While Kleopatra VII is the most well-known Ptolemaic queen, she was not the oddity of feminine rulership that she is often represented as, and, instead, her power was predicated on a long line of female achievement. [...]
Just as with the royal women who came before her, Kleopatra VII received a Greek style education, which allowed her to interact in and excel at the politics of her day. In fact, she is the Ptolemaic queen whose education is the most explicitly referenced in the ancient sources (see, for example, Plut. Vit. Ant. 27; Cic. Att. 15.15). She also must have built an extensive network of philoi who helped her govern the kingdom over the course of her long reign. For instance, her philos Apollodorus is named by Plutarch, but he also indicates that she had many others when he says that Apollodorus was the only person “among her friends” (τῶν φίλων) that Kleopatra permitted to go with her to Caesar at their first meeting (Plu. Vit. Caes. 49).
Similarly to her predecessors, Kleopatra was referenced in the dating protocols utilized during the various periods of her rule, and they also shed light on her induction into the dynastic cult and the various epithets she adopted. Kleopatra ascended to the throne at the death of her father in 51 BCE (iBucheum 13; Porph. in Eus. Chron. 1.167-168, ed. Schoene; Strab. 17.1.11), and thereafter took on the epithet Thea Philopator [...] in honor of him. She may have been appointed as Ptolemy XII’s co-ruler during the last year of his reign, from 52-51 BCE, in the same pattern as Kleopatra Berenike III and Ptolemy IX, so the transition from father to female-heir was a smooth one, at first. Although Kleopatra and Ptolemy XIII ostensibly inherited the throne together, as a ruling pair, the documents of the year 51 BCE list only Kleopatra’s name, and the dating protocol makes use of the feminized form of the verb “to reign” (βασιλευούσ̣ης [...]), demonstrating that she was the dominant ruling figure (iBucheum 13; iGFayum 205; PSI 10.1098). Her brother, with the help of his philoi, contested her rule in 50/49 BCE, and she was expelled for a time in 48 BCE (Caes. BCiv. 3.103).
In 47 BCE, Kleopatra was placed back on the throne with her younger brother, Ptolemy XIV, by Caesar after the events of the Alexandrian War (Strab. 17.1.11; Porph. in Eus. Chron. 1.167-169, ed. Schoene; Ps.-Caes. BAlex. 33.1-2; Dio Cass. 35-44; Suet. Jul. 35.1; App. Civ. 2.90). In an effort to uphold Ptolemaic tradition, they likely married at this time (Dio Cass. 42.44) and were inducted into the dynastic cult as the Theoi Philopatores kai Philadelphoi [...]. From 47 BCE until her brother-husband’s death in 44 BCE, Kleopatra was again the dominant co-ruler, as demonstrated by papyri and the dating protocols in which Kleopatra’s name was placed before that of Ptolemy XIV (P. Oxy. 14.1629; Appendix C). Afterwards, from 44 BCE until her death, she co-ruled with her son, Ptolemy XV Caesarion (OGIS 194; BGU 14.2376; SB 4.7337 = THI 5), but again, in this arrangement, she served as the dominant co-ruler.
Her role as dominant queen was also demonstrated by the hieroglyphic titles she was presented with on temples. At the temple of Montu at Hermonthis, accompanying scenes of the birth of Ptolemy XV, Kleopatra was granted the title hk3.t (“ruler”) and two female Horus names [...]. The title “ruler,” which had been utilized by many of her predecessor provided her with cultic visibility and authority. Her Horus names, which had previously only been granted to the most powerful queens of the dynasty, including Berenike II and Kleopatra III, acknowledged both her assumption of kingly prerogatives and her standing as one of the most politically active and authoritative queens of the dynasty.
In her monumental depictions, Kleopatra VII unquestionably emulated the powerful women that came before her. The stele iGFayum 205 (= Louvre E. 27113), which is dated to July 51 BCE, depicts Kleopatra VII offering to Isis, and in the carving, Kleopatra is portrayed as a male pharaoh in a pointed kilt and pharaonic double crown. Bianchi points out that this is likely because the stele was carved for Ptolemy XII before his death and then repurposed for Kleopatra VII, but it also neatly fits Kleopatra in with the masculinized imagery utilized by Hatshepsut, Kleopatra III, and Berenike IV. It also demonstrates Kleopatra’s early intentions to rule as a dominant power and to take on kingly attributes, as she did throughout the course of her reign.
Much like Kleopatra III, Kleopatra VII was depicted making offerings to the gods alone in temple scenes, including at Kom Ombo where she is depicted presenting Ma’at to the gods. In fact, of all the Ptolemaic queens, Kleopatra VII was depicted twenty-five times alone before the gods, more than any of her predecessors. And, although previous queens had been depicted offering to the gods alone, the presentation of Ma’at had hitherto only been conducted by male pharaohs, even when they were junior co-rulers. Accordingly, in these scenes, Kleopatra was using the example of previous queens, but she also built on their achievements by taking that traditionally male motif, the offering of Ma’at, on herself, demonstrating her superior power.
This combining of queenly and kingly prerogatives is echoed in the scenes where Kleopatra VII appeared with Ptolemy XV, and, again similarly to Kleopatra III, her image was carved before that of her son, such as on the mammisi of Hermonthis. In these scenes, although depicted with kingly powers, Kleopatra was also depicted with the traditional queenly headgear of Ma’at plumes and solar disk that assimilated her to Isis and Hathor. In fact, many of the scenes at Hermonthis, both those of her alone and with her son, strive to associate Kleopatra with Isis and Hathor in their roles as mother and child-bearer. So, it seems she was aware of both the kingly attributes she was portraying and the queenly traits she wanted to emphasize in order to put forth the strongest image of her rule. In other scenes, including at Dendera, Kleopatra VII is depicted wearing Arsinoe II’s unique queenly crown. This not only shows her attempt to associate herself with one of her most powerful predecessors, but it can also be interpreted as her attempt to take for herself the kingly attributes with which Arsinoë had been depicted.
Overall, Kleopatra VII’s greatest achievement is that she co-ruled for the entirety of her reign, but, because of the extensive authority and dominant power she wielded, she is remembered as a basilissa-regnant. That she is remembered this way, even after the character assassination undertaken by later Roman authors, speaks to the incredible authority she wielded and the powerful imagery she built for herself, since many of her greatest achievements were later covered up or twisted by propaganda.
— Tara L. Sewell-Lasater, Becoming Kleopatra: Ptolemaic Royal Marriage, Incest, and the Path to Female Rule (Dissertation, University of Houston, 2020)