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Empathic Boundaries

You never become an “Empath”.

You have always been one.

As you continue to get more in touch with your Soul, you naturally open yourself up empathically along the way.

Sensing the World around you becomes seamless, second nature. People standing next to you, people thinking of you, how others really feel, the places you enter... whatever it is You will continue to register Energy more clearly, more “empathically”.

That is because as you live more Soul driven, you are clearing purifying your vessel, Heart, & mind and making room for the gaining of new information. We live in an information based reality, and you are the Conduit that registers it at all times.

Knowing this, do not say “oh I’m such an Empath, I feel everyone omg help help”. This is backfiring, victimizing, and an unbalanced ego response.

Take your Power back instead and own it.

For anecdotal purposes fresh in my “Journey” I used to become very overwhelmed when I began to clearly sense not just the Souls around me, but those not even present in my physical reality. I felt drowned by it all.

I kept reading about different ways people used protection against it all. But here is where I learned to replace the word “Protection” with “Boundaries”

Protection meant something is out to get me and I need to protect myself from it.

Boundaries meant I understand the degrees of the World around me, and I am preserving my own degree.

Perspective is everything and holds the weight in ones actions.

“How can I Protect myself?” turned into “How can I strengthen my boundaries” ?

First (and at all times), by believing in it. Believe your own Auric Field that comes from you is strong enough to not just sense and register the World you’re in, but it also is strong enough to create impermeable walls around you.

Walls huh? I thought to myself. And I began to visualize actual walls. I have a big imagination so I began to see this Energy, this Light around me emanating from me, creating an orb a Boundary. That only Love Energy can cross.

And when I tell you, that was the seed that burst through the soil and reached the Sun, I mean it. At one pony I’d take my finger and literally encircle a boundary around me. I felt the strength in Visualization and Action. Energy Work Sacred Geometry whatever you’d call it.

Whatever works for you. For me it was Prayer, Faith, and Visualization. In that order. This often proves to be key in many other aspects of Life.

You can feel other people’s Energy, because that is exactly what your own Energy field is registering. Apart from register Energy, it is also capable of a lot more. And does so at all times. Get to know Your Self and Believe to See.

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Do you ever do any new moon/full moon rituals? I did my first new moon ritual for the cancer moon and I feel like everything has been falling apart since!

Blessings to you !

It is a brave and fruitful thing to explore our interests to whatever depths they lead us to. You learn so much and all that knowledge is what ends up being the real achievement throughout it all. That which pulls us through Intuition, holds great meaning and is never coincidental nor in vain. 

Like your new moon ritual(s), and all that has come after it.

If your life is “falling apart”, its truly because something new is about to come together. In order for new Energy to come in, there must be room for it sometimes even against our own will. 

We are only able to see whats in front of us, not what is happening all around us. That’s why sometimes it’s hard to understand or see why some things are “falling apart”. We could only see so much. Until the fog clears up, and out comes a view better than what we’ve imagined.

Your perspective of saying things are “falling apart”, affects the outcome of things greatly. Take your power back and instead say, “things are aligning for me, better than what I know”. 

If you are going to spend Energy on the matter, why not just spend it wisely?

Oh and to answer your question, I used to do them often time ago, but I currently do not. I am comfortable letting my Intuition guide me on these kinds of things, regardless of what the calendar says. Although I see nothing wrong with such practices, all in true exploration.

Thank you for reaching out to me !

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Hey girl I was wondering if you could give me some advice? I write poetry but never shared it with anyone before. I just write it in my notebooks and that’s where it stays because no one knows I write it. But lately l’ve been thinking of ways I could share it with the world. But even thinking about sharing it makes me nervous and scared of people judging it. Do I create different social media’s with a creative name and start posting like that? I just don’t know I really need some help 🤦🏻‍♀️

Thank you for reaching out to me.

I couldn’t wait to answer this question. From the moment I read it. This sounds like so much fun.

It sounds like your poetry is awaiting it’s next step of evolution. It’s blooming. And art is uncontainable, like a rosebush, or a vine. You know it will grow, but you don’t know it’s shape and direction until you step back and see. I think this next step is essential to your art, your expression, your growth. 

The Universe works in mysterious ways, knowing precisely the right discomfort needed to initiate growth someway, somehow. Uncontainable, like a blooming rose bush, even within the gates of our own fears.

Girl go for it.

Go unknown, Some Carmen San Diego -ish. Alter ego incognito. This sounds like so much fun. And will feed your Art, because this kind of expression is Art in itself ! Go for it. This is your personal project. Let the rosebush flourish. 

Blessings

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Do you believe people can feel energy? Specifically, their significant other? As in they can be miles and miles away & still feel their emotions/energy? Or if they're broken up but still are able to feel the other persons energy/emotions?

