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This post goes harder than any post has ever gone before.
More important than asking âwhy doesnât this person want me?â Is asking âwhy am I attracted to someone who isnât interested in me and doesnât value me?â
YES.
Needed this. Thank you!
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âThere is no such thing as a pure â extrovert or a pure introvert. Such a man would be in the lunatic asylum.â ~Carl Jung, Evans Conversations, Page 23.
~Aries
Extroverted side - participates in challenges and competition with others. voyaging through new environments and social structures strengthens their sense of self and place in the world, interacts with external surroundings with great curiosity to extract the fragments that construct the identity - they constantly observe their surroundings and relate what they see with what they know. present in their leadership role, relationships are vital sources of inner conflict, however one of the grand aspirations of life is to win the heart of true love. outspoken and opinionated in the social and domestic spectrum, the energiser and battery of illumination for friends and loved ones
Introverted side - dreamer of unrealised possibilities. there can only be one winner, and it can be a lonely place at the top. Substantial self-reflection follows the chaos of their living reality, to mark the progression or reset the target goal, and they need to be left alone and undisturbed in order to take a step back from the chaotic haze piece together the memories of the day that will shape tomorrow. if the world has become too boring they will retreat into their own inner wonderland of amusementÂ
~Taurus
Extroverted side - seeks to create a sanctuary of beauty, comfort, and security for the people they love, measures a portion of self-value on the capacity to provide for dependants financially and emotionally. desires a material synthesis of the inner world - a product or design that captures their inspiration, creativity, and work ethic, professionally influential and invested in utilising, maintaining, or enhancing their natural resources into talents that can supply humanityâs demand, invested in maintaining the wellbeing of friends and loved ones so is typically very observant of these people in looking for signs that something is not right
Introverted side - has a privately developed and enforced inner value and morale system, strongly influenced by the internal instability that threatens the sense of long term security and being useful and needed, very capable of departing from the world into their own mode of autopilot in complete trance to the task at hand, personal sensual bliss, or rest, relaxation, and awakened sleep. can be quite private with the imagination and their unformed creative visions - tendency to play instruments, paint, draw, and write, or whatever when alone
~Gemini
Extroverted side - geminis are introverted and extroverted at the same time, and as the day goes they are highly communicative and active or contained inside their celestial mind. they are energised and grounded through conversation, natural communicator, interacts with the immediate environment in a curious, playful, and alert manner that allows for multiple learning processes to occur at once, holds the microphone and plays the role of the teacher and the student, very interested in the possibilities of everything, swift adaptation and ability to re-arrange the expression and dialogue to gain the most from the interaction and conversation
Introverted side - distracted by the volume of activity in the mind and seduced into the thinking daydream, becomes increasingly bored by people and retreats into their own matrix of inner personalities that keep them amused for days on end, emotionally evasive and reticent to let truly let inside, is socially active to gather information like a butterfly and slips into the chrysalis of isolation to reflect and digest this new stimulus, the contradiction is being very open but closed off to the same so you always get the sense they are hiding something
~Cancer
Extroverted side - responsive and deeply invested in the lives of loved ones, depends on people relying on their presence and support, makes emotional connections based on shared experiences, constructs the sanctuary of love and comfort in the home formed by inner unformed visions and emotional needs for external security and longevity, business minded with a natural talent for growing abundance by virtue of their social intuition, enjoys teaching and sharing stories with children and loved ones.Â
Introverted side - develops resilience in the face of invisible and internal obstacles that manifest in reality, the dream life is highly active and tends to manifest in reality so they are never completely present, responsive to the inner child and often finds self-reflection a dialogue between the younger and older self, very immersed in the private emotional experience and developing methods to manage this unseen chaos, retreats into their private music box of memories and re-imaging of childhood fantasies
~Leo
Extroverted side - the response given by human interaction substantially influences the self-identification process, driven to design and demonstrate the highest potential and unique self, desire to demonstrate the internal experience, creativity, and divine fire through the self-expression and appearance, engaged in matters involving human relationship, justice, and defence, provider and supporter, leader who inspires the way through nobility and love, need to command and control the environment actively or subconsciously and inadvertently, enjoys being in a position of mentorship or guidanceÂ
