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rottentoothss

why do you all hate women who are sexually submissive? i control everything in my life, im an 18 yr old who has to figure out how i’m going to eat every other day, i have to figure out how i’m going to pay bills because grandfather spent all his money on drugs this month again, i have to figure out how to be home yet not home too much so he doesn’t burn the house down and so i can get my education/go to work. i have to be dominant in my day to day life, i don’t wanna be dominant in the bedroom— and that doesn’t make me male centered, that doesn’t mean i’m not a feminist and that doesn’t mean i want my human rights taken away.

stop shaming women for their sexual preferences.

unsentimentaltranslator

I'm sorry about the situation you're in and I hope you find a way out of this situation, but you're not dominant in your day to day life. You're exploited. And the way men demand sexual submission is additional exploitation. These men don't care about you and neither does the wealthy white woman who puts on a costume and then takes it off and goes home to her mansion that she spent her twelve million dollar net worth on. I wish they did, but they don't. That's why we're angry.

rottentoothss

wether i am being exploited or not i still have to mother a mentally disabled, dementia patient, drug addicted old man and take care of everything that happens in and too my household— that is being in a “dominant” or leading position no matter what you want to consider the true intent, i pay all the bills, i work like a dog to keep a roof over my head, i fix the issues with the water heater and the fences, i have to do the heavy lifting, i pay for food, i have to do all the mental work. please don’t ever tell me all my hard work i do to keep myself alive is “exploitation” simply because i am a woman. me wanting to be submissive in the bedroom to escape these things is not an issue and i don’t believe it should be shamed. i never said these men care about me or my wellbeing but i don’t talk to those men regardless or specifically seek out men who have clearly more than just a kink for being sexually dominant in the first place. me being sexually submissive doesn’t mean i go around opening my legs for just anyone ESPECIALLY considering how men are when given the opportunity to be in dominant positions. nor does it mean i am letting men take any of that hard work away from me, most sexually submissive women are women who are in dominant or controlling positions to begin with. it feels good to let go and finally not have to be in control, it feels good to not have to worry about whatever is happening in my life atm.

i do understand your point and concern about the idea of women being labeled as submissive/forced into submission as a whole but this is so obviously meant to be sexual and there’s nothing wrong with women who want to be sexually submissive, especially while society still glazes men for their sexual expression.

what i’m truly upset about is, why are men praised for expressing their sexuality on a societal level but the moment a woman does it we are bashed and berated by even other women. it rubs me the wrong way. and i might be wrong about this one but i’m sorry, it’s ok for women to want to be sexual. dominant or submissive.

why do you all hate women who are sexually submissive? i control everything in my life, im an 18 yr old who has to figure out how i’m going to eat every other day, i have to figure out how i’m going to pay bills because my grandfather spent all his money on drugs this month again, i have to figure out how to be home yet not home too much so he doesn’t burn the house down and so i can get my education/go to work. i have to be dominant in my day to day life, i don’t wanna be dominant in the bedroom— and that doesn’t make me male centered, that doesn’t mean i’m not a feminist and that doesn’t mean i want my human rights taken away.

stop shaming women for their sexual preferences.

i also think it’s a bit strange the moment i mention i’m also bisexual and still want to be submissive with women it’s less of an issue… i don’t get it, maybe i am wrong and you are all right— but men are praised for expressing their sexuality while women are still bashed for expressing theirs and it just rubs me the wrong way, wether it’s a dominant or submissive woman expressing her sexuality i always see them being bashed by both men and women and i just don’t agree with it.