Locked boy NSFW

Owned and Locked 24/7 by a loving Sir, whom i am grateful to serve, love and obey. This is an adult only blog, not appropriate for minors.

[bondeurchasteur83]

[misterbill2you]

[sfchastityslave]

So fucking hot...

[karl666-deactivated20181214]

9 ingredients for taming your slave, results guaranteed…

1. CHASTITY

Lock its genitals in order to restrict access. Make sure it is chaste most of the time, free only in your presence from time to time. This way, its body parts become your property and it is unable to play with itself, which ALL men do.

2. INSPECTIONS

This might seem like unnecessary play only but it is not. It send a strong impulse to its mind about who is in charge and has unlimited freedom. Do it on regular basis.

3. ROUTINES

Routines are very important, any kind of routine. To begin with, decide upon a daily routine with which it will show its respect and humility to you. Make sure there will be no skipping on routines.

4. DISCIPLINE

This is a complete must, done on daily basis. Discipline is the most essential ingredient. It doesn’t need to “deserve it”, it is simply necessary. Find the time and the will every day.

5. TEASE, EDGING, DENIAL

Having and keeping its balls full will ensure its full attention towards you. It will make it beg and it will make it soft on its mind. Have you tried it for hours? No? Try it. Bigger balls equals more obedience and willingness to do anything for you.

6. RUINED ORGASMS

Your slave needs to cum and it will do anything to cum. You will allow it to cum on occasion but you will also slowly take away its right to have that pleasure. Ruin iits orgasms often and make it thank you. In time you could easily have it pleasure-less and without actual orgasms, up to you. Remember, an orgasm is not a right, it is a health necessity. It is not a reward either. Yours are important and only orgasms that should be cherished.

7. HUMILIATION

As bad as this might sound, subtle ways of humiliation are extremely effective. It needs it, it wants it. Do it. Find ways, decide up on them and act upon them. Humiliation makes it more humble. Then humiliate some more, subtly.

8. USE IT, MAKE IT FEEL USED

slaves like being treated like objects or toys. So that’s just what you need to do, use it for your pleasure and needs and then simply discard it. It’s a play, nothing more but it works just fine. Make sure you train yourself for such acts properly, in order not to appear silly.

9. EMASCULATION & PEGGING

Chastising your slave is the begging of emasculation. Pegging is another great way to emasculate. Make it your bitch, bring out its feminine side. Bringing out its feminine side works beautifully in favor of emasculation. Emasculation kills the ego every man has. Ego is an absolute enemy. 

BBC rules

[remorboso]

Muy buenas las recomendaciones.

Serían muy efectivas si se hicieran exactamente asi!!!!

Felicitaciones!!!! 

[fatblackbottom]

[piratefagslave]

Identify yourselves fags!

[nyslave10]

it’s sexually submissive to everyone

[sydneyfaggotworships]

FAGGOT TIP: The importance of an Alpha Male’s legs 

(A CLASSIC REPOST)

The mistake that faggots make with Alpha Legs

The mistake that most faggots make is that they happily suck on an Alpha’s cock until he cums, and then they move. But this is disrespectful to the Alpha. When an Alpha cums he doesn’t want you to move, because it suggests that he has lost some power over you by cumming.

How to do better faggots

A more considerate faggot will not move when the Alpha cums. He will keep his mouth on the Alpha’s cock for as long as possible. And then, when he really has to move, he simply rests his head on the Alpha’s upper leg, like it’s a pillow, and faces his cock. The Alpha will appreciate that the faggot is worshipping him even after he has cum, by staying close to his cock and balls.

Honouring the power in his legs

Regularly rest on your Alpha’s upper legs. In fact, sometimes sleep on his upper legs if he is staying for a while. It makes him feel powerful. So try it out. And your Alpha will be happy knowing that when he cums, it changes nothing in terms of his dominance over you.

FAGGOT MASTER

I teach faggots how to serve Alpha Males.

[sfchastityslave]

When Sir cums while allowing me to suck His Cock I always keep His Cock in my mouth and curl up next to his powerful legs, resting my head on this groin until he is soft and wants me to move. Curled up next to Sir, the taste of His load on my tongue and His Cock in my mouth as my boydick strains against its cage is one of my favorite places to be. Sometimes Sir will run His fingers through my hair and tell me I’ve been a good boy, and that makes me feel SO good.

