Rant
Here’s the thing: just because hard core porn is mainstream and you’ve watched a ton of it and maybe even slapped a girl, choked a girl, or fucked someone in latex DOES NOT MEAN YOU ARE IN TO BDSM. You may be kinky, you may be perverted, but that doesn’t mean you’re actually ready to be (or good at) engaging in BDSM.
Get on Fetlife. Go to classes. Go to parties. Talk to people. TALK A LOT. Find mentors. Explore anything that tickles your fancy. Understand negotiations. Understand limits.
Kinky sex is for frat boys. I’m not here for that.










