I see this almost 100% of the time when a guy has answered this question. Why is it unacceptable for a partner to want to google a potential date? I’m seriously curious—do men just not understand why women might want to find out more about their date for safety reasons before heading out the door?
Edited to add: for those who don’t use OkCupid, the other person’s question is at the top. The text is in black because I have answered that I think that is acceptable. My answer is at the bottom, and the text is in red because the other person has marked that they think that my answer is unacceptable.
I don't know about other guys, but I see 'yes' answers as an indicator that the person may not respect others' privacy. Now that I've read this however, I can understand why women would answer 'yes'. I guess that, being male (and fairly large at that), I'm not accustomed to worrying about my personal safety.