Introverted side - Intense preoccupation with self-development and tuning the inner world to attain the most positive outward response, private self-reflection that can become quite depreciating and self-shaming, isolates from people to reinforce feelings of loneliness and inability to receive love, the shadows can whisper unfounded suspicions regarding being unwanted and humiliated by others using the medium of silence when alone, builds the defences and weapons alone for the fight on behalf of the innocent and vulnerableÂ
~Virgo
Extroverted side - the mind and nervous system is highly responsive to the external environment, seeks to develop the skills and proficiencies that resolve disturbance and chaos, slips into their own self-regulated and internal mode of operation where the world disappears and they become entranced in the physical or mental task at hand, driven by the desire to communicate and offer service to other people through the development of their intellect, skills, and knowledge. very needy for the external response that validates their hard work
Introverted side - tends to blossom in the later years when self-consciousness has relinquished its captivating grip, gathers knowledge from the external environment and privately gestates this into wisdom, sets the standard through internalised dialogue and uses negative external experiences to reinforce their need for self-improvement, keeps dreams and aspirations secret and typically undergoes a lot of unseen battles with the swords of their own mindÂ
~Libra
Extroverted side - highly responsive to social interactions and measures self value through the abundance of relationships in their life, engaged in teamwork and collaboration that brings out the unique qualities of everybody, highly responsive to shared experience - bliss is double the delight in company, present in the social and business aspect of daily life as a natural advisory, to ensure justice is served, and to find similarities and differences in people that help them self-identify and define themselves
Introverted side - is deeply and privately self-reflective and often desires remedial alone time to clear out everybody elseâs feelings and thoughts and see their world clearly, devotes copious personal time into bettering themselves, reflecting upon their relationships and the people in their lives - during which they tend to construct a lot of inner dialogues and conversations with themselves, frequently disengages from a distressing reality into their private lagoon of dream where all of their wildest fantasies are played out just for them
~Scorpio
Extroverted side - open display of passion and power, unconscious desire to re-write the story of reality by telling the truth, remaining convicted in the face of disbelief, and the will to be a revelatory maverick, upholder and asserter of self-justice, a leader, very invested in forming entrenched and long lasting bonds with select special people, appreciates being in a position of mentorship or guidance to vulnerable or lost people, the healer must become intimate with the darkest conditions of the human psyche and spirit to cast and enforce the transformation that heals from the depthsÂ
Introverted side - Intense preoccupation with inner growth and deep change, more reactive to internal and subjective interpretations rather than external stimulus, personally liberates themselves from their own demons through private, enduring, and intensive transformations where they feel themselves burning alive to death in sensations they can never tell, appreciates and values solitary time and becomes unsettled after a short period of social exposure, tends to learn, research, create, and speculate in private. in depth dialogue with the inner experience, images, and sensations, does not easily trust others, is answerable only to the authority of their own soul
~Sagittarius
Extroverted side - makes the lifelong voyage as far as they can roam searching for the disguises of god that reinforce their intuitive speculations, strong desire to share and explore their philosophies of life with other people, invested in conversations and encounters with many different people from diverse backgrounds and cultures to expand their eyes and sight further to the world, enjoys the high of group experiences that involve shared spiritualism, faith, and music, they can really bring people together and create a higher power with the collective belief of magic
Introverted side - intensely self-reflective regarding the meaning and purpose of their existence, exclusively private construction of their philosophies based on the connection and correlation between internal and external experiences, profound internal leaps in intuition that steer the outward compass, privately imaginative and creative, tendency to play instruments and write when alone, they self-define their own limitations and tend to mark success as a succession of accomplishmentsÂ
~Capricorn
Extroverted side - responsive and deeply invested in the lives of loved ones, remarks on inner value through the capacity to provide support and substance to loved ones and the community, invested in uplifting the social profile and family name, focused on attaining institutional recognition and identifies closely with the role in the community, degrees, ascension, and acclaim, engaged in the constant learning process of life, born to lead and inspire, enjoys being in a position of mentorship or guidanceÂ
