[proxyparasite]

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ VINCENZIO / NNY

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ NC - 17

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎THEY / IT / HE‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ⦻‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ SYS OF ~80

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ⚠︎ — RADQUEER , PROFIC , PROKINK

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ PROPARA FREAK.

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎DONT LIKE ? DONT INTERACT.

TRANS : TRANSFEM, MASC, OWNER, OWNED, WORSE, HARMFUL, PROXY

TRIS : CLICKER TRAINED, PET, HARMED

CIS : PERVERT, NPD, BIPOLAR, CLINICAL DEPRESSION, GAD, ADHD, NONBINARY

PERMA : PERVERT, CREEP

pfp art: MarbleHail_ — twitter

[thebostonstrangler]

hi. just wanted to let you know that zach (zachzwh0re) is actively friends with permamonika/jay (a groomer/predator) and has said that he doesnt care. a headmate of mine has spoken to zach about it, and its clear that he genuinely doesnt care about the victims of jay or jays actions. youre free to say whatever you want, i just wanted to let you know.

— alex ; he / they

yyikes…

[proxyparasite]

yeah. ive seen him interact with multiple of my mutuals so im trying to let all of them know.

[deusben]

can we jerk eachother off during a horror movie or

[proxyparasite]

mysterious skin altered my brain chemistry.

[zanemaxxing]

i need people to be more okay with transharmfuls being nice. being fun. being whimsical. liking cute things. being good people. caring for others.

being transharmful isnt always towards everyone around you. we can love people too. we can be affectionate and kind and loving just as much as everyone else.

and we are just as deserving of love and affection as transharmed or other transid users. not all of us are big scary standoffish people.

[preachersboy-resurrected]

[snvffpilled]

Reminder to please take ID tips with a grain of salt, and research experiences of those who are cis/natal ID. I've seen many posts attempting to give tips spread harmful stereotypes.

[laceheartlocket]

[boysnbenderz]

I like my moots perverted and scary

[420dere]

posting my activism here because its important , radq or not . but the rqc is particularly guilty because they do it WHILE claiming to be radically inclusive and accepting.

i rlly encourage EVERYONE to reblog this & make an effort to educate yourself and others , as well as correcting people when you see blatant misuse of AAVE . its not always intentional , so be kind , but dont tolerate the behavior . please do feel free to ask any clarifying questions , okay ? i'll provide any resources i can .

WOKE DOES NOT MEAN "INCLUSIVE" OR "LIBERAL". USING IT AS SUCH IS EXTREMELY DISRESPECTFUL & RACIST

[pt. WOKE DOES NOT MEAN "INCLUSIVE" OR "LIBERAL". USING IT AS SUCH IS EXTREMELY DISRESPECTFUL & RACIST]

UNC DOES NOT MEAN "OLD" OR "OUT OF TOUCH". USING IT AS SUCH IS EXTREMELY DISRESPECTFUL & RACIST

[pt. UNC DOES NOT MEAN "OLD" OR OUT OF TOUCH. USING IT AS SUCH IS EXTREMELY DISRESPECTFUL & RACIST]

AAVE IS NOT "GEN Z SLANG" OR "BRAINROT SPEAK" . CALLING IT THAT IS EXTREMELY DISRESPECTFUL & RACIST

[pt. AAVE IS NOT "GEN Z SLANG" OR "BRAINROT SPEAK" . CALLING IT THAT IS EXTREMELY DISRESPECTFUL & RACIST]

stop appropriating AAVE . (link) stop using it to sound comedic . stop using it as if its funny . stop treating it like a joke language . stop using it only to sound intimidating or aggressive . AAVE is not hard to research . as a community that prides itself on inclusivity , we all need to do better . tumblr is already a painfully antiblack space to exist in , it'd be nice to have at least one community where cis / trans / tris / etc. Black folx are allowed to exist and not mocked and stereotyped for our culture or languages or behaviors . pls do better . and encourage others to do better as well .

[gr4veyard-hound]

For a community that's so loudly agaisnt noncon harm, an awful lot of you are siding with a child abuser and groomer.

[rwufflez]

[ivqueer]

SELF-INJURY PURSUIT DISORDER (SIPD)

a medically unrecognized disorder characterized by one actively seeking to engage in or worsen physical self injurious behaviors (selfh$rm)

criteria

frequent and/or intense urges to cause intentional physical h$rm to oneself

a desire to worsen physical h$rm caused to oneself (a desire to go further)

notes / other symptoms

injury must be deliberate with the intent to h$rm oneself

the self injury can be for any reason, such as punishing oneself, low self-esteem, attention seeking, etc. as long as it is intentional

the belief that one's self injury is less severe than required to be "valid" or that ones injuries are "not good enough" is very common in SIPD

archival is encouraged!

[rxttenmxtt]

important post. white text, no dividers.

i do not trust the radqueer community anymore.

i have seen way too little posts about the permamonika situation, and while i haven't been on tumblr that much myself, I'm disturbed by how it seems like the only people speaking up about the situation are the people involved. People had more energy when it came to people talking about irpai's csem, but when it comes to permamonika, everyone is suddenly silent.

where is that energy? where is the drive to protect the victims? the drive to run the abusers off the platform? the drive to keep people safe and away from groomers and predators? why do people only care when something as major as CSEM is involved? do we as a community just not care about victims unless their experiences and behaviors are made with cookie cutters?

i've seen everyone i looked up to leaving this community because of how little people are speaking up about this, and it hurts to say, but i want to as well. calling myself radqueer doesn't feel as inclusive and welcoming as i thought it did. what if something happens to me? what if i get groomed and exploited or even raped and/or assaulted by someone in the community?

would anyone help? would anyone care?

I will stay, not because I feel safe, but because the "radqueer" community is all that I have. i won't say what I've seen other saying; that antis were right, that everyone is a cookie cutter abuse apologist, or things of that nature. but i will say that i am afraid of what the community has become. we went from making silly terms and protecting each other, to covering up abuse and uplifting predators. we've become the very cult mentality antis accuse us of having, and im scared. i didn't want another cult, i wanted a community of safety. but i don't see that here.

but you're all ive got. so for now, ill stay.

im sorry I didn't do more to help with the situation. Im sorry I didn't use my platform and my voice, even if i am a small account. Im sorry I wssnt helping as much as I should've. But I will now, even if its over, because people deserve to know. I'll miss everyone that left, I'll hold you all in my hearts and hope you find happiness somewhere else.

i hope this community can improve, before its too late. because it doesn't feel radqueer anymore. it feels like another cult.

my original pinned post, if you cared enough to read this far.

[girlfriend-adore-that]

can we just banish ashcel from the radqueer community. I’m sick of that pro harassment asshole honestly.

[proxyparasite]

also, dont follow me if you say that you "dont have an opinion on jay/permamonika," "i dont care," and/or anything similar to that. you should all also get the fuck off my blog.

[proxyparasite]

by the way, dont interact with me if you are mutuals, follow, or are personal friends of permamonika/jay in any sort of way. i dont want predator dickriders on my blog. blow your brains out.