That's NOT Your Hot Potato!
Today is the much ballyhooed Mars/Uranus conjunction at 3° Gemini. And I don't mean to minimize its importance. Yes, be careful with physical energy, and more specifically, how you run your mouth. Don't let your mouth write a check your ass can't cash, as the old saying goes.
But I want to talk about today's transits from the broader observation of the outer planets of Uranus, Neptune and Pluto all at 4°, which happens next week (till July 31st), joined by Jupiter at 4° Leo on July 18th.
This is a period of time where you will truly see people's emotional reactions, and decide if you want that in your world. For example, you may be dating an individual and discover how childish and immature his/her reactions are to situations. You may discover your boss is emotionally uncaring, bordering on cruel. Or see that someone is giddy and gleeful over a difficult situation you're in, as they profess their care and empathy.
But more than anything, you will see where many individuals did not use the opportunity, given to them since 2012, to put their egos and emotions in more life-affirming positions. They will be dealing with a whole host of emotions they don't want to deal with, and they will be happy to toss them on to you.
These are not yours to accept. For if you do, you rob them of the opportunity (and yes, also the struggle) of confronting them and transforming them.
However, you are not off the hook. Your invitation with this astrology is to also move into a higher form of compassion and care. Be there ready to help, but don't do the work for them. Say prayers, send energies of love and compassion. Be available should they need to vent or do some "sacred bitching." Keep rooting for them, even if you're having to create some distance between you. And refuse any ego need to say "I told you so," or "you're getting what you deserve."
But don't take those hot potatoes, much in the way others eventually refused to take yours. Because when we have to contend with them in such a personal fashion, is when the block to healing is shattered.