I manifest that this will find whoever needs to hear this. Stick around and leave whenever you feel like doing so. Take what resonates, leave what does not.
Questions will be in red so you can easily skip answers you don’t want to read.
Firstly:
„I don’t know what I‘m struggling with anymore it’s just not working. What now?“
What exactly is not working in your perception? You have shifted as soon as you set your intention to do so. You are making shifting conditional: „My 3D has changed so I must have shifted.“ No, stop right here. You change first -> You change how you respond to your current given surroundings. Truly changing is done as soon as you as you stop caring about your outside changing because if you truly knew you have changed then you would not search for proof. You do not care about the outside because you know it’s no longer real. It does not align with the changed version of you so it MUST be an illusion.
I am writing this on my phone right now and no I promise I haven‘t checked a single time if my phone is still in my hands because I truly know that it is.
„Am I supposed to…?“ / „Should I…?“ / „Do I have to…?“
No. You’re not supposed to do anything specific but intending to be in your DR. Intention -> Outcome. As soon as you decide you desire something it’s already yours. Your current logic might be: Intention -> a bunch of (unnecessary) steps -> eventually the outcome „if I don’t fail“. What does the „I might fail“-mindset bring to the table? No, seriously magnify the thought. It doesn’t bring you any positive results? Ok, then let go of it. It doesn’t serve you anymore. You didn’t intend to fail, you didn’t intend to do the steps. You intended to have your outcome so be it. If you remember the intention you have set then you have your proof.
Do. what. you. want. No one EVER will know you better than you do. If you think methods, cleaning your room or doing 7 backflips will help you then do so. Nothing else than an intention is required though.
„What are beginner friendly methods?“
You want to cross a river and ask me what your favorite bridge should look like?? Uhm…
Jump over the water or choose any bridge (method) you feel like is comfortable for you. Just remember it is a tool not a requirement.
„I don’t get any symptoms. Am I doing something wrong?“
Imagine going into your kitchen and using your kettle. You leave the room. Do you feel any symptoms of your water boiling? You do not. Can you prove yourself that the water is actually boiling without returning to the kitchen? Yes, you can. You turned on your kettle. You remember doing that.
It’s the same thing as setting an intention. You remember intending to shift so whatever you do now, wherever your thoughts might wander- you shift.
„How do I truly believe what I‘m affirming?“
Again: Affirmations are just a tool not a requirement.
Now, why don’t you just believe it? Amplify and embrace the negative thought: What is the worst thing to occur if you start believing what you’re affirming? Nothing? Ok, good. Throw it away just like you threw away the „I might fail“-mindset because it’s bs. :3
„I did my method“ / „I have set my intention“ / „I am in the body-asleep-mind-awake-state“: „What do I do now?“
Perfect. Paradoxically, where you think the work begins, it’s actually done. Do whatever you want to do. As soon as you truly believe and KNOW that you have changed (=shifted) the. work. is. done.
Your 3D has no other choice but bending your way because you stop entertaining things you do not desire. Stop entertaining illusions and let the law of assumption and law of attraction unfold because if you keep entertaining unwanted things (which actually try to get away from you as far as possible) you automatically push away the things that do want to come your way.
„Why am I not shifting?“ / „Am I doing something wrong?“
Let‘s take a look at the following sentence: „I am shifting.“ Are you your environment? You (I will repeat this as long as needed) have shifted as soon as you set your intention. You’re used to your past continuity and logic of your old reality. Don’t apply this on your desired reality. Are you doing something wrong? No, because it’s no longer intention -> action -> outcome but intention -> outcome. (If you now think: „but that doesn’t make sense.“ Yes, it does when applying our new logic and breaking down continuity.
Lastly:
„I have aphatansia (can‘t visualize). Any recommendations?“
Visualization is a tool just like methods and affirmations are. A visualization created by your physical mind is what we would call the most representative, closest thing of our desire. The state it gets you in is the actual important part. How would you feel (How do you feel) having your desire? As long as you have feelings you are not missing out on something.
(I, personally, can visualize but I just don’t do it)
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Notes:
Expectations can be limiting. They CAN limit you from attracting what you truly desire because you might’ve expected less than something so much better than you first intended to get. Your physical mind can’t even comprehend how good it can gets because it’s often so close to the ego, belief systems and logical thinking.
