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@rancidelves
have your back
She runs
Coach knew she needed to run
She ran better than anyone
Set the mile record
(Without really
Trying)
She ran away from home
And from everything
To Minneapolis
Then Portland
(Because it
Wasn’t far
Enough)
Back east to rehab her
Catatonic husband
Who ran (after
A long, cold,
Midnight
Walk)
Then an improbable conception
She ran back to a good job
And health insurance
A natural birth
Lovely sunray
(Beauty born
Of Trauma)
She ran back for the support
And help she needed
(Babysitters and
Family)
She ran on to the healing vortices
Of the wondrous Arizona desert
Away from everyone, again
(To break the cycle
Of generational
Dysfunction)
Now she wants to run again
All the way to exotic India
(Find that inner peace
She craves dearly)
And she ran again and again
From the man even her
Grandmother knew
Loved her always
(From the man
She said
Cared
More
Than
Any
One
)
He runs, too (though
Always toward,
Not away)
Even to the
Grave
bored
My personal pet peeve: people who say they're bored.
Why he runs
He ran because he could
He ran to play
He ran for baseball, and football, and basketball
He ran for fun
He ran 400m and to high jump
He ran to stay in shape
He ran to escape abuse
He ran to get back in shape
He ran for his bucket list
He ran to finish
He ran because his daughter couldn’t
He ran to improve
He ran to get faster
He ran to go further
He ran to do better
He ran to achieve
He ran for satisfaction
He ran for good causes
He ran because no one runs
He ran to inspire and be inspired
He ran to get outside
He ran to see the sunset and sunrise
He ran to see wildlife and scenery
He ran to travel, and traveled to run
He ran to be invincible
He ran to think
He ran to run
He ran to win
He runs because he can
“It hurts doesn’t it, when you are the only one in the relationship who meant everything they said.”
— kriti-g
“To kill our dream is to kill ourselves. It is like mutilating our soul. The dream is what is most truly, impenetrably, ineradicably ours.”
— Fernando Pessoa, The Book of Disquiet
A girl from Rhinelander
She followed him to Minneapolis
Despite him telling her not to
The inevitable happened
She had been crying
She hadn’t eaten
Mom worried
A breakup
No Job
Alone
It was already late
But if not me,
Someone
Else
Someone perhaps without
The good intentions
I was known for
She had no car
I drove to her
To a Perkins
Open late
She ate
Well
We sat on the concrete step
Outside her uptown home
Into the early morning
Chatting about life
It was still hot
Even then
We shared a taste in music
Discussed the band Cold
She hated the song
"Stupid Girl"
I couldn't
Blame
Her
Recommended their last album
13 Ways to Bleed on Stage
"Forever my love is music
And I will marry melody"
I laughed at myself
How did I find
Myself here?
Things that
Happen
Only
To
Me
I went home
Never saw
Her again
I hope
She’s
Well
Big Tech Recruiting
I was very recently recruited, out of the blue, by one of the major tech companies out there. I was contacted via LinkedIn, which surprised me, as I didn't realize companies are actively using that for recruiting purposes (which has since made me really want to go over my profile with a fine-tooth comb). I've also previously worked for Epic, which, while not a household name, is a major software company in the healthcare industry, and hires a couple hundred people each month. They have similar recruiting/hiring policies, and claim to hire only about the top 1% of applicants. So, I've had to jump through all these hoops on many occasions.
I guess what I'm trying to say is that I wish these companies jumped through as many hoops to impress me as I am supposed to to impress them. That's the position I feel I'm in with my experience, and, especially when a company comes after me, as these two did, as opposed to when I apply for a position. It's a two-way street.
One of my pet peeves in this industry is that every company has its own programming aptitude test they want you to take, which is time-consuming for all parties, stressful for the applicant, and, I maintain, not an accurate indicator of programming ability. I wish the industry could get together and create some kind of GRE/LSAT/MCAT test for programming algorithms, which could be accepted universally. We could take it once and for all, or retake it at our leisure if we don't like our score. When you apply for a job, just submit your score. It would save both sides time.