Introverted side - Intense preoccupation with self-development and mastering the internal instability, confusion, and lack of control that impairs or self-destructs the progress being taken in the world toward their aspirations, external demands are internal projections that set standards that exceed anybodyâs expectation, very protective and defensive of their personal space - does not easily trust others, typically keeps a lot of memories, feelings, and fears contained in this private vault
~Aquarius
Extroverted side - socially engages with a general fascination about the human psyche and complexities, appreciates sharing and bouncing their ideas around with like and opposite minded people - their hunger to know and learn more is driven by the desire to inform and enlighten people with their wisdom, so they are typically focused on building a social platform to distribute this from, involved in a service role to humanity and typically quite active in social, political, artistic, and spiritual groups and communities, generally likes to be surrounded by a crowd of 2 or 3, born to lead and inspire
Introverted side - intensely self-reflective regarding the meaning and purpose of their existence, disregards external influence regarding the self-expression, appearance, and direction of aspirations - Â is only answerable to the inner authority of the spirit, tends to develop mental attributes and master the mind in a private and unseen process, rampant internal fantasy land and utopian imagination with images that only they can conceive, feels lonely in a crowd
~Pisces
Extroverted side - emotionally responsive and adaptive to the surrounding environment, idealistic, romantic, and deeply invested in forming beautiful and long lasting relationships, their empathy is powerful and naturally expressive, strong desire to communicate the images of the inner world, feelings, and philosophies with other people to impart beauty, healing, love, and make relatable connections with others, seeks a person that can make them feel special or provide the sense that nothing else exists
Introverted side -Â more reactive to internal and subjective interpretations rather than external stimulus, isolates themselves on an island of escapism for the sake of survival, can carry the inherent sense of being âdifferentâ or incapable of truly relating often reinforced by constantly finding themselves alone. pisces are introverted and extroverted at the same time because they know that even though you are by yourself, you are never truly aloneÂ
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Like most people donât like to admit this, but one of the reasons a lot of us have so many mental health issues is because we live in a world that has basically become untenable. People canât afford basic necessities, let alone to cultivate their interests or take breaks and rest or do any of the things necessary for good mental health. People my age are wracked with debt, working at jobs they hate or studying topics they hate, living in a shitty apartment with five roommates. We live in a world thatâs very hard to be healthy in. So while yeah, a lot of people obviously do have mental illnesses that would need medication no matter what, they are greatly exacerbated by these issues, and a lot of people have basically just been thrust into an eternal situational depression. So if that doesnât change, medication is just a band-aid.Â
BIG mood
Can i get a step by step on how to do this?
So far for me itâs been something like:
1. Become aware of how and when you tearing yourself down.
2. Now that you can catch yourself doing it. Offer counters to the negative self talk. A really useful thing I read was to talk to yourself almost the way you would child. Gentle and patient. Even when they fuck up.
3. Take time to celebrate your small accomplishments. Youâve been attacking yourself for every little mistake. Apply that same fervor to the positive things in your life. Did the dishes even though you didnât want to? Fuck yeah! Got up and took shower? YES!!! You are taking positive steps to feeling better. Celebrate it.
4. Make lists of things youâre good at/ like about yourself. The first time I did this the only two things in my list weâre that I liked my hair and I had good friends. It was start.
5. Donât beat yourself up if you screw up steps 1-4. Itâs counter productive. When I catch myself calling my self stupid for some mistake or other my response now is,âWe donât talk to ourselves like that anymore. Whatâs something constructive that could actually help solve the problem.â
Most of the time that seems to work. Not always. But more and more Everytime.
I hope any of that made sense.
oh my goodness there are instructions!!
The signs as of lately
Aries: sadness is something you are not accustomed to. Its been clouding your vision and youâre struggling hard to find a bright enough light to lift the fog. Youâre searching for that fire within you. Youâve always counted on it to get you through. Itâs not gone, it hasnât abandoned you. Itâs just soft enough to guide you through this. Reminding you that itâs ok to feel heart ache and that there is still beauty here. Take this stillness as a blessing. The fog will lift.
