livin' la vida not-so-loca.

21 year old named Melanie. Senior at MSMU. I live in Southern California and I don't see myself anywhere else. I'm still figuring things out, honestly!

[neutralbacteria]

[friendly-neighborhood-ehrhardt]

[perceptinspire-deactivated20161]

[shymagnolia]

so I got into grad school today with my shitty 2.8 gpa and the moral of the story is reblog those good luck posts for the love of god

[shymagnolia]

okay so i just got my dream job??? a week after applying to it?? and now i’m thinking….maybe this is the good luck post

[1000drawings]

[swordandthread]

[wholeheartedsuggestions]

current goal: make it through the week

long term goal: make it through all the weeks

[itstimetosmilee]

I doubt Vodka is the answer, but it’s worth a shot

[suslancat-deactivated20181120]

[cool-watercolor-tattoos]

[queereyegifs]

x

[japanesebonustrack]

“i can’t do simple hygiene bc im depressed” that’s easy babe! just do simple hygiene

[hundondestiny]

Y’all always have to wallow in your misery instead of considering maybe, just maybe, the encouragement people like this give is just telling people to do one, easy thing instead of worrying about a whole routine. Can’t make yourself shower? That’s fine, just brush your teeth. Don’t have the energy to do your hair? Okay, just brush your teeth.

Making 1 small change that can start improving your mood leads to other small changes. When I couldn’t make myself shower I would make sure I changed underwear every day. And then I started using baby wipes to keep myself fresh. And then I worked my way back to trying to take showers every day. My record might not be perfect but I’m getting better.

It’s really unhealthy to keep the mindset that anyone who isn’t miserable and suffering under their mental illness or emotional problems doesn’t know what they’re talking about. Maybe they’ve just grown to learn how to love and care for themselves in spite of what they’re going through.

[keepgoing-jakebass]

itsjakebass: Thatbathroomselfie. #merp

[somecutething]

[ruinedchildhood]

Fascinating. Incredibles 2 (2018)

[thecommonchick]

[bob-belcher]

A great thread to read

Source is deleted. Here’s an article with the entire thread!

[endless-romantic-stories]

Or at least the way we were told adults had to live

[thenatsdorf]

[unpretty]

i always thought of a king sized bed as being a bit bigger than a queen, but now that i have one, i can tell you that a king sized bed is an absurdity. i can sprawl out, and my husband can sprawl out, and the cat can sprawl out, and none of us are touching. i reach out in the night, and find only pillows and plush walruses. i reach further and eventually find his elbow. he rolls over the comforters to try and find me. “i have crossed oceans of bed to be with you,” he says. there is a vast expanse of bed untouched, unmapped, unexplored. the cat is still trying to sleep on my face.

[bandomfandombeyond]

This is the opposite of a creepypasta

[audio-sexual]

A comfypasta.