[staff]

A better, more positive Tumblr

Since its founding in 2007, Tumblr has always been a place for wide open, creative self-expression at the heart of community and culture. To borrow from our founder David Karp, we’re proud to have inspired a generation of artists, writers, creators, curators, and crusaders to redefine our culture and to help empower individuality.

Over the past several months, and inspired by our storied past, we’ve given serious thought to who we want to be to our community moving forward and have been hard at work laying the foundation for a better Tumblr. We’ve realized that in order to continue to fulfill our promise and place in culture, especially as it evolves, we must change. Some of that change began with fostering more constructive dialogue among our community members. Today, we’re taking another step by no longer allowing adult content, including explicit sexual content and nudity (with some exceptions).  

Let’s first be unequivocal about something that should not be confused with today’s policy change: posting anything that is harmful to minors, including child pornography, is abhorrent and has no place in our community. We’ve always had and always will have a zero tolerance policy for this type of content. To this end, we continuously invest in the enforcement of this policy, including industry-standard machine monitoring, a growing team of human moderators, and user tools that make it easy to report abuse. We also closely partner with the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children and the Internet Watch Foundation, two invaluable organizations at the forefront of protecting our children from abuse, and through these partnerships we report violations of this policy to law enforcement authorities. We can never prevent all bad actors from attempting to abuse our platform, but we make it our highest priority to keep the community as safe as possible.

So what is changing?

Posts that contain adult content will no longer be allowed on Tumblr, and we’ve updated our Community Guidelines to reflect this policy change. We recognize Tumblr is also a place to speak freely about topics like art, sex positivity, your relationships, your sexuality, and your personal journey. We want to make sure that we continue to foster this type of diversity of expression in the community, so our new policy strives to strike a balance.

Why are we doing this?

It is our continued, humble aspiration that Tumblr be a safe place for creative expression, self-discovery, and a deep sense of community. As Tumblr continues to grow and evolve, and our understanding of our impact on our world becomes clearer, we have a responsibility to consider that impact across different age groups, demographics, cultures, and mindsets. We spent considerable time weighing the pros and cons of expression in the community that includes adult content. In doing so, it became clear that without this content we have the opportunity to create a place where more people feel comfortable expressing themselves.

Bottom line: There are no shortage of sites on the internet that feature adult content. We will leave it to them and focus our efforts on creating the most welcoming environment possible for our community.

So what’s next?

Starting December 17, 2018, we will begin enforcing this new policy. Community members with content that is no longer permitted on Tumblr will get a heads up from us in advance and steps they can take to appeal or preserve their content outside the community if they so choose. All changes won’t happen overnight as something of this complexity takes time.

Another thing, filtering this type of content versus say, a political protest with nudity or the statue of David, is not simple at scale. We’re relying on automated tools to identify adult content and humans to help train and keep our systems in check. We know there will be mistakes, but we’ve done our best to create and enforce a policy that acknowledges the breadth of expression we see in the community.

Most importantly, we’re going to be as transparent as possible with you about the decisions we’re making and resources available to you, including more detailed information, product enhancements, and more content moderators to interface directly with the community and content.

Like you, we love Tumblr and what it’s come to mean for millions of people around the world. Our actions are out of love and hope for our community. We won’t always get this right, especially in the beginning, but we are determined to make your experience a positive one.

Jeff D’Onofrio CEO

[aphyr-deactivated20181217]

Tumblr’s framed this as “creating a safe space for creative expression, self-discovery, and a deep sense of community”, and considering the “impact across different age groups, demographics, cultures, and mindsets”, but I suspect these weird-ass rules (no “female-presenting nipples”?) came from app stores and credit card processors.

Writing’s been on the wall for a long while now, but I didn’t expect them to make this call quite so abruptly. Guess the question now is… where’s the afterparty going to be?

[daddyslittlesubmissiveboy-deact]

By cracking down so hard they’re going to lose a majority of their users, which means a majority of their ad dollars. Good luck surviving tumblr after this. Verizon may just close tumblr altogether

[sfchastityslave]

The end of an era... Maybe Recon will start a blog...

[worldsluckiestslave-deactivated]

[subferrus]

Someday…..

