My MIL is annoying the shit out of me right now and it hasn’t been a week yet.
I feel like… I usually don’t get annoyed with her but idk why but to me she feels entitled here. Is it cause the house is bigger? Is it cause it’s her territory? Idk
I just think…. It’s a lot of her way or just her way.
An example: I got a lot of baby stuff from my cousin to borrow while I’m here. Turns out the high chair we don’t really like. This I can understand because I think it’s old and dirty, but they have plenty, plenty! Of space here to just have it here for a week. Of course I would take it back eventually but she heard I was going back home yesterday so she told me, I don’t remember if she even asked but she was like since we’re not going to be using this can you take it back home because it’s just going to take up space here.
Dude…. And she was just telling me the other day they don’t want to get any furniture for the house (it’s really barebones) because they don’t know how long they’re gonna live here. So yeah they have the space. The living room downstair is literally a storage with boxes of stuff they haven’t unpacked since they move back last year.
But you know what I can’t say anything because it’s their house, their rules. So the high chair is just sitting in my car because I was too tired and it wasn’t in my plan yesterday to drop it off.
The other thing was… I woke up about an hour ago because my daughter woke up and I went down to make her formula.
I hear my MIL wake up and racing down to the kitchen to tell me to move my car. Like WTF you have two cars, I’m pretty sure she’s not going anywhere either tomorrow so I don’t get why my SIL can’t drive her car..?!?! So you know I’m fucking tired and she asked me for my key but then told me to move my car.
Just so and idk if this is something to get riled up about, but I just feel like I’m being bossed around.
She def judged the way my car was when we went shopping the other day. I mean I’m not proud of it either but damn… she’s not subtle about these things.
The other thing I honestly do not understand is why she constantly wants to go back to Taiwan… I can understand if it’s the health insurance stuff, but I feel like every time she goes back everyone is in high alert or walking on tiptoes and she also has to work at nights over there and isn’t getting much sleep so she’s in a bad mood. And like… why. Why do that to yourself??
Oh but then she also doesn’t want my SIL to be here by herself for too long and so she’ll try to tell her to go around the same time as her but SIL wants to go another time where the weather is much cooler.
Idk. Idfk. I’m just nodding my head and doing what I should do as a guest here. But man does my blood boil.
So this trip… I mean my family’s all here. I’m gonna get out of the house as much as I can and do as much things as I can while I’m still here cause idk when we’ll be back.
