i'll love a god when he loves me back

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[spaceghcst]

────      JEZEBEL   ⬩   31   ⬩   THEY / THEM    ⟢

discord rper & occasional content creator. this blog is mostly a storage hub for myself: i reblog musing & shipping posts, resources, etc. for my own personal reference, plus make the occasional personal post, as well as my own content when i decide to stop being the slowest gif maker alive. feel free to spam my notes! my tags for my musing posts are probably incomprehensible though sorry

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[trashxrps]

sydney mae diaz gif hunt

by clicking the source link, you will find 49 gifs (268x151px) of sydney mae diaz from a youtube video. he is a thirty year old american actor and musician of latine descent. he is also a trans man so please take that into consideration. he is known for his role as j in generation. all gifs were made by me, please don’t edit. give this post a like or reblog if you found it useful.

[mournstera]

Palm — a responsive, single-column theme

This is a responsive, single-column Tumblr theme, with either a header, or a left or right sidebar, and Google font families of your choosing for the body, dates, and accents. Optional dark mode, search bar, and update tab included. Full support of npf posts.

Options like custom post width, custom title + description box, font size and custom links. A choice between sharp or rounded corners and the ability to switch out certain icons as you like.

Static previews: Header Left sidebar Right sidebar

Download code: GitHub

Theme guide - click to browse all the features and/or read a thorough guide to this theme.

[spaceghcst]

my gif packs of sydney randomly getting some notes again... boy do i have some good news for all of u

[spaceghcst]

hot take: oc celeb rps that use (especially ones that require) “career claims” are… kinda weird! they always end up blurring the line between creating an oc and writing an actual real person just with a different name and sometimes different face, and they also limit creativity so bad. like what do you mean i can’t painstakingly curate my musician character’s entire discography in a way that feels genuine to them even if i’m borrowing songs from like 15 different artists. what do you mean i can’t choose every project my actor muse has appeared in with thought & intention and also just make shit up for funsies

[discaps]

hello tags !

i love putting my two cents into things 🤪 but i just feel like it would be a good time to mention this extension that you can get on google chrome via the chrome web store!

the extension is called TEXT SPACING EDITOR. this extension allows you to set custom values for: line height, letter spacing, word spacing, and paragraph spacing.

unfortunately, i am not familiar with any other browsers, so i'm not sure if there are similar options available for other browsers.

as we're all aware, a lot of people love extra spacing in their replies, whereas for many others, it makes reading the text much harder, or even impossible! accessibility looks different for everybody, of course. if you think you would benefit from this extension, i highly recommend checking it out!

the two major benefits i imagine this extension could bring are:

for those who require extra spacing to read or understand text, you can now get it immediately!

if you use this extension, you no longer have to use extra spacing when formatting your own posts, thus making them more accessible for those who can't read text with extra spacing!

i would also love to mention that the extension aligns its settings with WCAG aka Web Content Accessibility Guidelines. what this means is that you can adjust your browser settings to meet the standard set by WCAG as what they deem to be easiest to read!

obviously, there is always going to be a debate about accessibility, mostly because this is the internet, and the internet is the worst place for debates lol. so my recommendation, as someone who has been on tumblr since 2012, is to curate your experience! if a blog isn't accessible to you, block that blog! maybe that sounds harsh, but this is your blog and your space, and you deserve to have it accessible to you!

[corpsegirlrots]

she’s a 10 but she’s a little too into wanting to see your organs

[sweetfridays]

♡ TARAYUMMY & YUNGBLUD via tiktok

[spaceghcst]

love not posting anything for 6 months then spamming at 7 am after not sleeping for no fucking reason

[maycanady]

YOU 3.01 "And They Lived Happily Ever After"

[rachelsennott]

Columbus (2017), dir. Kogonada

[strangergraphics]

vintage floral dividers:

please like and credit if you use, reblogs are appreciated! thank you! 💕

[lannasroleplaymemes]

Roleplay Tips: "Actionable Responses"

We have all experienced, or will at some point in the future, a thread that feels like it is going nowhere. It's that feeling of reluctance to pull up the draft, of realizing it's the third or so time of experiencing dread when you see that other person respond.

You're bored with the thread. That, or you want to continue and just can't seem to think of what to do next!

There are a number of reasons why this can happen, but one of the most common ones is a lack of an actionable response from your partner. In most cases, deciding to wrap up the thread is the best thing to suggest...but most of us are just too "polite" to do that, huh? 😉But that's a post for another time.

So, what is an actionable response? Simply put, it's a reply to a thread that manages to give direction to your partner. This has NOTHING to do with matching length of post! It's just a matter of being aware that this is a collaborative effort.