[sfchastityslave]

I want this so much... @adisonbdsm

[thegayboybible]

Faggot, Omega, Boy

I started writing this blog off the suggestion of a fellow alpha. In thinking back this was really the birth of the gay boy bible. I wrote this post to help define some terms and i want to reblog it here, because this is a more appropriate home for it. Before we get to the definitions let’s talk about identity.

When it comes to identity, recognize that bdsm has an unbelievable spectrum of people within it and identity is often more complicated than a single title. Maybe all of them are part of you but some are more pronounced than others. You don’t need to adopt any of them, but at least you’ll have the language to talk about different approaches to BDSM.

A faggot, omega, or boy could all identify as a title other than the ones i use to describe them. But that’s a great conversational point. You can in conversation use your preferred title, and use that as a launching board to talk about yourself and your kinky interests. In this way you can have a title that’s unique to you, but still lead someone to get to know you in the first few minutes of conversation.

Dominants, as a final word on the subject before getting into definitions. Recognize that behavior and titles are not linked. Not every submissive you meet is a boy. Not every submissive you meet is a faggot. Take a moment to get to know them a little and ask about their preferred title and use it. One of the number one ways people have accidentally pissed off @bredbeta was to refer to him as a faggot. He is a boy and despises the term faggot.

- Beta/Boy: A Beta’s primary motivation is respect. A beta will often say to himself “is this person worthy of my submission?” He takes a great deal of pride in his submission. He prefers that he feel respected and protected by his Alpha/Dom/Sir. That respect is central to who he is. Betas draw confidence from the one they serve and are often personally bettered by serving one they deem fit to serve. Their submission is strength to them because they feel like a better stronger person by giving up control to someone worthy of it. Beta’s often seek out Alphas who exhibit strengths where they have weaknesses or who embody ideals they wish they had.

Beta: “I submit because i am strong, not because i am weak.”

- Omega: An omega’s motivating factor is to be treated as “below” others. An omega wants to be at the bottom of any established pecking order. He desires to be made to feel that he is rarely (if ever) considered. Whether that consideration be his feelings, his well being, or his needs. His NEED is simply to be used and then ignored. He enjoys being used in absolutely any way he can. Note: it is abuse to completely disregard another person’s needs and well being even when they ask for it. Don’t do that. Be a responsible dominant. Establish limits for yourself. Stay within them.

Omega: “I submit because i am weak and you are stronger/superior.”

- Faggot: A Faggot is motivated by dick (and many times cum). They revel in the sensations of being a slut. At the end of the day a faggot is most happy when he has taken all (or given) the dick and/or jizz that he possibly could. If that goal is accomplished, faggots don’t seem to usually mind putting up with insults or disrespect so long as they are allowed to meet their goal.

Faggot: “I’m a bitch huh? This bitch took 30 dicks today. No one fucks better than me.”

[sfchastityslave]

I fall mostly into the beta/boy category. I love, and am proud to serve my strong, handsome, loving Sir. Being Sir’s omega or faggot is a huge turn on, but is not something that I can handle well emotionally with Men that I don’t know well. I need to know that I am loved and safe to go play in the omega realm.

[thegoodvybe]

[sfchastityslave]

There’s nothing that turns me on more than hearing Sir say “I own you boy, you’re mine.” That makes me fucking melt...

[sfchastityslave]

A boy’s journey from self locked to 24/7...

A guy sent me a message today asking “if a fag should self lock, and if so, why?” The question got me thinking back, and I wound up writing him a long reply, which I thought I’d share here:

It’s good for a fag/boy/sub to lock up, even without a Keyholder, for many different reasons. Perhaps a fag just wants to play with chastity devices as a form of short term bondage. Even without a Keyholder, having your boypenis secured in a device makes a fag feel submissive and horny. As a practical matter, it takes time to get used to being in chastity, finding the right device, etc. so self locking can be good practice for when the fag eventually finds a Man to lock him up. I started out self locking. My first Keyholder was a Master that I met on Craigslist who I gave to the key to when I arrived for a scene and took with me when I left. It was a very short lockup, but just having the key out my possession for a night was a thrill! Years later I met a “virtual” Keyholder on Recon who had me put the key in a water bottle and then put the bottle in the freezer. Then I found an actual Keyholder, who I played with for a year. Four years ago I found my Sir, @adisonbdsm who I live with and serve in a 24/7 D/s dynamic. I certainly never predicted, years ago, that I would wind up an owned boy, locked 24/7 as part of my primary relationship. It was occurring to me last week that it’s now been over 4 years since I’ve stroked my cock and enjoyed the privilege of masturbation. Indeed, it’s no longer even called a “Cock”. Sir refers to my penis as my “little boy” and that’s how I refer to it now. His is the only Cock in our house, and I crave every opportunity to serve it. Each “level” of chastity play has been valuable, and helped me, gently and over a period of years, get to the point where I am now; in chastity 24/7 (even during periods where I am not in a physical device) in service to a Man that I am madly in love with, and who owns me completely. I’m a very lucky boy...

