Someone not wanting to be seen as a victim or a survivor does not warrant questioning of their ability to understand the severity of situations.
Someone not sobbing,kicking or screaming doesn’t mean they’re minimising events sometimes the ones who never break don’t have a choice, once those flood gates open there’s no containing it….who does that help?
Take the spontaneous moments, make mistakes, learn lessons from some of them 😂, do things you never thought you would, be bold - if you think it say it.
We get through shit the way we know how & should never be judged for it 🙌