Taurus: grounded and tall. Youâve come through hell and back with flowers of peace in your hands. The marks of ash are still on your body but you hold these bright flowers effortlessly. You feel the weight of the past year roll off your back as you look out into endless mountains. You feel as powerful as those high peaks. Itâs time to create, its time to be part of the divine.
Gemini: this is for you. You may not see it but you create waves in people. Heaviness may be constant visitor. And I know thereâs a strange comfort to it. Trust when you feel it lifted and chase after it with all that youâve got. Youâre going to do great things. Anyone who sees you knows that.
Cancer: god sees your softness. Thereâs not much to say. You feel with every fiber in your body. I know youâve grown up scared. I know you hold so much sadness. But I see your softness. I know you only mean well.
Leo: persistence is your greatest gift. I know youâre exhausted by the constant demands of this earth. Your eyes show it with each line. Youâre constantly tired. However itâs your strength and will that keeps you moving. You are loved beyond anything you could comprehend. This is worth it. I promise you.
Virgo: vulnerability and truth. Growing up you have learned to stay quite and polite. Youâve learned that emotions cause more harm than good. Youâve gravitated towards anything that offers great logic. However now is the time to leave that behind. Itâs done its job. Itâs time to sit with your emotions and to listen to your inner truth. Vulnerability will be your greatest strength.
Libra: we are so proud of you. You have covered treacherous waters. Your lungs are sore from coughing up the waters that weighed you down. You can catch your breath and look onward. You now have the power of the ocean within your blood. Carry on and do great things. Weâre all counting on you.
Scorpio: let it dissolve. Let it sit on you tongue and truly taste it. Patience and kindness is what you most need. That may not make the most sense at this point because all youâve been doing lately is waiting. Youâve been searching for answers and searching for kindness. Those have always been with in you. Listen to your divine self. Let go of the fear that has been paralyzing you. Find your breath and step into this new chapter with everything youâve got. Golden days are ahead.
Sagittarius: these are things you have not experienced. Loneliness feels like a guest whoâs over stayed their welcome. I know youâre running from it. I know youâve always been running. Always been looking for the better thing. This is the universe reminding you to find peace within your self.
Capricorn: lack of stability. This is your greatest fear. Youâre so accustomed to these strict guidelines that rule your life. However youâve been building these with materials that are going to break easily. This is something you turn your head away from. Youâre not ready to sit with your old wounds. To be broken is a way of growth. Let it fall.
Aquarius: cutting off your leaves. You feel this will give you a fresh start. However youâre confusing your leaves with your roots leaving you uprooted. You confuse this with joy. Child you have to stop playing hide and seek. Itâs time to sit and sort through all that youâve been avoiding. Itâs time to come home.
Pisces: searching for heaven. You keep pricking yourself on rose thrones. Iâm not sure why youâre confused with the blood dripping off your fingers. Nothing has been making much sense to you lately. Come lay down and rest. The answers will not show them self to you right now. All you can do is rest. Change is on the horizon. Have faith.
Childhood
*check your moon
Aries is the innocent, brave child. A warrior without armor. Her only weapon being the fire in her soul, she gets even more powerful with her scars. Wolves howl with her command.
Taurus is the divine, stubborn child. Her voice is from the heavens and her hair is like an angelâs. She protects everything she has with her enormous heart in her small body.
Gemini is the talkative, smart child. She is quite mischievous with her pixie wings and vibrant smile. She lights up the night with her joy, with her laugh. A library of faces exist in her mind
Cancer is the caring, motherly child. A mermaid with a dress of the most beautiful seashells. Sprinkling ocean water on newborn ones, Her blessing is her healing tears.
Leo is the shining, the ruler child. The sun itself, the holy child. Her hair is of golden flames. She is the glory, the victory, the joy of earth. She walks confidently, beating her demons.
Virgo is the graceful, mature child. A crown made of glass and eyes made of ice shards. Thereâs no detail in the galaxy which she doesnât notice with her caged heart.
Libra is the peaceful, indecisive child. Poison ivy grows beneath her braided hair. Her veins are of the root of a forest. Thereâs so much she thinks yet does not express in words, in sound.
