Our experience with Single Men:
As many of you are aware, we started the Qs and Slots for Sanya’s kinky fantasy over the last few weeks and we wanted to share our experiences for all the other couples who are interested. We had a few very good experiences though mostly very strange and disappointing ones. Sharing some insights for others here who could be planning or this could just be a general Tips & Tricks handbook for single men! I know many couples are interested in single men but due to below issues people avoid them and no one makes an attempt to teach. So here is our attempt at spreading awareness and help single men as well as some couples on good bedside manners! 😁
1. Most men brag a lot about what all they can do / will do in bed but are extremely inexperienced and very disappointing and can’t match up with women like Sanya. They orgasm in a few seconds and then want to leave. 😱😱 After reading this 10 more will write - try me and trust me, each one of them will be exactly the same. All talk and zero action in bed. Tip: Don’t brag! Let your actions speak! Be honest and truthful. If you don’t have experience tell her! She will help and teach! By lying you are only being a disappoint!
1a. Just one meeting outside is never enough. It is like an interview, they are their best in the face to face meeting and show true colours later on. Tip: Meet multiple times and chat a few times over days / weeks before deciding.
2. Sadly many Delhi men like to show off a lot about their lives and jobs, business, cars and money but most have zero substance or intellect. Majority of guys here are from the nouveau riche background and no class. They can wear expensive clothes and watches but have no idea how to respect a woman. They will smell bad, bad breath, burp, fart (yes! Some even farted during sex or in the loo loudly) 😳😳 and do all these strange things in the presence of a woman without even an apology! Sick! Tip: Money and class are two different things! Money can never buy class! I guess I can’t teach you class.
3. Most of the men are unable to get hard with condoms on and keep trying to insist on sex without a condom saying they are not used to condoms. That’s been the biggest shocker for us. 🙊🙊 Most of the guys .. educated and from good backgrounds keep pushing to do it without condoms. Tip: If you have unsafe sex then you’re an idiot! If you are not used to sex with condoms then stay away from the lifestyle and from us for sure!
4. Nearly 100% of these guys have no clue that condoms can’t protect you from STDs. None of them knew that Herpes, HPV, Syphilis are skin diseases and spread from skin to skin contact and unprotected oral sex and some are incurable! They don’t undergo STD tests and try to have sex without condoms as much as possible! They find our request for STD tests very confusing and strange! Tip: Please educate yourself! Visit the FB page SafetyFirstSwinging and educate yourself! Don’t turn up at our doorstep without STD tests! We welcome nearly everyone who has got tested! That’s the best way to open conversation with us! Share original STD reports! PS: STD tests can be done at any lab eg. SRL and can be done without a prescription from doc and you can use your FB fake name. They take 1-2 vials of blood and hardly takes 10-15 minutes. HIV, HSV 1&2 IGG, HepC are standard tests. You could add Syphilis and Chlamydia also.
5. A few of the guys were badly groomed. Smelly armpits and pubes. It’s yuck! 🤮🤮 From top all appear to be ‘cool’ with expensive clothes and jazzy hairstyles and expensive phones but disgusting from inside. We had to ask some to leave because of body odour. Tip: Don’t be such a gawar! Buy a Philips bodygroom and when meeting a woman please clean yourself up, always have a shower before meeting or at the hotel itself and brush your teeth, use mouthwash! Spray deodorant or anti-perspirant in your underarms! Cut your nails! These are such basic things! I do all this even when going for a regular date and these guys are meeting someone for sex and not following basic grooming! Shame!
6. Nearly half of these guys who came for a Q or Slot, came without their own condoms and lube despite being told! Their expectation is that we will provide then as if they are coming as some chief guests! And after usage, they throw the condoms on the side of the bed and leave later. No consideration for who will clean up after them!? Must be doing this with their wives and girls friends… sick! Most disgusting habit! 🤮🤮 Tip: Please carry your own condoms and lube!! And don’t throw them here and there! Who is going to clean up? Please throw them in the bin! So disgusting! Swach Bharat.. starts from fixing your own dirty disgusting habits!
