oh, lover, i’ll see you there, after many miles

[riotshipping]

◈ tc / six | he/grr/it | 22 | white + ᏣᎳᎩ

◈main f/os; aries (f.allout 76) + le.on kenn.edy (res.ident ev.il)

◈ carrd | main | divider credits

[starlos-soulmate]

"I use yume terms for reach!!" Well. Dont actually. You're not helping the situation. Like yes its normal to want others to see your stuff and to make new friends and mutuals, but it's not helping. Stop using orientalist terms, stop being racist, for the sake of "reach." If you want people to stop using yume terms, stop using them yourself-

[asunder-moving-deactivated20240]

it’s true that video game man is real and he’s in love with me personally

[rotruff]

How do you feel about f/o source?

Love it to death! No real problems, very happy with it.

I like it lots! I think it's well done and only has a few minor problems.

I like it, but it definitely has some issues.

It's ok. I love my f/o, but their source has some pretty glaring issues.

Ehh, the problems are pretty noticeable. I'm not terribly fond of source.

Free my f/o. Source is misery.

Other / More complex feelings

Voting ended onApr 23

cr - sisterlucifergraphics , proship + adjacent dni and don't repost

[magicalspheres]

i’m gonna be a little harsh here but too many of you guys have been babied.

i know this is no new news but i don't care and i will keep talking about it but there is a genuine racism problem in general on this website, and in the selfshipping community.

i wont get into the yume vs selfship discourse even though my two cents of it is: just call it selfshipping.

to me when people use the terms "yume" "riako" and whatnot as a substitute for saying "i selfship with this character and i consider them my spouse" or "i have a serious relationship with this character", it reminds me on how white people would use AAVE as a means of "fitting in" or "it sounds cooler" without knowing the full context to how AAVE came to be. or to put it simply, steal from Black culture. when it comes to "yume" the context i mostly see it in is because "it sounds cooler/cuter" or "it has a stronger meaning" when in reality, it just comes from a different culture. sounds familiar?

and the thing about this is what white people wanna turn a blind eye to this in general or defend themselves by going "oh im white but i dont do any of this stuff". this post is Not About You. and even then, how do you know you aren't doing any of this stuff? just because some of your other white peers are saying that you aren't being racist? but you won't listen to your Black/peers of color when they call you out on something?

instead of trying to defend yourself when you get called out, just suck it up and if you care so much, make the effort to change how you’ve been acting instead of just going back and forth so you won’t have to feel like the bad guy in the situation. get over your white guilt.

i don’t talk about racism much as a Black person on this blog due to the possibility of getting annoying anons about racism. or people getting annoyed that i’m not selfshipping here. but YOU 🫵 white reader, can’t keep turning a blind eye to this and whatever is going around you just so you don’t have to face the fact that you are privileged. you have never dealt with racism your entire life. and HEY, guess what? racism is very real, and you are part of the problem when you don’t do anything about it. don’t try to talk over us, listen to when somebody calls you out and Fix It.

[ID: Flaming text gif that says ‘White people can reblog but keep your mouth shut.’]

[cadmiumflavoredsoju]

"Oh but I wanna use yume cause its cute!" "But yume is better than self ship" "its easier to say" "I like yume cause its more aesthetically pleasing" "but yume is my-"

YOU'RE WHITEEEEEEE SHUT THE FUCK UPPPPPP ITS NOT THAT HARD

And fucking listen to poc self shippers for once.

ESPECIALLY Japanese self shippers when they say "hey don't do that" .

AND if a black self shipper tells you to stop speaking AAVE like "simp".

If you're white or not the race that is allowed to use those terms? Then keep your mouth shut.

White people especially.

And if I see you try to find another term to use from another language I'm hitting you.

Use self ship or self shipper.

[riotshipping]

(develops a beautiful objectum selfship)

[t4televison]

Happy valentines day 💘

[nebbyselfships]

I'm making this poll both out of curiousity, and as a form of feedback for how I and other selfshippers can improve the way we make imagines.

Selfshippers who struggle to fit themselves into most imagine posts: How come?

They assume romantic F/Os by default

They assume monogamy by default

I'm actually okay with sharing my F/O(s)

I'm not from the USA/I'm not white

I don't like physical affection

I'm disabled in a way that makes the usual physical affection difficult

My neurodivergence isn't just "quirky autism"

I don't identify as human (partially or fully)

My hair is textured/I wear a headdress/I'm bald

I'm not thin

I'm not a perisex, no-surgery, no-HRT, AFAB

Something else (elaborate in replies/reblogs)

Voting ended onFeb 10

This poll is specific to selfshippers themselves, since I've noticed that imagines are more mindful about including nonconventional F/Os as opposed to the selfshippers (unfortunately).

(Also for the second-to-last point: This is not me saying I have issue with selfshippers who fall under that. However, even the gender neutral imagines still tend to assume selfshippers are all of those things at once.)

[have-an-fo-who]

Do you have an f/o with a killcount over 10?

Do you have an F/O who has a killcount over 10?

I do

I do not

Voting ended onFeb 8

[dreamersofcolor]

HAPPY BLACK HISTORY MONTH, SELF SHIPPERS!!!!!!!!!!!!

support your black mutuals! your blasian mutuals! your mixed black mutuals! your afro-latina mutuals! your afro-caribbean mutuals! your LGBT black mutuals! your non-sharing black mutuals! your ficto or objectum black mutuals!

EVERYONE LETS GET MORE SUPPORTIVE AND ANTI-RACIST NOW!!!!!!!!!!

[have-an-fo-who]

Anybody here have an f/o from The Pitt?

Do you have an F/O who is from The Pitt?

I do

I do not

Voting ended onJan 27

[hybridsheart]

“this character is in a canon relationship with other character” wrong‼️ character actually in love with my beloved mutual, who loves them very much and is loved in return

[jame7t]

[Digs quietly, but respectfully, in my little tunnel]

[toucanz]

Thought id come on over ere to share my love for halo rvb (only caboose....GULP)

[have-an-si-who]

Do you have an s/i who has horns?

Yes

No

Voting ended onNov 23, 2025

[fruitypie-daydreams]

Do you like the term "yumeship"?

I like it, and I use it

I like it, but I don't use it

I dislike it, but I use it

I dislike it, and I don't use it

Neutral

Voting ended onNov 12, 2025

Saw a post and got curious :3