Here's an example:

Character A: "I think we should invite our friends out to a party." Character B: "That's a great idea!" Character A: "It'll be a formal party. I'm going to work on the invitations tonight. I'll really go all out and make it fancy!" Character B: "Oh, I can't wait to see what you come up with! I'll be sure to wear the red dress I got over the weekend." Character A: "I'm sure it looks stunning on you. I don't know what I'm going to wear yet. I think I need to figure out the venue and the details first." Character B: "You are going to knock it out of the park! You're always so good at organizing everything!"

So, what happened? The conversation above isn't bad! However, there was "burden" placed on the writer of Character A each time. The writer of B has responded each time in similar length, but gives A little to no idea how to continue the conversation. Each reply made it the responsibility of the writer of A to come up with the direction for the conversation. Here's the breakdown:

A: Starts with the opening prompt (the party)

B: Agrees with idea

A: Elaborates on prompt

B: Enthuses about prompt, brings up new subject (dress)

A: Compliments B, brings up new subject (uncertainty)

B: Reassures A

Sometimes your character requires noncommittal responses, and this is OK to do once in awhile! But think about this in real life: If you met someone who was only this reactive to your comments and never really asked about you or your actions... Wouldn't it get a bit exhausting to talk with them? At the very least, they would appear polite but uninterested, and interactions would tend to be short.

Here's a better example for the above, one with actionable responses from B.

Character A: "I think we should invite our friends out to a party." Character B: "That's a great idea! Which friends, though? The ones from work or school?" Character A: "Why not both? I think it'd be cool to combine our social groups. Unless you think they wouldn't get along…?" Character B: "Well, you know how wild I get around Stacy on the dance floor. I wouldn't want it to reflect bad on my performance review …" Character A: "That's true, you two can get pretty unhinged. But I was thinking of theming it up to be more of a formal party. Like, make fancy invitations and everything!" Character B: "Oh, that sounds amazing! And less likely I'll start twerking, although the possibility isn't zero. Do you need any help with the invitations? Or anything else?" Character A: "I should have the invitations under control, but I'd love it if you could brainstorm the decorations. I want to go for a vintage 1950's vibe." Character B: "I am already making a Pinterest. This is going to be great! Oh, and I just bought the cutest red dress that'll work perfectly for the theme! Do you know what you want to wear? We can go window shopping later if you want!" Character A: "That would be great! Do you have pics of the dress?"

The above interaction isn't just more equal in engagement, its flow and dialogue is far more natural and prompts more detailed responses! Here's the breakdown for this one:

A: Starts with the opening prompt (the party)

B: Responds asking for more details, prompting a new subject (guest list)

A: Answers, asks for B's opinion

B: Answers, brings up a third party that A can comment on

A: Makes a comment, but chooses not to pursue subject at length; brings up new point of discussion (formal party)

B: Gives opinion, offers help

A: Accepts help, provides further prompt details (party theme)

B: Gives opinion, offers up another subject of clothing, offers up potential next direction/goal of thread (shopping)

There is a lot more "work" involved on both sides in the above example. And this is just with dialogue alone -- using descriptors and physical actions (i.e B could pull up their phone and show A the photos of their dress, or A could have started to playfully mock imitate B's dancing) also gives the other character something to respond to. This works great for Muses who canonically don't say much or are generally quiet in certain scenarios!

The ultimate goal of writing Actionable Responses is to share the responsibility of the scene, so that one writer doesn't feel burdened with directing everything and eventually associate your threads with fatigue, even subconsciously. Communication also plays a big part, too! Your responses may be actionable, but if the other writer isn't picking up any of them, it's time to pause the thread and communicate ooc and see what's up!

"Oh no! I realized I don't write a lot of Actionable Responses! Does that mean I'm a bad writer/horrible person? Do all my partners secretly hate me? Is this why I don't get any responses?"

NO. Realizing the above only means you're learning something new right now, and it is up to you if you want to employ the above suggestions or not. This thread is not meant to shame people -- it is meant to educate, and maybe even put into words what other writers feel, so that they can share and point to it when they feel responsibility is unbalanced in a thread.

[corpsecoded-deactivated20250106]

we could be cannibalizing one another and making a home inside each other’s ribcage rn but u playing

[queerlydiviner]

"On Melancholy" Web-Weave

Tristan Mateer (image by @letsbelonelytogetherr), @some-kinda-angel, Anne Sexton, Death Cab for Cutie, and lastly @moonstoast

[travi3sapsd]

☆         ANGEL.

pay what you can. download.

ANGEL keeps all the color dynamics + values while creating a red and blue palette, with pops of glowy highlights. credit is required, don't use in paid commissions, redistribute/pass off as your own. edit as you wish.

[aescola]

✟　LOVE WAR　. ˙ ˖ ✦　┊　self indulgent psd adjustments okay! likes/reblogs appreciated, credit preferred but not required. ✦　┊　works on dark skin, possible eyestrain