[m4mdiscipline]

How to fully control Your sub in 9 steps

1:  You  need to get into his head.

-Learn his fantasies and what turns him on.  Use this information against him and to Your advantage.

-Find out what humiliates him, and to what level.

-Make him show his loyalty to You regularly.  Reward him, even if it’s just with positive attention when he does.

- Aside from family, close friends and work, give him 0% privacy.  Don’t hide this process from him, make him partake in handing it over to you in ways that demonstrate how he is “losing the privacy.”  

-Make him need You for everything.  Point out how You help him, how You guide him, and how You accept the negative things about him that others may not.

- Hypnosis, especially while they are sleeping can help transfer messages, ideas and ideals about You deep into their faggot head.

2:  Punish him often for everything, no exceptions!

- Don’t let him get away with anything!  When You let your sub get away with something. You are telling him that You don’t care for him and that what he did was ok.

- You can Spank, paddle, or whip him.

- Humiliate him past what is easy for him.

- Long term bondage

- Corner time

- Food restrictions

- Writing standards/lines\

- Write a book report or essay.

- Ground him/take away privileges.

- Wash his mouth out with soap.

- Make him do anything he hates.

- Get creative and make the punishment match the crime.

- Never use separation or the threat of leaving/ending Your control over him as a punishment.  That is counterproductive to the end goal (trust and service) and is detrimental to the faggot.

3:  Routinely discipline him.  This is different than punishment.

- Spank him once a week, just because You can, not too hard, not too soft.

-Humiliate him often.

- 5-10 minuets of corner time a day can do wonders for him, like a sub’s meditation.

- If he is stressed, give him a break and put him in some comfy bondage for a while.  You may or may not want to integrate impact play with this.  For lots of subs, some pain can really help elevate their mode for the rest of the day or longer.

- Routine discipline will save You time and energy in the long run.  You will have to punish him less as a result.

- Taking care of You can be part of his discipline.  Have him do Your laundry, cleaning, etc.

4:  On some level, even if it’s small, keep Your sub horny for You.

- Talk sexy to him.

-Sexualize non sexual things/activities You are interested in. He will see whatever it is You’ve sexualized as such and be more interested/eager to engage.

- Have Your sub do some or all of Your body grooming. This can be Your baths, Your nails, shaving, trimming, waxing, etc.

- Scare him by telling him when and what You’re going to do to him in the near future.

- Send him text messages with orders to do something sexual.

- Make him give You orgasms.  This is different from sex.  This is a service.

- Let him rest on You to smell You as You watch TV or read.

- Give him underwear/items of Yours to smell as he sleeps.

- Hypnosis, especially while Your sub sleeps can help with this too.

5:  Control Your own feelings of guilt.

-      Your sub needs You to be strong “with” him.  You may show vulnerabilities in Yourself for other aspects of Your life. When it comes to him and Your control over him, be firm!

-      Some meanness and cruelty will be needed from time to time to help break Your sub down.

-      Your sub may not want everything You give him/ do to him, but he needs it.

-      Letting Your sub get away with insubordinate behavior because You feel guilty adequately and severely addressing it is weak.  You need to control that shit.

-      Sub faggots need a real man who is close to them to guide them.  Sometimes real men need to show the fag that they are inferior.  This can’t always be done by talking.  And if it is done my talking, the talking can’t be politically correct/kind.

-      Humiliation/breaking him down, teaching him to serve long term, these are all things he needs.  You are filling his needs.

-      Remember, You both need to be happy.  But happiness comes from different places for different people.  If there is communication, and Your sub has communicated that he needs this life to be happy, then You are doing him a service and loving him by breaking him down and controlling him.

