I came across a tiktok about hp finale and I still think how tf Ron is a good choice for Hermione. I don't know, I cannot see the appeal of this couple and to be honest, I don't see how she could come to be happy with someone like Ron. Personally, I would have preferred for her to be a lesbian, but at the end of the day that wouldn't happen so I would have been happier if she ended up with Viktor Krum instead of Ron (I cannot stand how he behaves with her and how he treats her, she cried almost in every book because of him tf).
The way they fight and give each other the silent treatment? I remember that they always fight until danger arises and then poof, friends like before. Like what? They never outright resolve the issue, the same thing happens in the span of all seven books, culminating in the seventh when he outright leaves her and Harry. I think it was because of a horcrux? I don't remember very well, but it still wasn't very nice of him, considering his friends could have died.
Also the fact that he seems jealous of her, or constantly annoyed or the fact that he sometimes rolls his eyes at her and what she is passionate about does not contribute to endear him to me. And I don't understand how Hermione could settle for this? Because for them to work-and this is my personal opinion, don't want to ruffle the feathers to whoever worships romione or ron specifically-for them to work there should be an emotional growth, which honestly doesn't happen. As we see, in the epilogue of harry potter, ron is still very much childish (yeah, sure, character traits or whatever) especially when he sees Draco's son and he is like wanting to start a rivalry or whatever. Maybe it's the fact that the author doesn't know how to express maturity in her characters, or simply doesn't know how to develop, but at the end of the day it still looks like an overglorified teenage relationship that shouldn't have made it past that one kiss.
Adding to this, Ron's inferiority complex and Hermione's I'm always right is not exactly a good mix. They also don't have very much in common, and if you take Harry away from the equation, they probably wouldn't have made it even past 1st year. Hell, I think it it wasn't for the whole Voldemort thing, the trio wouldn't even existed*. Plus, I don't even understand where this relationship even came into existence. Apart from sixth year, when suddenly Hermione gets pretty angry and jealous of Ron for being with Lavender, there isn't any indication of romantic interest. Yes, they were children for the majority of the series, but even then, one starts creating romantic relationships with others, Hermione certainly did, so I don't even understand why when the romantic interest wasn't even there (at least from my point of view).
This has become a longer rant than what I had in mind, I hope I make sense and if someone wants to add or make me see the wonders that I am not seeing in this ship, feel free to do so.
*since I opened this can of worms: does anyone have some fic recs where hermione doesn't become friends with ron and harry, possibly one where voldemort doesn't exist. I would love to see what others came up with on this idea