Sarah had just  finished talking to Blaine and was doing her best to speak up and talk to Sebastian who told her to relax as he went to get Emmy ready for bed.
Sarah finished cleaning the kitchen and packed some of the goodies she stress baked and packed some up to take to school in the morning before sitting down on the couch trying to relax before talking to her husband.
   After a few moments Sebastian came down hugging Sarah from behind and giving her a kiss on the cheek.
“Hey Belle” He said sitting down beside her. “ You wanted to talk?”
Sarah became very nervous, she wasn’t could at speaking what she needed to. “  Um yeah thanks for making Sure Emmy got her bathe, brushe dher teeth and tucking her in that means a lot to me.
 "You don’t have to thank me for that love. She’s my child too and I should help out more, as that’s what you wanted and meant by intimacy right?" Seb asked. ” So what did you really want to talk about?“
 ” I see you did talk to Blaine and he got through to you" Sarah joked. “ Um yeah… that was it”
“ You’re a horrible liar Sarah” Seb replied raising his eyebrow. “ Look, I know this makes you nervous, but our therapist did say we should be more open , and you can tell me anything. How am I supposed to know if you don’t tell me, I can’t read minds Belle”
“ You sound like Blaine” Sarah mumbled looking down nervously playing with her hands not realizing she was biting her nails until Sebastian took her hand out of her mouth.Â
“Well,everytime we’ve gotten advise drom him he’s always been right, and he is your brother…so just pretend that I’m him and talk to me how you would him” Sebastian suggested trying to make this easier for his wife.
Sarah took a deep breathe and looked at her husband. “ Look, I know the agreement was that I’d go back to work after Emilia started school, Granted she starts in the fall and I went back early. I know you don’t like me working, but Blaine’s my boss and he needed help, plus I wanted ot be able to take care of support Emmmy since you left and I wasn’t sure that you were going to come back. I know you like to make love, but I want intimacy in another way. Buying me flowers, listening to me, helping out when I need it, maybe a kiss on the cheek or head or hand….just be romantic and understanding, like you were when he first started dating.
"Honey that was 23 years ago….I was trying to impress you" Sebastian admitted. " But if that’s what you’d like then that’s fine…but you’ve gotta promise to talk to me ok?  You can’t hold it in. We’re not going to get anywhere unless you tell me ok?”
“Ok” Sarah said cuddling up to him and putting on a movie.