butch to me is a softness in their relation to femmes. hard exterior, but it's thin, a little bit pretend, to protect their Enormous hearts. like an egg. i think being butch is a lot more about how you love and protect and interact with femmes than it is about a particular haircut or style…
butch is… a strength, an arm around my waist, an effortless confidence to love me, a glint in your eyes when you look at me, your arms wrapped around me when we're spooning… the feeling of knowing you take care of me so effortlessly, like it's what you were made to do…
