Scorpio is the mysterious, dark child. Brought to this planet by ravens, waiting for the day to find her home. Sheâs the giggle at the funeral. Knowing thereâs so much more than the eye sees she uncovers the absolute truth.
Sagittarius is the curious, free child. Dances in the wonderland of cultures. Time flows with her words, stops with her feet. Accepting and independent. Her crown of flowers contain lost sailors, endless galaxies.
Capricorn is the ambitious loyal child. Climbing mountains, conquering worlds, the legend. Her throne is of ice and her heart is of light. Kind words escape her mouth covering the determination which lies within.
Aquarius is the rebellious, humanitarian child. The wanted renegade. Commander of the beaten, leader of the unique. Out of this world, the chosen child that will save us from our own faith.
Pisces is the creative emotional child. Her drawings are tear proof. A lucky charm keeps her pure from this world. Her sparkling eyes, illuminate the night. The essence of kindness is her lips.
The signs as happy feelings and things
ARIES: The feeling of accomplishment after finishing up a big project at work and coming home to the comfort of your bed. Finally winning over a loverâs heart. The color red. Successfully nailing a job interview. Bold lipsticks. The adrenaline rush you get from driving over the speed limit. Lip biting during kisses.
TAURUS: The feeling of being in your loverâs arms. Binging on shows instead of going out on a Friday night. Meditating before bed. Taking a deep whiff of your favorite candle. Soft blankets. Forehead kisses and long hugs. A smile of appreciation during an encounter with a baby animal. Freshly baked cookies. Sleeping in after a long week of work. GEMINI: The feeling of enlightenment after an intellectual conversation with a stranger at a coffee shop. Warm winds against your skin on a summer evening. Lemonade. Observing a ladybug in your palm. Seeing stars in your loverâs eyes. Cotton candy and ice cream. The elation you get when someone understands your jokes. CANCER: The feeling of happiness and contentment when your loved ones compliment your home cooked meals. Oreos dipped into milk. Feeling the warmth and love when your pets cuddle up right next to you on the couch. Dipping your toes into a swimming pool as the sun begins to set. The smile that plays on your lips when someone tells you they love and appreciate you. LEO: The feeling of dressing up to reflect the confidence you feel from within. Finally saving up enough to purchase your dream bag. Socializing with your best friends over drinks at a housewarming party. Getting a new hair color. Genuine compliments that make you light up. Reciprocation of all the love and generosity youâve given to those around you. VIRGO: The feeling of valuable gained knowledge after reading up on articles of your favorite topics during the wee hours of the morning. Holding hands with your lover in the movie theater. Letting the art of your words bring solace to someoneâs pain and suffering. Readjusting your glasses after a long period of reading. Promotions at work. Feeling capable and worthy.  LIBRA: The feeling of appreciation for the amazing people who surround you. The sound of laughter. The blush that flushes your cheeks when the handsome guy at the bar winks at you. Looking in the mirror and feeling content with what you see. Movie nights over wine with your favorite girls. Making out by the fireplace. The feeling of silk on your bare skin. SCORPIO: The feeling of danger and excitement when you rev your motorcycle engine to speed up on the freeway. Smelling a fresh bouquet of roses. Tongue kisses. Telling scary stories by the bonfire with your best friends. Make up sex. Running into the arms of your lover after an eternity of being apart. Finally letting your walls down and allowing yourself to trust again after countless heartbreaks. SAGITTARIUS: The feeling of the wind messing up your hair as you stick your head out the sunroof while your friends are driving. Toasting drinks over barbecue. Fireworks on the 4th of July. Helping someone see in a different perspective. Feeling energized after a good workout. Vibing to your favorite artistâs new soundtrack. Driving stick. CAPRICORN: The feeling of achievement after closing a deal on your first home. Proudly watching as your younger siblings grow up. Nervously asking out your lover on a first date and feeling overwhelmed with joy when they say yes. Going on a hike with your friends. Re-watching your favorite movies. Pillow talks. Making sure your loved ones feel safe and secure. AQUARIUS: The feeling of being finally being understood. Staying up late playing video games. Proving someone wrong. Bringing out the best traits in a person by encouraging them to be unafraid of who they are. Spending time alone after being out with friends. Stargazing with your lover. The cool mist that caresses your skin on a winter morning. PISCES: The feeling of being complete after expressing yourself through a form of art. Eskimo kisses. Pouring your emotions out onto pen and paper. Hands covered in paint. Bright blue skies with tons of cirrus clouds. The sound of rain soothing you to sleep. Singing along to your favorite songs on a road trip with your family. Â
No offense but literally nothing and no one is and will ever be out of your league. Nothing is too good for you. Nobody has the right to make you feel like you are not enough or less than you are, you deserve the world.