American Exceptionalism
Did Barack Obama really defend American exceptionalism today?
When I first heard the story, I did some research to confirm that he's actually stated his belief in the position several times throughout the years, so I guess he either really believes it, or wants us to think he does. I sincerely hope it's the latter. Not much shocks me, and this shocked me, coming from a supposed liberal, and a man I generally find to be intelligent and well-spoken, and not prone to jingoism, regardless of my political opposition.
To be fair, he did previously qualify this statement, by saying "the Brits believe in British exceptionalism and the Greeks believe in Greek exceptionalism". But, this definition is clearly meaningless, like the kindergarten teacher who says one child is unique ... just like every other student.
As a libertarian and social liberal, I never imagined I would write these words, but Vladimir Putin hit it out of the park when he said "It is extremely dangerous to encourage people to see themselves as exceptional, whatever the motivation." In my mind, that's irrefutable. Once a group decides the rules don't apply to them because they're "special", bad, bad things happen.
My Daughter Would Be off to School
This back-to-school season is a little somber for me, as my only child would have been off to school for the first time, this fall. This blows my mind. I'm not bringing it up to garner sympathy, but to serve as a reminder to "gather ye rosebuds as ye may." Your days are numbered, and so are the days of those you care about, so take advantage of your time.
Five years has been enough time for me to make peace with the loss, of course. What sticks with me more than missing these milestones is not having the opportunity to try to raise a wonderful human being. But, the tragedy was her loss, not mine.
Travel Log 5/29
I had planned on Wednesday being a laid-back day, and I got an early start on it thanks to my Channel Islands trip being canceled the day before.
My first stop was the Compton cemetery where my grandfather is buried. I wanted to see if I could find his grave. Long story short, he died well before I was born and I had never even seen his grave. Unlike many of my cemetery explorations, this time I actually had a section to go by, so that narrowed my search down a lot. Thanks to my unsuccessful trip the day before, I knew exactly how to get there.
Travel Log 5/28
This was a Murphy's Law day and I had to roll with the punches.
I had scheduled a boat trip to Santa Cruz Island (one of the Channel Islands, and part of Channel Islands National Park) at 9AM, and had been told to be in Ventura by 8:15. I left Long Beach about 6AM, figuring that left plenty of time. I learned the hard way how bad rush hour traffic can be in LA. For a while, I thought there was no way I was going to make it, as I sat at a dead stop on the freeway. I finally made it to Ventura about 8:30 and got to the check-in a few minutes later. Someone was ahead of me in line, so I ran for a much-needed bathroom break. I got back, handed over my ticket to get checked-in, only to learn that the trip had been CANCELED! They were only taking overnight campers, not day-trippers due to the choppy seas.
So, I had a decision to make, whether to reschedule or get a refund. I really wanted to go, but I had a tight schedule. So, I quickly thought my plans over and decided to try again on Thursday, which was the day I had planned to have a tourist day (Beverly Hills, Hollywood, and iam8bit). I figured it might be canceled again, so maybe I wouldn't have to alter my plans, anyway.
There I was, all the way up in Ventura, with no idea what to do the rest of my day, having not researched any destinations in the area. I went to see the Channel Islands visitor center. I saw a film about the history of the islands, and picked up a few souvenirs and postcards. I bought myself a book, and got a toy shark for my nephew. I saw a stuffed Island Fox and other island wildlife, and they had a Torrey Pine outside.
Next, I went to the beach. It was still early, and a weekday, so the beach was pretty deserted. There was a lone surfer that I watched for a little while. There was only one other person on the entire beach (at least within eyesight), an older woman, walking around, like me. I had just been to the Malibu beaches the day before, so I didn't really feel like spending another day at the beach, but I walked around and took some photos.
Not knowing what else to do in Ventura, I decided that I may as well drive back home. I stopped for gas and groceries on the way home, and decided to go out for lunch. I went to a Chili's, and was surprised to see the signs "food served here is known by the state of California to cause cancer". I wrote out some postcards as I waited, and had a nice, leisurely lunch.