-      A good sub is hard to find. Don’t let the guilt of giving him what he needs stop You from doing so. What he needs may be overwhelming for him and he may break. If he does be there for him.

6: Humiliate/degrade/break him down on some level daily, some days more than others.

- Have him wear a small butt-plug for a time, wifi enabled if possible.

- Have him be naked or close to it, around You and or Your friends.

- Make him wear a collar or other symbol of inferiority.

- Make him wear a chastity device sometimes.

- Teach them “tricks” like sit, drop to their knees to kiss Your crotch, etc.  In public or with friends randomly call out a trick every now then. Make sure Your sub does this flawlessly without hesitation.

- Make him masturbate for You.

- Slap him in the face.

- Spit on him.

- Treat him as an inferior in public.  (Ex: he carries all bags, opens doors, eats Your leftovers, holds Your drinks, tie Your shoes  etc.)

- Make him eat his own cum sometimes.

- Talk down to him in front of others

7: Rearrange his life/time to better serve/please You.  Make sure this does not interfere with his time with loved ones or work.

- If You want to change his body to Your liking, do so.  Control his workouts, diet etc.  Make sure and be realistic with this one.

- Make sure he is available during some of Your leisure time each week so he will be able to serve You during those times.

- Put him on a sleeping schedule.  Lots of fags are not able to adequately manage their sleep times.  The better rested he is, the better he will serve You.

- Go through his closet/things and throw away/put away any clothing You don’t like him to be wearing.

- Sign him up to learn new tasks or prefect tasks/skills that will help You.  (Ex: massage classes, cooking classes, pet care, etc.)

- Change their grooming habits to Your liking.

8: Help Your sub be grateful for everything he has.  Make sure You are at the top of that list.  One great way to do this is to deny him things.  Yep, it’s time to say “No.”  Subs need boundaries, and saying “No” is a great way to help them with those boundaries.

- You can take away certain foods, comforts, leisure time, sex, masturbation, etc.

- Make him show his gratitude to You often.  Faggots will show this to You in their own way. Most faggots will need some help/instruction on exactly how to show their gratitude to You.

- Make him explain why he deserves something. If he can’t explain why well enough. Then take it from him.

- You can take things/items from him that You know he does not need, but likes.  (Make sure he can afford for You to take them and that they are not of an additional value such as sentimental etc.)  Let him know from time to time that You enjoy something that You took from him.

- Offer him a reward of getting to have something back. Make what you give him back relevant to what You make him do. This could be sort or long term.  

9:  None of these actions will work without real trust.

- If Your sub is Your partner, let him know how much his sub-ass completes You and Your power.

-  If Your sub is not Your partner, make sure You two are real friends. That You appreciate how his inferiority completes you.  The more You two know about and do with each other. The more thoroughly You can control him.

-Part of trust on the subs part is trusting that You will follow through when You say You are going to do something to him or are going to make him do something.  Follow through always.

-  When a sub fully trusts You. He can submit to You his mind and privacy. Letting You go in and re-arrange/manage his life.

- Subs need constant reassurance.  Let him know that no matter what, he is Yours.  If a serious sub feels disposable. He will look for another Dom who appreciates his surrender.

- If Your life is getting too hard for a bit or You need help with something. Trust that Your sub will be able to take over for You and act in your best interest until You are back in shape.  Giving  sub this responsibility will either make him feel trusted and good, or upset that You are not actively controlling him 100% of the time.  If he gets upset and does not step up and take over for You. Then drop him like a hot potato.

-Talk to Your sub often.  Ask him how he is feeling, and let him honestly know how You are feeling on anything and everything.

- By taking things away from him, You are in a sense rewarding him when You give them back.  Also, nothing he has is his forever.  You need to re-take things and privileges away from him periodically so he knows they are a privilege and not a right.  Think of it like taking a food bowl away from a dog.  Your sub needs be docile enough that You can take his food bowl away from him as he is eating. He will not make a fuss and patiently wait until the food is returned

-Please note: Do not ever deny him from being with Friends or family.  Make him realize that the only reason You allow him to have constant contact/interaction with good friends and family is because he “helps” them by being a good friend or family member.  Make sure the he understands that the happiness that comes from being with them is “second” to the happiness that he brings them.  Basically, he needs to understand that if he pulls away from loved ones. While he is under Your control his loved ones will suffer. That is why he is allowed (and encouraged) to keep and/or strengthen the bonds he has with them.