I SEE YOU, AND YOU MATTER
*sun & moon my angels (maybe rising too)*Â
Aries You know itâs not always going to be like this. You will get out, maybe not today and maybe not tomorrow. But every day that passes brings you closer to where you are supposed to be. Stop listening to people that say you are too childish or too intense or intimidating. If they could see life through your eyes they would find a person with a sophisticated balance between work and play. Donât let anyone bully you into submission, that is not your place. You are meant to work hard for success, and you can never please everyone. Be the one with compassion for the lost souls and a voice for those who have been silenced. That is your power, own it.Â
Taurus Your pain is one of the deepest ones, because it cuts right into your bones, spreading through your entire body in seconds. I know you would rather stay numb but your love is far too important, you have too much to give. You carry everyones weight along with your own, and you do it with so much dignity. You truly love when you can touch the lives of others, but you canât go on like this with your heart in pieces. Self care is not selfish, you have got to love yourself first. Look inwards, determine what you need to feel loved and love yourself that way. And remember, what you do to numb your pain does not make you a bad person. Today you leave your guilt behind, you donât deserve it. Â
Gemini Youâre constantly changing, evolving yourself and your beliefs. Which is a very ambitious trait, for you itâs second nature. You would rather sell your soul to the devil than to stay the same your entire life. But since itâs second nature, that means itâs also your survival instinct. You leave people behind easier than a femme fatale in a 70âs indie film with a silk scarf wrapped around her head, driving off into the desert in a Mustang convertible. But believe me when I say you canât outrun your demons. Seek closure, because in life we leave pieces of ourselves with every person we interact with. If you donât, youâll wake up one day with a crack in your mask. Confrontation is worth not being haunted with feelings you donât remember.Â
Cancer Oh baby, I see you. Everyone saying youâre so dainty, so fragile that you start to believe it. Someone once said there is bravery in being soft, bravery most people couldnât even muster if they wanted to. But donât you ever mistake your softness for weakness, and donât you dare let other people tell you how to feel. Be as big and as bold as you want. Donât you ever be ashamed of what you need out of life, or love for that matter. Even if itâs too much, or maybe nothing at all. Realize, and do this as quickly as you can, that you do not need anyone to feel whole. You are already whole, you have an entire home inside of you. Take care of yourself as such because you are a treasure. Also get a house plant, it will calm your soul when it dances in the sun.Â
Leo Oh my dearest. You do realize that no matter the colour in your eyes the light from within you shines like Supermanâs goddamn laser beams. Or at least I hope you realize. You have the advantage of a very strong sense of self. Knowing yourself is very important to you. What you need is to never become so jaded that you wonât let yourself change. Otherwise youâll become a faded version of yourself, addicted to the memory of who you used to be. Baby you just gotta be. Change is natural, and itâs wonderful. You become wiser and you feel deeper. Stop worrying because not everybody you meet is judging you. You are so pure hearted, believe in good intentions. Sometimes all it takes is a little faith. And I have faith in you.Â
Virgo My prima ballerina, I see that look deep in your eyes. The pure terror of never achieving your true potential, the way you strive for perfection in everything you do, and at the end of the day you come home and search for solace but you find nothing. Because youâre completely hollow. Stop picking yourself apart in the mirror, donât you know that success has no face? Everyone around you looks at you in wonder, how a person with this much talent would make themselves so small. Donât look for the perfect thing or âthe oneâ, because there are many âthe onesâ. Take your time to find what you are passionate about, and donât keep pouring yourself into people that take your efforts for granted. In an imperfect world, you are the closest thing we have to perfection and donât you ever, ever forget that.Â