I got back to the hotel, and decided I would head out to Compton to try to find my grandfather's grave, which I had planned to do the following morning. So, I got out my map and headed out. I found the cemetery with no problems, except it was gated, and I then I saw a sign saying it was CLOSED Mondays and Tuesdays. I don't think I'd ever even HEARD of a cemetery being closed before.
By this time, I was laughing at my bad luck. When I got back, I decided to take the self-guided tour of the Queen Mary, which was really neat. I had been there a few days, but hadn't seen much, besides my hotel floor. I managed to find my way to the deck, and see the crew quarters, etc. I also learned, via a helpful employee, which were the stairs that Fred Astaire had been photographed by. They call them the "Fred a-stairs" now in his honor.
There was still time left in the day, so I decided to go a little farther into Long Beach and see what I could see. I was a little unsure of how safe it was, so I left my nice, new camera behind, as a precaution. I was walking along the shore, to cross Queen's Way Bridge, when I saw a head bobbing around in the sea! It was a seal! It really surprised me, because I wasn't aware seals were even around in those waters. I managed to get one halfway-decent shot of him. That redeemed the day a little bit for me.
I crossed the bridge and wandered around the marina, near the aquarium (which I would visit the following day), and through the commercial area downtown. There are remnants of the old amusement park, including a large ferris wheel. The downtown is actually very nice and tourist-friendly. I saw cops all over, so I think they patrol the area very frequently to keep it safe.
I went back over the bridge, and as I neared the Queen Mary, there was a Great Blue Heron in the parking lot. I took several pictures of him. I didn't have my nicer camera with me, so I couldn't zoom much, but a few turned out ok.
I went for a run in the gym and called it a night. My Wednesday plans were pretty laid-back so I didn't have any anxiety about having to get moving early the day.
Travel Log 5/27
This day went almost as planned, and was a pretty great day, except for the drive home. I had a scheduled visit to the Getty Villa at 10AM (when it opens), so that was my first appointment of the day. I let myself sleep in relatively late, and got there a hair after 9AM. The grounds were open, so I planned to just take pictures of the outside while I waited, which turned out to be a smart idea, because the place filled up FAST.
I was really blown away. The building and the grounds are just gorgeous. The collections are fascinating. I could have easily spent all day there, reading every detail about each piece. They have their own collection, and then some of the galleries are rotating exhibits on loan. You are free to photograph the items they own for your own (non-commercial) purposes. I really can't say enough about the place ... entrance is free, but you pay to park. Anyone with any interest in art, history, archaeology, etc. would love it, guaranteed. It definitely made me want to visit its sibling, the Getty Center, on a future trip. They have a deal where you can pay for parking once, and go to both places.
The double-edged sword of traveling alone (and carrying a nice camera, so you look like you know what you're doing), is everyone asks you to take their picture. On this occasion, it was a good thing, as a nice young lady asked me to take her picture by a couple sculptures. There's a pretty nice gift shop, but I didn't buy anything, with a wide selection. I thought about getting a book, but I figured I could probably find the same books from Amazon, etc. more cheaply.
A Fuddy-Duddy Rambling on Technology
I'm 35 years old, and that's certainly part of it (i.e. a generation gap), but I also find this difference with people my own age, and older folks, as well. I was recently on vacation for 2 weeks, and I took a few seconds to survey the people around me in the airport, as I was waiting for a flight. Easily 4 of 5 people had their necks craned over their smartphones, checking e-mail, texts, surfing, whatever. I realize an airport gate isn't the most interesting place to be, but part of me wanted to shout, "Hey, there's a real world going on here!" Sometimes I feel like we already live in the Matrix, only it's voluntary.
I saw several people carrying freaking iPads around Joshua Tree to take pictures. Really? How is an iPad more portable, convenient or superior to a camera, or even a smartphone?