Please note: The following is a list of things to control a sub only. Please do not implement these ideas if You do not care about and are not committed to Your sub.  This list is not all inclusive of how to treat Your sub.  This list leaves out the important kind necessities that Your sub needs such as reassurance, love, respect, being protected, allowed to be protective of You etc.  These ideas are for a long term 24/7 arrangements, not a scene.  Not everything will apply in every case, and there may be things on the list that will work for You.

[sfchastityslave]

This is mostly right... :-) I know that I am happiest when I know that I am owned, and that Sir @adisonbdsm is in control.

[jockhypnoslave]

a link someone anonymously sent me ; please tell me how you feel He als sent me a link to this loop : https://soundgasm.net/u/gaychastitytrainer/Training-File-1

[jockhypnoslave]

also watch this doing the file http://trancelibs.yuu.im/spiral/#eJxdUMFyQiEM/BWGswd79Vc6PeTJzgOblzCAWnT89waqHnrKJrvZLNw9hZM/fPoCph8Ev/MByFZ0QUiQZvAYqTYYYD1+T801MSdZDUXKuVvNKBuJ6bm7p+xr5xvKMK9Ml7F/MsLKommQSeogh9q1iK2CL6jGr+pGCNudMbrbtMCRhAls6Gqj9xlryeiz0MJwTQ3x3x23YB2Dgo2S/NNHLZJQpu0Tj1CQMEKtqsG9Ys9mfkJq/T2dGe21sWfRlm54LZgL+8PHfv/4BXxcdKU=

[gayhypnoslave]

If you’re into hypnosis and chastity, then this is perfect for you!

[sfchastityslave]

Well, that got me hard in my cage...

[the-silent-alpha]

I don’t understand the point of locking up. What does this do? Why is this attractive? Not trying to judge but trying to understand why the gusto for “caging” a dick.

Fair question.

Everyone can love chastity for different reasons, of course, just like any other kink. Here’s why I do :Chastity takes away a boy’s ability to use his dick. He can’t jerk off, he can’t penetrate anything, he can’t stimulate it, he can’t get hard. To me (and to a lot of people) the dick is the ultimate symbol of masculinity. So when a boy doesn’t have access to it the feel of masculinity alters. He’s no longer in control of his dick, it is now controlled by the keyholder. The boy doesn’t get pleasure from it, the boy can’t get hard, depending on the device, the boy might not even be able to see it. It’s emasculating. Not being able to cum makes the boy very horny. You’d be surprised what males are ready/want to do after not being able to cum for a few days/weeks. That makes him look for pleasure in other places. He wants to be touched anywhere, he wants to touch. In gay boys’ cases they think about dick non stop. They start playing with their ass to get some release so their hole becomes their sex organ. And because their hole is being stimulated and they get pleasure from it, it’s not just a hole anymore. It’s a cunt. They may not want to call it that, but that’s what it is in their head. So we now got a boy who’s hungry all the time, he trembles from the slightest touch and gets lots of pleasure from his new sex organ. Chastity improves sex for the boy. Not only is he more sensitive, but without being able to cum he will always enjoy sex. If you bottom, you know that if you cum - it’s game over. Your top has to stop because you don’t enjoy being fucked anymore. That problem goes away with chastity. Boy is always ready and eager. That, of course, makes sex better for me. Not to mention the hands free orgasm the boy can achieve after enough time in chastity. Once a boy cums without stimulating his clit, he’s changed forever. Chastity also never lets a boy forget who he is. You may be a bottom, you may be a sub. But you don’t think about that part of you when you’re at work or visiting you family or going to parties with your friends. The chastity device is always there, you can always feel it. Horny or not, sad or happy, alone or surrounded by people. You can always feel it, it’s a constant reminder that your manhood was taken away. It keeps you in your place, it never lets you forget that you get pleasure from getting fucked. Every time you need to use the bathroom you are faced with the reality of who you are : male but not a man. That changes a boy. His behavior becomes that of a sub even outside of the bedroom. Chastity builds up a lot of frustration and tension. That’s why it’s also a great way to motivate the boy go to the gym or be more productive in general. I’ve had a boy with a barely average body transform into a beast after just 1 year of chastity. I’m no longer his keyholder, but he still keeps the cage. He doesn’t want it off, because it motivates him so much.