Libra Your pain is standing in a crowd with white noise ringing in your ears. You wonder where you lost yourself, or to who. And you never let it show, because you donât want to let others know that the laughter has stopped. But you have to go below the surface, even if it hurts. You need to realize that not letting everybody into your life that wants in is a form of self love. Not everyone deserves the sheer adoration that comes with your love. Learn to listen to your own voice, the one that has reduced itself to a whisper. Let it roar because if you donât put yourself first, no one else will. Choose your friends carefully, practice loyalty, smile at yourself in the mirror because you are that bitch. Take yourself on a date, tell yourself youâre fantastic because honestly, we all wish we could be as effortlessly charming as you. Own that shit.Â
Scorpio You put in all this work, all this energy and at last you feel comfortable. Until you feel restless again. You are so volatile, sometimes you donât even know what you want. All you know is that you want something else. You run on energy. Youâve got that clairvoyant instinct, trust it. Bet everything you have on it. Because when it comes down to it, rock bottom has only one way. Up. The excitement of being alive is to great for you to ever give up on yourself. Be fearless in your mistakes, let the experiences shape you. Youâll know when itâs right. Youâll feel it in your entire body, as your blood stops vibrating.Â
Sagittarius I know how it feels to be so empty you are scared nothing will ever be able to fill the void. Determination with no purpose. You always move so fast, but you donât have to be so afraid. Slow down, take control of your breathing. Feel the force of your heart pumping life into you, the life you always wanted. Practice turning loneliness into solitude, do it for the sake of your heart. Put on your favourite underwear, put on lip balm, live for the light and read more. I know itâs hard but start small, like The Little Prince. Let him take you to places you never thought you would go. And then further. You have to learn who you are outside of others, and you do that by spending time with yourself. Donât rush, take your time. All that determination will wait for you, until you find the purpose within yourself. I promise.Â
Capricorn If anyone can do it, itâs you. You are disciplined, gorgeous and smart, if they donât like you they respect you. Because youâre not here to start fights. Youâre here to start your life. But business is about humans, and humans need trust and connection. Trust yourself, those who love you sure do. Like Virgo, remember success has no face, so leave it out. This is about you and what makes your heart pound harder than anything else. So put on your warrior paint and work until you can ask the bitch from your old school why her boyfriend is your number one fan.Â
Aquarius Hi you. Yes you. You are not alone in this world. I know you feel like a ghost amongst the living but youâre not. You are us, all of us. You are what drives us, you and that delirious little brain of yours. I know that you think you are either genius or psycho, but believe me youâre both and itâs excellent. Now, stop treating the masses like they are the birds you put out seeds for in the winter. Get out there, with your empathy and your honesty. You preach that most of the people in this world are good hearted, now itâs time you start believing it too. Start gracing them with your divine presence, and take a chance. Because you are one of those people that can effortlessly interact with people from all walks of life. Unite us, weâll wait for you.Â
Pisces You are whip-clever and slightly nuts. You sometimes find it hard to pin down your own feelings, leaving you a bit confused. Nothing to stress about, just⌠confused. You sometimes wonder if you are two souls in one body. One wants something extraordinary, and the other wants something else, but just as extraordinary. Try to merge your lanes, make compromises on either side. It will ease your mind as you try to sort out the mess that is your personal life. Now listen to me, if you feel your feelings they are valid, because they are your reality. Have more empathy for yourself, give yourself credit for your efforts and donât let people take advantage of you or discredit you. The opinions of toxic people simply donât matter. Also, try to keep your promises. And you know what, sometimes itâs okay to be sad. Watch Romeo + Juliet, stay inside for a few days and try to see a silver lining, like how lucky we are to be able to experience life this deeply.
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I just wanna say that some black folks do actually date outside their race because none of these black folks ever checks for them âŚ. so what they gone do? Die alone cuz they canât experience black love?
