag content they disagree with, often manipulating platform policies to enforce bans or removals, regardless of whether the content actually violates terms of service.
Policing Tags and Spaces: Antis frequently attempt to take control of fandom spaces by policing tags, platforms, and even fan events. They demand that certain ships or content be removed or banned, claiming that those things "shouldn't exist," and attacking creators who refuse to comply with their demands.
Gatekeeping: Antis often act as gatekeepers, deciding who is “allowed” to participate in fandom and who isn’t. They’ll dictate what types of content are "acceptable" and label any content or creator they disagree with as problematic, often pushing for full exclusion of that person or fandom from certain spaces.
> Hypocrisy in Morality Policing
Claiming to Protect While Harming: While antis claim they are trying to protect marginalized groups or young people from harmful content, they’re actually perpetuating harm by bullying, attacking, and driving people away from fandom spaces.
Attacking Minors: Ironically, many antis target the very people they claim to protect. Minors who engage with fandom content—whether they’re artists, writers, or just fans—are often harassed, attacked, and shamed for their interests, even if those interests are completely harmless. Antis frequently ignore the well-being of the people they supposedly advocate for, focusing instead on being “right.”
> Bullying and Censorship Aren't Fandom Values
At its core, fandom is about creativity, exploration, and community. It’s a space where people can engage with fiction in personal ways, often as a means of expressing themselves or processing difficult emotions. Antis, however, turn fandom into a battleground for moral purity, where bullying and censorship are used to force conformity.
If your fandom experience is being dictated by fear of harassment or being censored, it’s important to step back and recognize that this behavior is not normal or healthy. Fandom should be a place of joy, not a place of judgment. No one should be bullied for their fictional preferences, and everyone deserves the freedom to engage with media in their own way. Don’t let antis rob you of the freedom to explore and create.
“ugh why do proshippers get all the cute artstyles, emoji combos, and flags!?!?” because harassment and bullying is ugly. the literal point of being an anti means you are pro censorship. you destroy creativity simply because you dislike it. of course the non-hateful people are going to be more creative and have cuter things because we are free to express ourselves and don’t bring others down for harmless things.
YouTube and tiktok are the worst places to be HUMANS on. Neither site is for sharing content, it's for sharing PRODUCT. If you're not a consumer that buys everything you see, you won't survive on either. And this applies metaphorically too; if you don't agree with all the ragebait on there, you will NOT be making it out in one sane piece.
Pet peeve: people online will act disgusted by the term "ageplay" because they don't actually care to read what it means and assume the worst and then turn around and call a pretty woman "dommy mommy" when that is literally ageplay
also people will agree that it's good to 'heal your inner child <3' but then get angry when you fantasize about consensual role-play where you can let your childish side be free and allow yourself to be taken care of because it falls under the 'bdsm' umbrella and they're unable to understand that bdsm isn't a synonym for 'spicy sex'
It especially bothers me when I see it in queer people's DNI list like babe don't you too grieve all the years we've lost? All the years in the closet, or dealing with dysphoria, not allowed to be ourselves? Can't you have compassion for the people who want to roleplay or even just fantasize about a re-do?
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