And most importantly, I love chastity because it sets clear roles. The boy is giving up his masculinity for me, he locks it up as a sign of surrender. My dick becomes the only dick in the room and he’s just holes. I’m his Man, he’s my bitch. Fucking a boy while watching his soft clit in his cage being ignored is just very, very hot. I never liked when my bottoms touched themselves during sex. I thought the chastity devices looked a little weird at first. But now I love them. If I see one on a boy it makes me hard instantly. Because that means that he embraced his role as someone who belongs underneath Men. And I love being on top!

[nohoslut]

This is probably the best well thought out explanation I’ve read.

The best part of chastity for me is being OWNED. I love love love being controlled and owned without any sexual choices whatsoever.

[masteralphabear-deactivated2019]

Good for you sub boys interested.

[sfchastityslave]

From the submissive’s perspective, i can say that this is very accurate for me... ❤️

[lockedandbound]

Is blood circulation a problem? How long can you stay locked up for?

Haven’t had any problems with circulation—my cage fits snugly but not restrictively when my cock is soft. When it’s hard, all bets are off.

I can stay locked more or less indefinitely.

[sfchastityslave]

"More or less indefinitely..." Duly noted, boy.

[sfchastityslave]

My chastity boy @lockedandbound was 6 minutes late for his punishment appointment, so he got an extra 6 whacks on his bottom (for a total of 36). Then I took him through a workout composed of planks, push-ups and crunches, ending with squats which he’s the best at. There’s something about a boy wearing my collar, restraints and chastity cage working to make his sexy body even sexier that really turns my crank. I may add “forced workouts” to my list of fetishes…

[sfchastityslave]

My chastity boy @lockedandbound has committed to work out daily, post a food and exercise log to his fitness Tumblr @lockedandbound-fitness, and send me a message confirming that’s been done. For each infraction he get 5 strokes from an implement of my choosing. This past week he missed two days, so this morning he gets 30 whacks, and will do a workout under my supervision. He really hates impact play, so I was surprised when he recently proposed this new system. I’m glad that he realized that he needs accountability, and I’m honored that he has trusted me to be the one to hold him to account. He knows that I’m a sadist who won’t hold back, so this was his way to push himself to take his exercise regimen and diet seriously. As for me, it’s an odd conflicted feeling, really wanting a boy that I’ve come to care about to succeed, and yet being a little bit happy when he fucks up because that means I get to punish him… I think after today he’ll be more compliant next week. Follow his fitness blog and see…

[servanttrainer-deactivated20201]

I liked your idea of your slave sitting on the floor next to you to eat, sometimes feeding him directly from your hand. I am now doing this. I really like him eating directly from my hand and sometimes hold off his eating until I am done so I can relax while feeding him. What I had not expected was that this seems to have had the added benefit of a more submissive, more docile slave over all. It is not a massive shift, but a very noticeable one. He is also more content, as I am. Thanks.

A slave’s mind is often difficult to decipher or anticipate.  I think sometimes even the slave does notanticipate his own reactions.  Severaltimes over the years I have tried something and got an unexpectedreaction.  

It is interesting that your change in his feeding habits arewhat triggered this.  Maybe not sosurprising though.  Consider how dogs andanimals are trained.  Often food is thereward.  You have made it clear yourslave is subservient and dependent on you for his food.  I can see where this might have a shift inhis reactions, especially if his subconscious mind sees meals now as feedingtime, not as a meal.

Several times over the years, I have gotten an unexpectedreaction when I have introduced something new. The reactions I have enjoyed most are those that bring an unfolding emotionalresponse as he comes to terms with whatever is in his mind; tears, maybesullenness, sadness as from a loss, need for closeness to me.  

When I see this type of unexpected reaction, I take theopportunity to push whatever change I had made even harder, increasing his reaction.Maybe even add something in addition to what I started.  It is at these times he is most malleable,most open to training, most likely to internalize what I am doing and make itpart of himself.  I simply trigger theinternal change; he does all the painful work.

Good luck in feeding your slave animal.  That is what it sounds like you have tappedinto: his animal side. Enjoy it and use it. Consider building on it if he is as susceptible to being treated like ananimal as his reaction to a new feeding regimen seems to indicate.

[sfchastityslave]

This could be a fun thing to try with your boy @adisonbdsm