Quick reminder: in the end this is based on my belief system. This system contains a lot of information from Bashar and the blog of @cloverapple. I will always stand ten toes down when recommending them because they truly changed my mindset 🫶🏻
My dm‘s and inbox for anon questions are open. Feel free to reach out :)
reconciliation spell - what does the flame mean here?
ps: the candle is covered in protection oil :)
can someone please explain to me what the flickering could mean here? I read a long, steady flame means intense energy but the flame also flickered the whole time…
Tags: @himaruzblade @shiftingwithmars @reverieshifts @wyldeshifts @timelostheart @problematicraccoon @gothcowgrrl @inluvrn + everyone who sees this <33
PS feel free to bully me, I just did the last 5 I listened to lol
sometimes I feel like being spiritual makes me less and less interested in my s/o lmao. I don’t date in this reality and maybe I‘m not shifting to my „desired“ reality anymore because I don’t truly desire it anymore… 🤓
At least you seem to be. Are you still saying „I always tend to do xy“ or „My habit is…“?
You just recognized a pattern therefore it’s no longer a pattern but a choice. You actively choose to continue experiencing an action that hasn’t ever given you your desire. Let go of things that no longer serve you and make space for actions that actually do.
Your current logic defines a habit as something that you often do unconsciously; something that’s hard to change.
But now that you realized it, -you are no longer doing it unconsciously. If you keep doing it now it becomes a choice.
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notes:
As always credits to Bashar/Daryll Anka for these information, I just paraphrased it 🫶🏻
you can keep looking for answers or explanations as to why it hasn’t happened yet. you can research methods, blockages, figure out the last digit of pi because one time five years ago a 15 year old on tiktok said you should.
or you can accept the simple fact that you were never doing anything wrong to begin with, because there is no correct or incorrect way to shift.
you can shift while doubting it.
you can shift while on your stomach.
you can shift with your eyes open.
you can shift in an active warzone.
you can shift right now, as you read this sentence.
you can shift.
nothing can stop you from shifting unless you give it the power to, because you create the rules. you always have.
this is what my drafts look like ahshhsha I did a ton of research (speaking for my circumstances I‘m lazy lolol) and am now putting this in words digitally. Covering my most received questions on tiktok 🥸
this is what my drafts look like ahshhsha I did a ton of research (speaking for my circumstances I‘m lazy lolol) and am now putting this in words digitally. Covering my most received questions on tiktok 🥸
“im aware i have it. i dont entertain anything else.”
THATS IT!! thats the ONLY requirement for knowing.
it’s not about feeling confident 24/7, affirming 50k times a day, or seeing a physical shift. it's simply this: you're aware you have it. and you refuse to accept any version where you dont.
THAT is a decision. THAT is knowing.
you could affirm a million times a day, or you could affirm once. you could feel blissful, or you could feel like garbage. you could see a physical shift, or you could see nothing.
in the end, none of it matters. bcs when you truly dont entertain the opposite, then theres nothing to correct.
About persistence and continuity + why some things don’t manifest + revision;
Why manifesting is “easier” than shifting;
Why you don’t immediately shift/manifest after intending to;
*mandatory reminder that none of what I talk about is absolute truth, just my opinions and theories. Truth is whatever you decide it to be :)
It’s in no specific order, just go find what you need :). Asks answered/based off:
Why you have delays
....It’s because you assume you have delays. Pfft. I’m kidding, we don’t do that here. No one actively sits there and goes “I assume XYZ, and now it’ll take 5 years :)”. No. You may assume it takes long becuase of the patterns continuity taught you, but at most you’re usually uncertain right? You’re unsure of time, not dead-set. You fear it’ll take long, but you don’t actually assume it’ll take long. Let’s be real here. Fear and assumption are different. And just because you fear something doesn’t change your intention. *sips tea* Moving on.
Let’s say you’re sitting in a house right now—that house is your awareness.
You're sitting in one of its rooms— that room is your current reality (a point of observation within awareness, the version of the world you’re observing right now).
The laws of the room, the way things happen, how cause and effect work, how desires are fulfilled—are all determined by what you observe inside of it.
Now say you’re sitting on the couch, and across the room is a table. On that table, there’s a phone. You want that phone in your hand. So you set an intention: “I want the phone in my hand.”
Now remember: this phone already exists within your house. This is your awareness. You own all of it. So it’s already yours. But based on the rules of this particular room—your current observation—the only way the phone gets into your hand is if:
Someone walks in, notices the phone under the magazine, lifts it and hands you the phone.
You realize you’ve been sitting on the phone the whole time, and it was never under the magazine.
You say “fuck it!” get up, and grab it yourself.
