You Can't Fix People

20 | Oklahoma | 🏳️‍🌈|

[katzenmusik-blog1]

i don’t know whats wrong with me but it’s alot

[icarusfanclub]

I want a gay best friend who’s a girl who I can hold hands with and cuddle with and kiss and is my girlfriend I want a girlfriend

[sicknare]

[1hat3u]

hopeless romantic with trust issues and a sex drive out the roof

[shareaquote]

Before I fall in love again 1. I want us to be friends. Which means, I want to be able to eat my favourite cheese crust pizza with you, while having cheese all over my face and even in my hair, without feeling embarrassed or concerned about it. I want to be comfortable with you, I want to be okay about being messy, irritating, embarrassing, disgusting, petty while with you. Because I will be petty when I see my ex best friend post a happy picture and I will be messy during my finals and I will be embarrassing when I meet your parents for I suck at meeting parents. I want to be okay with being the way I am and the only way to be okay is to know that you’re okay with me being things other than beautiful, graceful and composed at all times. 2. I want to be able to have long and passionate conversations with you not just about existential things but also about what went wrong in the ending of that book and how kids are affected by media and how tomato basil combination always works. I want to have conversations where we may not always have the same views but our fundamental values always fall in place. I want to talk to you about the beauty of the stars but I also want to talk to you about the disgusting mentality behind certain societal norms. 3. I want to see how consistent your actions are with your words. I don’t want to fall for love letters or poems, for sweet Instagram captions or long birthday texts, I want to fall in love with you showing up on time and keeping your promises. 4. I want to take it slow. I want our story to work out in years, not months. I want to respect time and space this time. 5. I want to make sure I am not seeking love from you for the lack of love I have for myself. I want to make sure you aren’t a void I am filling in, you are not an alternative to the things I can’t give myself. I want to make sure you are not doing the same. 6. I want to work out with my insecurities and fears from the past. I don’t want to project them on you, I don’t want to subject you to the doubts, suspicion and anger I carry from the people I have known in the past. 7. Before I fall in love again, I want to make a mattress with you. Of understanding and respect and trust. So when we fall, it doesn’t hurt.

creatingnikki  (via shareaquote)

[softest-archive-deactivated2023]

I’m ok. I’m gonna be ok. I’m gonna live a beautiful life and I’ll get to know beautiful people. I will create things of beauty and be surrounded by flowers. And I’ll love myself, and I’ll be soft, I’ll be kind. And I’ll be ok.

[lildebs26]

I feel like I'm too broken to love and be loved.

[logicaldreamer]

I’m too exhausted to explain my soul to someone again.

(via richtide)

[kushandwizdom]

God will align you with the right people for your growth.

tashabeee (via kushandwizdom)

[it-mii]

If you push your ass up against me while we’re cuddling I promise u won’t be getting sleep anytime soon

[joaquinterrero-archive]

if u don’t kiss ur cat on their tiny soft little forehead wtf are u even doing

[pussylightlytoasted]

Yelling at her for trying to eat plastic

[slowmoliving]

don’t rush anything. good people end up with good people

[gumtooth]

i luv when cats randomly burst into a full gallop across the house for absolutely no apparent reason. idk what ur doin or where ur goin but i support it

[angelrom]

I’m that kind of person who keeps letters and birthday cards, tickets from trains, parks or museums.

[shareaquote]

Be very cautious of anyone who tells you what you wanna hear. Those types of people are dangerous. They are the most dangerous types of people you’ll ever meet.

thedemonkings  // Things you learn the hard way. (via wordsnquotes)

[jesuschristhatsaprettyface]

If you hesitate between me and another person, don’t choose me.

(via jesuschristhatsaprettyface)

[caitlinfrisk]

I hope you all fall in love with someone who never stops choosing you and I hope you feel at home when you look at them