7. A few of the guys come and join us in our room and start ordering or using the mini bar as if it’s their house! Drinking expensive things from the bar or ordering stuff and none of them ever think of contributing towards the party in anyway! They just want to come in, eat drink fuck and leave! Like some Maharaja! MahaChutiyas! 🤬🤬 Tip: Don’t be an asshole! You’re visiting someone’s room! Have the courtesy to ask for permission or contribute towards the event! You are not god’s gift to us that we should feel honoured to have you there and pay for you!
8. There are always a few who think this is their entry pass to the world of swinging and start writing to Sanya separately asking her if she would like to join them with other couples as a couple! 🙊🧐🤔 They forget I am right here watching / reading and kicking their ass. Tip: You are there to help a couple fulfill fantasies. Don’t try to become bigger than that by breaking trust of the guy. It will never succeed and you’ll get kicked out very soon!
9. Some guys think that just because Sanya enjoys fucking new guys, the assumption is that I am a submissive timid guy. Most of them get a shock meeting me and half of them become nervous and stutter and panic in my presence!! No, I am not a submissive timid guy. On the contrary. Tip: I am most probably fitter than you, bigger than you, way older than you, fucked a lot more than you, can stay hard longer than you, richer than you, more educated than you, more successful than you and drive a bigger car than you! Don’t assume things about me. You’re not competing with me! You’re here for Sanya! Focus on her!
10. Many of the guys really don’t know how to kiss or touch a woman. They keep biting! Biting her lips or nipples! She hates it! Biting hurts! Have you been bitten by a dog before? She has to constantly stop the guys from biting! Are you dogs or animals? Rough, scratching, biting as if never seen a woman before! A woman’s nipples are very sensitive! Most of them don’t want them bitten! Please be gentle! Most of the youngsters have a hard and rough touch, nothing sensual or sexy and mostly hurtful! And if you ask them not to bite then they become like sloppy drooling dogs with saliva everywhere! Really sick! Tip: Most women prefer sensuality. Soft sweet kisses, tenderness, massage, passion! Passion doesn’t mean biting and hurting them! Be gentle till they need something harder. They will tell you!
11. Understanding of the word - fitness, stamina, height, etc is very subjective. Sanya is 5’7” and with heels she is 5’9” usually. Many of the guys who called themselves tall ended up near her shoulder! 🙄 The fit guys had tummies and don’t even want to discuss stamina! 😨 Tip: Discuss specifics in feet, inches, kilograms, kilometers and BMI !
12. We were shocked at the number of men who simply don’t go down on a woman to give oral sex and hardly any know how to lick or finger a woman with pleasure. They think sex is all about just ramming in! Most men lick for a few seconds and stop! Fingering is like rocket science for them! All they can manage is to hurt! But after 20 seconds of licking, they give up and then sit back to receive a long blow job! Most of them have never heard of the ‘woman first’ rule that you need to make the woman come first and give her pleasure first before you come! In fact, some of them don’t even care if the woman had an orgasm or not! That really shows the class and thinking of these men rooted in a patriarchal society. Tip: The number one rule of sex is ‘mutual’ pleasure and in that women always come first! Literally and figuratively! Lick her till your jaw hurts! Read and watch videos on how to lick if you don’t know how to! Finger her without hurting her till your fingers are numb! Again learn how to do it! Massage, lick, finger and do everything she enjoys till she has orgasmed and is happy! Your turn to fuck comes well after that! DONOT expect to be sucked unless you have licked a woman so much that you get a lock jaw!
I hope the above helps couples in setting expectations with men and preparing for their events! Please share with all couples so that we can teach and encourage single men to get better! And I hope it helps some good men learn and improve their personalities and outlook towards joining couples!
PS: There were approximately 20% guys who were not like the above at all and were actually fantastic! We’re still here and still open to exploring because of these amazing guys! Kudos to the good ones! You can connect with us on our FB SanyaGautam or MeWe as details mentioned on the pic.