Or any other “logical” explanation, like you lassoe the table legs and pull it toward you so you can get the phone.
But the idea is: in this room, the phone only comes to you through continuity. Through a chain of events. That’s how this observation plays out. But what if you don’t want that? What if your actual intention isn’t “I want to eventually go get the phone”? What if your true intention is: “I want the phone to pop into my hand right now”
That intention is backed by an observation doesn’t match the rules of this room. So instead of fighting with those rules, you just get up—and walk into the next room. A different version of the exact same setup, except the rules are different.
A.K.A.: You shift realities! Through intention. The action of getting up and walking into the next room is the same as you intending something. This intention can be placed however you want; through affirmations, a method, a decision, an assumption, and so on.
Now you sit back on the couch, same as before. You’re still you. Still in the house. But now you’re in a room where the moment you say “I have the phone in my hand,” it’s just there. No delay, no chain of events. That’s just how this room works.
This is how shifting works. You don’t change rooms by force or by effort—you change them by changing your observation. You say something that doesn’t fit the laws of the current room, and boom! You’re somewhere else, you’ve moved. Not with your body, but with awareness.
Intention and observation may appear separate, but they are the same movement expressed from two angles. Imagine intention as an object, and observation as the weather. Say, for instance, you observe it’s a blazing, sunny day. But then you pick up an umbrella. That simple act shifts everything: now, whether you realize it or not, you’re observing a world where it’s rainy. The umbrella doesn't respond to the weather—it controlls.
So observation must follow intention, not because they’re in conflict, but because they are synchronized. You don’t hold an umbrella in the sun unless you know rain is coming. Or, more accurately: because you hold the umbrella, rain already is.
This new room looks exactly the same as the old one. So similar that your senses—your visual, mental, emotional muscle memory—still think you’re in the old one.
So you look down and the phone isn’t in your hand. Your senses still think the old room’s rules are in play, and because of that, you start doubting. “Wait… if I moved rooms, why don’t I see the phone yet? Maybe I didn’t shift. Maybe I did it wrong.”
And look: Doubts are fine. You can doubt all you want while still sitting in the couch of that new reality you are observing. The rules already changed, and the phone is already in your hand. But you're still checking for evidence using the logic of a room you left.
So what happens?
Instead of staying still, instead of holding the new observation as real, you panic. You get up. You walk back to the old room. You say: “Let me try again.” Now you really don’t have the phone. Now you're back in a room where you have to go get it manually.
And you call that delay. You think nothing happened, but what happened is: you walked backwards. You didn’t stay in the room you shifted into. You let the illusion of continuity override the laws of your new reality.
You moved to a new room, and because it looked exactly like the last one, you didn’t believe it. So you reversed it. You “checked” for proof using the logic of the old room, but instead of calling it out as bs because it didn't make sense, you walked right back to the old room to try more things, back into the version of the world where proof and outcome requires time, effort, and action.
So what is delay, really?
Picture yourself in that room, still insisting the phone not in your hand is an illusion. You say “Well, I’m in the new room, so logically the phone should already be here.” But let’s not kid ourselves—it's not in your hand. You're still seeing the illusion. And then what do you do? You start using illusion-logic to explain the illusion’s persistence. It becomes circular. That’s what generates the feeling of delay.
But delay itself isn’t real, it’s just the perceived time it takes for the illusion to dissolve, for the false observation to collapse under the weight of your intention. And that collapse is completely subjective and unique to the observer, because everyone observes different things.
If you're still subtly watching a reality where things take time, even if you say “everything comes instantly,” you're likely thinking “instantly” means two days, or sometime vague and undefined. That’s uncertainty, and it’s what you’re really observing. It stays because most of us were never conditioned to believe we could just claim something and it would be ours, now. Even in the world of manifestation, people expect at least a slight wait.
So, to collapse the illusion: Keep calling it out. Once, twice, ten times. Keep identifying the lie until it can’t sustain itself anymore. That’s why what we call “delay” differs for everyone.
The most important thing—the most important thing—is that you don’t go back and try to do something else. Once you’ve intended for something to be yours, your job is not to act again, not to try again, not to fix anything. The only thing you must do—must, without exception—is call out every contradiction as illusion. That’s it. No negotiation. Spiral, but know the spiraling is illusion.
Because logically, if it’s already yours, then any sign that says otherwise is false. I’m saying this as seriously and as clearly as possible: get this through your head. Stop returning to the old room, to the old reality, trying to tweak and patch and do more. That constant effort to “get” what you already claimed is exactly what keeps you stuck there, in delay.
