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You can't completely avoid annoying people no matter how hard you try, so try to embrace the fact that you can't vibe with everyone and focus your energy on the people who genuinely like the person you far too often feel the need to try to hide and censor.
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Attachment brings misery, unattachment brings blissfulness. So use things, but don't be used by them. Live life but don't be lived by it. Possess things, but don't be possessed by them. Have things - that's not a problem. I am not for renunciation. Enjoy everything that life gives, but always remain free.
Osho
6 Steps in Learning to Love Yourself
1. See the good in your past. There will always be things that we wish had never happened; there will always be bad memories and things that we regret. But they are part of who you are – so accept that they have happened and celebrate the person they’ve allowed you to become.
2. Invest time in the things that bring you happiness. It’s important to identify the things that you enjoy, and that make you come alive, and are all a part of “you”. Spending time on those things will help to raise your self-esteem, as you’re valuing yourself when you pursue happiness.
3. Forgive yourself for your mistakes. We all make mistakes - and when we think of them we cringe. But that doesn’t make you any worse than other people. Just try and learn what you can, and then move on with your life.
4. Stop criticising yourself. So often we’re really our own worst enemy. We look for our flaws, and we put ourselves down – instead of being understanding of our own limitations. It’s time to change that behaviour – so start loving yourself.
5. Listen to your instincts and intuitions. If you want to love yourself, you must listen to yourself. Pay attention to those instincts and your instant gut reaction – and trust that you are right when you hear that inner voice.
6. Appreciate your life. Of course there are things that you wish that you could change. But some things are good, and are worth appreciating. So, focus on, appreciate, and make lots of your strengths.
When venturing into the unknown wouldn’t be as fun as you would have imagined or enjoyed it to be especially knowing you might lose someone so close to your heart...
I have known not to be so attached or fall for you. But I can’t seem to help it as my Herat just wants what it wants even if my head says not to.
I wish this didn’t matter or when it doesn’t work out I would be ok. I know I can overcome and get through this but losing you will be something I wish I didn’t have to go through.
I wish that overcoming the thought of losing you will be as easy as falling in love with you.
Love isn’t perfect. Not by a longshot. There are fights, and jealousy, and sometimes feelings of distrust. There are nights when you’re too tired to cuddle, you just want to sleep, and your partner feels sad. There are days when everything seems to go wrong, and you might even snap at your lover by accident. You might go to bed angry at each other over something silly, and while they do say to never go to bed angry, it’s actually more healthy if you do, that way you both wake up with clear minds and can talk through things and apologize.
These things aren’t ideal, but they are a part of love, and you have to take the good with the bad. For richer or poorer, in sickness and in health, etc. (yes, I just quoted wedding vows, hush) These are the things that make your relationship stronger and cause you to love and appreciate each other more.
When you go through bad times, whether they be your fault or the universe giving you a giant middle finger, just remember what you have at the end of the day: someone who loves you. Think about the good times, laughing at stupid memes, or cooking your favourite meal with (or for) each other, or planning your future together. The bad days and fights and jealousy are not the end of the world, or our relationship. They’re a test to see if you’re worthy of the other person.
You have to take the bad days if you want to have the days of lounging around in your underwear munching all day, or going on walks through a part of town you’ve never been, or waiting all day to see your sweetheart and kiss them ever so gently on the forehead.
And if you’re having a lovely day, but yall burn dinner by accident, laugh it off and treat yo self to takeout in your jammies. If your love gets caught in the rain with no umbrella on the way home from work, throw some towels in the dryer and warm your wet bae up. Never be afraid to show you care with the little things that would seem insignificant to most, it’s more appreciated than you know, and shows the other person you truly love them.
I know love can feel like rocket science sometimes, but just work through it, make sure your partner knows how much you care, and you’ll never have to doubt if your love is true or not. You can get through any fight with time, patience, and understanding. You can overcome a jealous moment if you gently ask your partner about it. Feelings of distrust can be worked through with calm conversation, no yelling or accusations. Don’t ever give up on someone you truly love just because of bad days. No relationship is perfect, and they can always be improved.
Remember, you’re only on this earth for a short time. Don’t mess up your opportunities.
“All relationships have one law: never make the one you love feel alone, especially when you are there.”
— Unknown
i never want to lose you
I really really like you.... No!! I love you... love being with you.... I want your mind, body and soul. I have never felt this way with anyone else. But with you I am sure.... I know what I want and it’s you... I understand you want to take things slow and I am impatient and a slight bit insecure but that’s because I don’t want to lose you.
“Distance doesn’t separate people. Silence does.”
— Jeff Hood
How to Start a Conversation when you have Nothing to Talk About
Starting a conversation to get to know someone or breaking an awkward silence can be very stressful. To start a conversation when you have nothing to talk about, use these guidelines.
1. Introduce yourself if necessary. If you don’t know the person, breaking the ice is very simple: look approachable, tell the new person your name, offer your hand to shake, and smile.
2. Comment on the location or occasion. Look around and see if there is anything worth pointing out. Examples of location or occasion comments include: “This is a gorgeous room!”, or “Great dog!”
3. Ask an open-ended question. Most people love to talk about themselves, and open questions can help with this. These require an explanation for an answer rather than just a simple yes or no. Open questions tend to begin with who, when, what, why, where, and how.
4. Keep the conversation going with small talk. This keeps the conversation light and simple, and helps to establish similarities.
5. Synchronize. Once the other person has started talking, follow his or her cues to keep the conversation going smoothly. Use active listening to reflect what they’re saying and, perhaps, feeling.
6. Helpful techniques and cues to convey your interest include: Say the other person’s name from time to time; give encouraging feedback (by nodding, saying “ah-ha”, “wow’, “oh” “That’s amazing!”, etc.); keep your body language open and welcoming; and make comfortable, genuine eye contact with the person.
7. Be aware of your internal monologue. When you suddenly feel that you’re not able to engage in conversation with someone else, it’s likely that you’re saying negative things to yourself. For example, you may be worrying that you’re boring, not good enough, too unimportant, intruding, wasting their time, and so on. Try to keep in mind that everyone has these self-doubts from time to time.
8. Respond thoughtfully to someone who remains awkward or uncomfortable. If he or she appears withdrawn and uninterested, don’t persist for too long. Try a bit more, and then make the decision to move on and talk to somebody else. Also, be careful not to ask too many questions as they may feel shy discussing themselves.
Source: http://www.wikihow.com/Start-a-Conversation-When-You-Have-Nothing-to-Talk-About (Adapted)
You are the alchemist of your loneliness. You can create anything in its place.
Warsan Shire, Today My Horoscope Read
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sometimes what didn't work out for you really worked out for you.
read it again.
