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you think you’re having a bad week? My bf told me a week before both valentine’s day and my birthday, that he cheated on me 🙃

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unfriendly reminder that if you’re the type of parent that raises your children as cheaply and minimal effort as possible while indulging yourself and your partner in anything you want, especially while complaining about having no money and the kids being a nuisance… you’re a piece of shit and don’t deserve kids and I hope your kids grow up and tell you they resent you for it because you deserve to feel shitty about it

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When a doctor is testing you for borderline and they say “borderline is when you are too clingy to the people in your life and will do anything to avoid them leaving” and I’ll say, “I’m usually the first to leave” and they’ll go, “see, you’re borderline” as if that’s not the exact opposite of what they just said

#t #like yes I fucking understand the concept of a spectrum I would fall in but #my fucking point is that if the symptoms are so broad and stereotypical of feminine gender experiencing feelings blah blah #and bothe lows and extremes count towards each symptom #it’s kinda a fucking trap is it not my dude #and easy trap to dismiss a huge group of ppl

when a married, monogamous man was sexually harassing me at work for over a year and when I told his wife about it she said “yeah, we tend to pick up third wheels because he needs more attention and emotional satisfaction than I can give him. but I’m not interested in opening up the relationship so he’s off limits” and I didn’t immediately laugh in their fucking faces and call them dumb manipulative asshole idiots

#t #LIKE? YOU COULD HAVE LOOPED ME IN FROM THE START BECAUSE YOU JUST DESCRIBED HAVING A SIDE PIECE AND I THOUGHT THIS WAS A FUCKING FRIENDSHIP #ID BE COOL WITH DATING TOO BUT YOU CANT JUST. DATE ME ON YOIR END AND NOT ALLOW ME TO DATE YOU BACK THE FUCK #silly me… why would I get the idea that something is happening between us? when you literally treat me like a girlfriend #fully admitting it himself and his wife too #and when he abused me the only things that help are advice for abusive relationships #if your only boundary is no sex like. your boundaries are fucking shit from the start #you’re literally objectifying me and treating me as a threat #your boundaries aren’t about yourself at all — they’re about controlling ME

psychiatrists only say I’m not autistic because I learned to stop talking about my special interests after having them literally and figuratively beat out of me as a kid. If they let me talk about sonic I wouldn’t have been begging for a diagnosis for 18 years now lol

#t #that’s literally 18 years. been begging for diagnosis since I was 10 #2/3 of my life has been spent begging for an autism diagnosis

Genuinely, wholeheartedly, what the fuck is up with polyamourous dudes not wanting emotional connections??? And then moping about how ~nobody wants dudes in poly, everyone just wants 8 girlfriends~

IT’S ME, DAMMIT!! I’M OUT HERE LOOKING FOR MULTIPLE LOVING BOYFRIENDS GOD DAMN IT. NOW SMARTEN UP AND LOVE ME BACK YOU DUMB IDIOT MOTHERFUCKERS

#t #I mean god I guess emotionless sex is also fine but at least have the basic decency to be good at it damn it fuck #you can’t … a) refuse to be available… b) mope about ppl not wanting you while you’re unavailable… and also c) being bad at sex #if sex is literally the one thing you can offer your dates #you should at least leave me drooling and begging for more ffs

it’s fucking wild how many christian nationalists are railing hard against palestine while conveniently forgetting that the leader of their religion is literally palestinian

#t #taking a break from horny posts for this mess

growing up is realizing that I’m not as insecure in relationships as I thought I was; I was just dating heirarchical “poly” people that don’t respect or care for me because they have a primary