To really ostracize myself, I just don't get texting, and never will. Wasn't the telephone invented as an improvement over the telegram? Why do we think typing short, error-prone, coded messages on a tiny keypad is so wonderful, a full century later? If it's not urgent enough for a call, how is a text better than an email?
My point is ... put down the cell phone once in a while, stop and smell the roses, talk to someone, and listen. The digital world will survive without you for a while. Pick up a real camera if you want to get out in nature and take pictures. I doubt anyone's ever reached their deathbed, wishing they'd spent more time staring at a 4 inch screen.
what do you think is a good concentration for computer science? one that wont make you a "dime a dozen."
Sorry I'm just getting back to you now. I was on vacation for 2 weeks and not online very regularly. I guess I'd say ... if there's one particular area you are very interested in, like say Artificial Intelligence, go for whatever interests you, for sure! Otherwise, I'd just say to try to be as well-rounded as possible, because you never know when something will come in handy. In the business world, you'll almost certainly be using databases, so I'd definitely recommend taking at least one database class. My focus was basically a custom/software engineering focus. I took web development, UI design, graphics, operating systems, software engineering, databases, etc.
As a crazy example, I lived in Brazil and learned Portuguese. I NEVER expected that to be useful in my career. However, at my previous job, a Brazilian hospital became interested in purchasing our software, and I was involved both in being a middle-man to communicate with their executives to set up a meeting, and in actually translating our software for a demo to show them.
My personal opinion is a person's ability (and willingness) to learn, ingenuity, and just ambition and general intelligence are the most important qualities. Like, one of my personal pet peeves is that most job requirements say something like this: 5 years of X, 3 years of Y, 2 years of Z, some experience with A, B, C and D. Well, someone may have 5 years experience with something, but be a terrible, lazy, unmotivated developer, and someone else may have never used it, and be 10 times the developer as the first person! I know employers often want someone to hit the ground running, but I think hiring the right person means more than a checklist of technologies and buzzwords.
Travel Log 5/26
On Sunday, I headed back to Joshua Tree. My first intended stop was the 49 Palms Oasis trail, which has an entrance not far from my hotel. On the drive, I saw two coyotes, which was neat. It was before 7 AM so they were out while it was still cool. Unfortunately, when I got up to the entrance, it was gated off, and I couldn't go in. I later asked a ranger, and he said it was supposedly open, so I don't know if I was just there too early or if he was mistaken. So, that was a bummer, and I never got to take this trail, but that leaves something for my next visit.
So, I went onto the next entrance, to Indian Cove campground. It was still early, so most of the campers were still sleeping, or just rolling out of bed. I found my way to the nature trail and took the quick tour. This was another neat camping area, and I saw lots of wildlife there. Also, I had a rather cool surprise of catching part of a Native American song. I think they must have been camping at the group camp site. As I was hiking around, I heard them, and stopped to listen. That was an unexpected treat.
After that, it was on to the western entrance. I stopped at a picnic area for a bit, and then went on to the Hidden Valley nature trail. This is a formerly secluded valley that a local rancher (Keys) had blown an entrance into. It was another cool, short trail, appropriate for kids as well as adults. Lots of neat scenery and wildlife, at least at that hour.
Travel Log 5/25
Today was my first real day of vacation. I got up early, I think about 5:00-5:30, and grabbed all my hiking gear, my cooler, and maps. I drove through the fairly small town of 29 Palms, taking note of where restaurants, gas stations, and grocery stores were. There are lots of abandoned buildings, and I would have loved to have more time to photograph them.
I got to the north entrance around 6:30 or so, if I recall correctly, and there was no one there, and I read the sign saying to just go ahead and pay on the way out. It was a pretty nice day, much cooler than Palm Desert.
My first stop was at the first exhibit of the park. There were some cool rocks nearby, and I felt like climbing around a little and getting some pictures. I circled around a big rock formation, taking pictures of the scenery and vegetation. I saw what I think was a dead rattlesnake on the road, and stopped a few other places along the roadside, to get some pictures, including ones of the Joshua Trees themselves.