About persistence and continuity + why some things don’t manifest + revision
Let’s say you intend: “I’m going to be given free fruit at the farmer’s market right now.”
You don’t waver, you don’t second-guess, and that’s the observation you want—so that’s the room you walk into.
But you get to the market, and… nothing. No one gives you fruit. No kindness, no miracle, no magic. So what happened?
You entered the new room—where “I get free fruit” is a law—but brought your old room’s furniture with you. You carried in continuity. You lugged in cause and effect. You expected the fruit to show up, but only in ways that made sense by the old room’s rules: maybe a free sample, a stranger offering fruit, a coupon. And when none of that happened, you assumed the intention “didn’t work.”
But you forgot: the moment you declared that intention, you already left the old room. You weren’t operating under those laws anymore. You just didn’t let the new room’s observation fully settle in because it looked the same. The same market, the same people, the same stalls. So when the fruit didn’t visibly show up immediately, you said, “See? Nothing happened.”
And again, that’s what creates the illusion of delay. That’s the problem. You pointed at the lack and said, “It’s still here,” instead of calling it what it was: FAKE.
My version of persistence is thinking persistence is bullshit. Because the moment you think you have to “persist,” you’re secretly believing that there’s still something to overcome. You think the old room is still in control. You call the illusion out—and then panic when it doesn’t collapse on command.
That’s the sickness I keep seeing. “I called out the illusion, but it still didn’t break.” And you let that illusion fool you again, just because it didn’t drop dead immediately. You’re acting like this:
You point to the murderer and scream, “There he is!”
And he looks at you, blood-soaked knife in hand, and says “What murderer? :)” And you go “Oh okay, I believe you :)” and follow him into the woods. That’s what you’re doing.
That’s illusion. You don’t fix that by doing more. You fix it by refusing to interpret it as real. Because if you go to the market and don’t get free fruit, and you go, “Oh, okay, I guess it didn’t happen,”
then you just stepped back into the old room. You reverted to continuity logic. You let your five senses drag you by the throat back to square one.
What should you do instead? You say: “That’s fake. That’s not the room I’m in anymore. That isn’t mine.”
And reality folds. And this bleeds into revision too, because look what happens:
You’re walking home outside the market, someone’s got a flat tire, you stop to help, and they hand you a bag of apples as thanks. Boom. Free fruit. The intention never missed. You just didn’t let go of the expectation that it had to show up a certain way, within a certain time, by certain rules.
Persistence isn’t affirming 400 times like a wind-up toy. You already know what you want, your awareness already knows what you want.
Real persistence is this: Anytime something contradicts your intention—whether it’s delay, a visual mismatch, a sinking feeling, or “nothing happening”—you look it dead in the face and say: “You’re fake. You’re lying. I already moved rooms.”
That’s it. Persistence is refusing to acknowledge the contradiction as real, even something like “your desires not manifesting.” Idc if you saw it in reality. It contradicts your intention, so it must be fake.
Why manifesting feels easier than shifting
Let’s go back to the core: Shifting is the moment you decide to shift.
That’s it. Not when you see it, not when it proves itself; the decision is the shift. So why does manifesting feel easier than shifting?
Because manifesting feels like rearranging the furniture in the same room. Your awareness recognizes the layout, the rules, the continuity. Changing your outfit, getting more money, meeting someone new—those all fit the framework of this reality. They follow the logic of the room you’re in. So even if you don’t see it yet, your mind says “Huh. Yeah, that tracks.”
But shifting feels like stepping into an entirely different room. New lighting, new gravity, new laws, new continuity. And the issue is that you think walking from one room to the next is this huuuge, impossible thing. When they’re all just rooms in your house. They’re just realities within your awareness. All of them are your safe rooms because they’re yours.
Are they both the same thing under the hood? Yes. They’re both intention-based. It’s all observation.
But here’s what’s tripping you up: You see manifesting as using this room’s continuity unknowingly, while you see shifting as switching to a new room with new logic.
So your brain clings to manifesting because it seems familiar. It’s happening all around you—people getting rich, people losing weight, people changing circumstances—and all of it fits the continuity you’re used to. You see it. You witness it. You call it “normal.”
But you don’t see shifting it in this room. You only hear about it, dream about it, read about it. So your brain labels it “unreal.” That’s the illusion.
Here’s the trick:
That difference between manifesting and shifting is also an illusion. They both hinge on one thing: what you intend/observe.