I wholeheartedly feel that way. Like I would not be shocked if I donât end up with a black man âŚ. even though thatâs my goal âŚ. thatâs the motherfucking wave âŚ.. but if it doesnât happen, it doesnât happen
Everyone on here has this idealistic view of Black love and we tip toe around everything.
Niggas irl dont check for Black women especially if:
She dark skinned (cuz colorism is alive, well and often unchecked)
Big (fatphobia often goes unchecked cuz for many people, tumblr activism is just that. it stops when they log off)
Trans (transphobia is alwayyyys unchecked)
Not conventionally attractive (ya know what i mean)
So op is definitely right. Y'all need to acknowledge how these things affect Black love and who will and wonât be likely to experience it in this society, especially with the way things are going now in the community. Next time u see a Black girl with a non Black partner, think about it.
Iâve been saying this, but people love to hear what they want and pretend I just told them that Black Love can choke lmao
There are Black Women who had dreams of getting married and settling down, but Black Men are not checking for them (this and it could be geographical location as well). They feel as if theyâre betraying Black People by dating outside of their race. The funny thing is, this type of mentality is mostly directed at Black Women in interracial relationships and not Black Men.
I find it harmful and truly performative when I see âactivistsâ with large impressionable followings speaking about how in order to date outside your race you have to âcompartmentalizeâ or hide a part of who you are. Like, what the hell is that. Honestly truly. Compartmentalism doesnât have to come into play when you date outside your race.
Listen, People LOVE to project. If you cannot be genuinely Pro Black and support Black Rights with a Non Black partner.. thatâs ALL you, boo. Donât try to make others feel bad lmao. Do not let these âwokeâ˘â Tumblr blogs guilt you into thinking you do not support Black Love, Black People, Black Movements because youâre not dating a Black Person.
If you see any posts attempting to shame Black People by saying ish like âhow can you overlook thousands of years of oppressionâ or something about anti blackness.. bruh. Anti Blackness is a global phenom. I can date a Black Man and meet his mama who hates dark skinned Black Women lmao
Now⌠if youâre actively seeking out non Black partners,avoiding Black People at all cost, and have internalized racism. You gotta fix that and love yourself.
White men ask me out and black men act like theyâre disgusted when I even look their way. Iâm introverted, but that doesnât mean I want to end up alone, but If I waited around for a black guy to ask me out, I would be alone. So when I do date itâs usually outside of my race. I feel like youâve got to do double the work when you date a white guy (or a guy of another race ).
Thereâs so much to worry about. Does he have a fetish. Is with out because he thinks you as a black women can do no better? Or you a scratch off on his bucket list? Is he racist? You must have the discussion about race and racism, you must! You have to see how his family, friends, and co-workers will react to you. Do they smile in your face and talk shit behind your back? Do they make passive-aggressive comments when your around, or do they flat out tell you how they feel? How will the people around you feel? When you get into an interracial relationship you find out real quick who your true friends are. People canât hid their real feelings back when it comes to interracial dating. The truth will out.
I believe that IR relationships can work, but you have to do work, and anyone who says you donât is lying. Iâm not saying your relationship is going to be like a Tyler Perry movie, but there will be added stress from somewhere. Doesnât matter if their friends and family or cool, someone close to one of you will have a negative opinion about your relationship. These are just some things I wish someone had told me before I dated outside of my race for the first time.Â
Like people ridicule black women for being âbitterâ or âalone and miserableâ but at the same time expect them to wait for a black man to deem them worthy. So why would I sit and wait for a black man to acknowledge my existence if I know a non black man will? Like either way other. Lack people are gonna shun me, so I might as well be happy while itâs happening.
This conversation is all the way real.
Thank you for speaking on my sentiments. I feel the same wayâŚAinât no need to be dried up and shriveled like a raisin while âwaitingâ on the proverbial âGood Black Manâ purple unicorn to make his grand entrance {insert sarcasm here}, or take interest. Love your life boo, live it how you please, and fuck a hater. Love knows no color bounds. Iâll be damned if I let anyone tell me I canât be Pro-Black and date a man outside my race when most brothers have done nothing but try to denigrate and destroy me emotionally. Itâs time out for all that. Whatever shade love comes in for me, I will embrace it.