Song of Sarcasm

My name is Kate. 25. California. I welcome attempts at friendship.

[luvbey]

explore

[scenerybook]

[songofsarcasm]

This place is AMAZING. I have never felt so pampered in my life. How have I been missing out on the whole all-inclusive resort game for this long?? @baconshinobi_cosplay this is our best vacation yet though

[songofsarcasm]

The hands of Lady Luck. My hands, however, should be renamed Signor Sad Sap. @baconshinobi_cosplay knows how to caress the slots far better than I ever will. #vacation #bestfriends #gambling #casino

[jazzbruce]

[fuckyeah--fitlesbian]

Follow for more

[songofsarcasm]

Quality room service here. This is way more glamorous than most of my other breakfasts. #vacation #roomservice #bestfriends

[grace--upon--grace]

[femmeemberme-deactivated2018022]

Me and my fiancée have been together two years, and living together for a year and nine months, and we are getting married in less than a year. Today, we found out one of her family members had thought this whole time that we were just close friends- that I had moved 300 miles to find a job up here so we could share a house, and she was ‘happy we had maintained a friendship this long’. We even sent her a wedding invite, and she thought it was a friendship wedding. We are the ultimate gal pals!

[hollowedskin]

friendship wedding???

[owls-parliament]

i now pronounce you gal and pal

[buggyeyes]

*looks at lesbian couple*

so who’s the gal and who’s the pal?

[songofsarcasm]

Tagging @baconshinobi because she's my ultimate gal pal

[songofsarcasm]

You're so sweet! <3

Well, you're so cute, so it evens out. :)

[mxrgret]

I have never laughed so hard in my life

[moonserpents]

shout out to the kids that are compulsive liars because that was the only way to stay safe at home

shout out to the kids that have trouble expressing themselves because they were punished every time they were upset

shout out to the kids that question everyone’s intentions with them because they associate everything with their past abuse

shout out to the kids that can’t get rid of all the Unhealthy and Bad™ coping mechanisms they picked up at home

shout out to the kids that still feel love and affection for their abuser(s)

shout out to the kids that will never be well-adjusted and are okay with that

shout out to those of us that don’t fit the Good Abuse Survivor model; our experiences are real and no one has the right to tell us how to react to abuse. i love you all a lot and know that you are never alone 💜

[heyitsharding-deactivated202304]

Massively this. And as a final note:

As a loving and loved adult, you can be all of the above and still wind up whole, and good. Just as you are. All of these things, and more.

[syndonic-deactivated20160709]

Holy shit

[songofsarcasm]

I just want to add that it’s okay if it takes time to learn how to be a better adjusted adult. Coping mechanisms that you learn in order to survive an abusive home aren’t always going to be what you need in interactions with everybody else. It may take time to figure that out, and it may be a little ugly. Not everyone is going to understand where your behaviors come from. But you have time. You can figure it out on your own time. And it’ll be worth it when you get away from the toxicity and figure out how to trust people enough to kick the bad habits. You’re worth the work.

[bootlegbodhi]

me: *understands something said/written in french*

me: 

[l-m-pandora]

Legally Blonde the Musical   ↳ Legally Blonde; Elle and Emmett [ part i | part ii ]

[weisenbachfeldmendel]

(x)

[kingunderthecarpark]

thank u daveed diggs

[songofsarcasm]

I'm so in love with him tho

[healingsuggestions]

one day, you will feel so unapologetically you, and it will feel so so good

[luvbey]

travel

[floralls]

by  zhannakruk