This is how you see it:
Want weight loss? Beauty? Money? This room can easily deliver. It just “explains” it with diet, exercise, promotion, etc. but that’s just how this room writes the script around your intention.
Want to shift into Hogwarts, your DR, a cartoon world, whatever? That’s a room-change.
So are you stuck here?
No. This room never had the final say. It’s just a single room in an infinite house.
There’s a room for every observation:
A Law of Assumption room
A Law of Attraction room
A room where everything is chaotic
A room where you blow a kazoo and a mouse shows up with your manifestation
A room where you say “The phone’s in my hand,” and it instantly materializes.
And guess what that’s called? Shifting.
And the part that makes it so that manifesting and shifting are at the same level of difficulty, is that:
Every time you manifest something in this room through intention, what you’re doing is moving into a different room altogether. You just perceive it as being the same room, because it just looks like the old room+ with your new object of intention.
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You don’t have to physically move to shift. Just like you don’t feel like you have to physically move to manifest.
You don’t need effort. You don’t need a technique. Your intention is the door. So the real question becomes:
Are you trying to go to a different room where it looks exactly like this room + but edecorated (your perceived easy manifestation)— Or are you ready to walk into a room that’s completely different?
Because neither is harder. Neither is more “real.”
They’re the same mechanism. It’s all intention. It’s all observation. Whether you use Law of Assumption, Law of Attraction, or whatever else—those are just different tools for directing your awareness.
“Why is it hard to become aware of something I can’t perceive yet?” It’s not. If you’ve acknowledged that it exists—you’re already aware of it.
Perception is just how awareness expresses itself inside the rules of a particular room. Touch, sight, sound, time—those are filters. Awareness itself isn’t bound by them.
Whether you’re shifting, manifesting, or collapsing the whole house into a dream within a dream, the mechanism is always the same. You don’t wait for perception to catch up before you move.
You move—then perception follows. You intend—then your observation follows. Because it’s all the same thing.
Why you don’t shift immediately after intending to (you do)
Because you’re asking this question. Anyway….
Picture this: you pack your bags, lock the door, and walk out of your old room for the last time. You’ve decided you’re moving. You don’t belong in this room anymore, you’re gone. You step into the hallway, ready to head to your new room… and then you immediately turn around and start painting the laws of your old room, vacuuming the carpet, and wondering why your furniture hasn’t magically rearranged itself into the layout of your new room.
That’s exactly what most people do when they “intend” to shift. They declare “I’m there. I’ve shifted,” but they’re still looking around using the eyes of this reality. And the laws of this reality say, that other place isn’t real, you can’t be there. So even though the decision was made, you’re still measuring success by the rules of the world you were trying to leave.
And this reality, if you give it a sliver of your attention it goes: “Well, obviously you need to affirm harder. Try another method. Wait for proof. You’re not there yet.” You believe it because that’s how this reality has always taught you to operate: effort first, reward later. Wait for the package to arrive. Don’t celebrate until the cake’s out of the oven.
So you start “trying harder.” You visualize more. You layer method on method. All you’re really doing is repainting the walls of your old room and calling it a move. You never actually left, you’re still here, playing by the same rules.
But shifting doesn’t play by those rules. The moment you say I’m there, you’re there, full stop. That declaration is the shift. Anything you see, hear, or feel that tells you otherwise is not real. It’s the illusion being propped up by the pattern recognition still stuck to your observation like chewing gum—but not your observation/intention.
This reality only has power if you give it power. When you declare “I’m a master shifter,” sure, this reality will happily play along. It will let you “see signs,” “improve,” “get better over time.” It’ll build you a nice linear progress story because that’s its style. But the truth is, you don’t need any of that. None of it’s required.
Every time you glance around, don’t see your DR, and conclude that means you’re not there—you’ve just walked right back into the old room, slammed the door, and sat on the couch like nothing happened.
And here’s the most backwards part of all:
You’re waiting for your DR to appear inside this reality when the shift already happened the second you decided.
You’re trying to get to a completely new reality… but you’re still looking for it inside this one. You want the laws of your old reality to confirm the existence of your new one.
That’s like expecting a broken compass to point you to an entirely different planet. This reality can’t show you your DR because it’s not the one you’re in anymore. The second you declared the shift, you stepped off its map entirely. But you keep peeking back at the old map and wondering why your new room isn’t printed there.
Every time you look around and don’t see your DR in this reality, and decide that means you’re not there, you’re locking yourself into the laws of the old world—the one you’re trying to escape. Don’t you see how backwards that is??
