you can call me David, I'm a trans man (pre med), a top 100% of the time but I swing both sub and dom. My asks and DM's are always open, so feel free to ask me anything you like sugar ;).
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I'm bi and prefer t4t but anyone is welcome just as long as they behave, I block liberally. I am bi, but just know most of this blog is dedicated to men(both cis and trans, but mostly trans) I'm into quite a bit, there's not a whole lot I'll say no to that's not already listed!(kink list below the cut)
Kinks: Praise, (light) degradation, bondage, biting, fingers/hands, roleplay, (light) puppy play, age gap, overstim, pain play, wax play, temperature play, light blood/knife play +more I can't think of rn
Hard no's: Rape, incest, detrans/misgen/forcefem, feeder, zoophilia, pedophilia/age regression, necrophilia, scat/piss, feet/toes, heavy gore, gun play+anything else I say no to
For anything else, just ask!
Terms not to use for me: anything feminine (princess, kitten, etc.), twink, anything else that tries to identify me as anything but the fat, hairy man I am.
Get a knight that loses their mind at the sound of your moans and can think of nothing else but being the cause of those sounds falling from those pretty lips
Get yourself a preacher who is incredibly vocal and can’t shut the fuck up. Who gets a little dumb and recites prayers he hasn’t said in a long time. I can point you in the right direction if you’re looking for one.
be possessive over meeeee keep telling me i belong to you and you own me and i'm all yours.... tell me youll ruin the life of anyone who gets too close to me and kill anyone who hurts me... pretty pleaaaase
I think when a sub says "you can do whatever you want to me" what they're actually wanting is to not make decisions anymore, and they think by saying this they can foist the decision making off on the dom without having to do any of the work beforehand. But unfortunately to get to the Not Making Choices part of kink you do in fact have to make a Lot Of Choices beforehand and communicate those choices to your partner. This is an essential part of the process and skipping it is both unsafe and unfair for whoever you're playing with.
Not Making Choices is the reward for communicating clearly, not the default
“Do whatever you want to me” and then not elaborating and putting the scene on the dom
“It’s not up to me” yes it is this is kink
And so on and so forth is alot of what I see, and it’s simply behavior I don’t engage with anymore.
Engaging online is obvious different but y’all, please be good to your doms. Holding scenes by yourself is really really hard especially when you don’t have anything to go off of, and the other person refuses to communicate what they want. It is very hard to have safe encounters, both for the sub AND for the dom.