I believe this as much as I believe that I am typing right now. There’s various degrees of “feeling” other people but in how you mean it, I’ve experienced it in very real and intimate ways. Straight out of a sci-fi film. Isn’t it amazing? 

The Universe is so giving. You can feel it all. You damn near become them, with how much you can feel them. And distance is a joke. You can feel when they are experiencing sadness. When they’re very angry. Even their joy and laughter you can feel. Specially before bed, or during a meditation. Moments where one is not as consciously present as other times. Or it can hit out of nowhere. But always keep in mind that Energy is a two way street...

With great power comes great responsibility. It can be a gift or a curse. I feel it is very important to be aligned. To align oneself to Truth so that truth can manifest. Easier said than done, but with the abilities we are able to reach, its all worth it. With such an “ability”, it can be like quicksand to be led through emotion with no reigns and losing control. Living in Truth can allow one to not become overwhelmed w it all and both manifest and maintain balance.

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(Continued from last question) When do you know when it's the right time to let it go? I know nothing worthwhile comes easy but is it supposed to really be this hard? Am I wasting my time trying to reach an impossible end or is letting go giving up and possibly missing out on my soulmate?

I think you are missing out on your soulmate right now, attempting to water dead plants. Abundance belongs to the fearless. We must make room for new and better blessings to enter, ones we are more deserving of. Making room means letting go of old toxic stagnant Energy, and seeing that there are endless of possibilities that can happen but only if you allow them to and believe in it.

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You're post always make me feel as if you're talking specifically to me. I am 22 and just beginning to learn and love myself from the inside. I think before I was more focused on my appearance but now I'm more concerned with my mental state and my soul. How long did it take for you to become this being that you are. I know that no one is perfect and everyone is different, but I was just wondering.

Thank you for reaching out to me.

This being that I am is no different than the being that you are. To say we are different is to say that the air and your breath is different. 

You said that before you used to be more focused on your appearance, but now you’re more concerned with your mental state and soul. Realize that that in itself is Soul Growth. Be grateful for the Woman you are today, that vibration itself works tenfold on your entire being. On the Energy you emit. Gratitude really is key, Specially Gratitude for oneself and how far you’ve come with no need to compare to anyone or anything else.

I’m sure like me, you are not able to measure the hours days weeks or months on how long it took you to get from the point A that you were, to the point B that you are at this moment.

So when you ask me “how long it took me…?” I say it’s not just that no one is perfect or that everyone is different. It’s that when it comes to Energy, there is no time defined. For the possibilities are that things can happen at any given rate, in any given way, at any given time.

Blessings and Love on your 2018 

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what are your thoughts on meditating and manifesting? I have been practicing meditation for about a year and although I always feel closer and connected i still don't think I'm fully grasping the power of meditation. But, manifesting is something I still haven't grasped at all, especially consciously. I know that if it didn't manifest itself it was for a reason but what about manifesting dreams, ideas, desires, or abundance..? How do I start small to manifest better things into my life?

here we go yo here we go yo so whats so whats so whats the scenario

baby steps

    we ask for great things from the universe. many times we ask for these great blessings to take place in our lives, when we don’t even have the shoes to fill the position yet. what the universe does is polish us up, condition us, prepare us through trials and tribulations, forcing on us the growth required to handle such big blessings. rome wasn’t built in a day. the journey is part of the destiny. 

patience

   this energy is one of the mvp’s. to whom much is given, much is tested. patience seperates the mortals from the gods. patience shows resilience through the seasons. patience shows unbreakable bond. patience shows dedication. patience shows reliability. patience shows determination. patience shows strength. look at all those resilient energies. patience is the skill needed to crown us king or queen. get there.

faith

     faith is one of the most powerful forces of energy one can emit. everything is energy: your thoughts, your mood, your perspective, your words, your actions, spiritually and scientifically, you are a walking talking magnetic ball of energy in constant flux with the universe. use this birthright, this power, to your benefit and energetically pave your path with faith. an energy made up of confidence, patience, loyalty, and resilience; some of the most unbreakable forces you can emit all in one.

prayer

    to me prayer is not “please bless my life and loved ones” before bed. to me prayer is your first thought in the morning. to me prayer is brainstorming in the shower before work. to me prayer is holding a child and wishing them to be all they can be. prayer is karma. your thoughts are your prayers. your truest emotions are your prayers. monitor your energies, for they are your prayers.

gratitude

     the moment you see even the smallest manifestation take place emit gratitude. honestly, just emit constant gratitude. all day. this is your magnet to abundance. consider gratitude a boost, a 1Up! in high vibrations. this is you demonstrating appreciation towards the universe, and the universe inevitably will respond to you in the same way. this is you putting law of attraction to work. constant complaining, questioning, or doubting BLOCKS energy waves of abundance, being that this is you doubting the universe.

everything is energy baby. replace the questioning with confidence. replace the impatience with gratitude. check the energies you’re emitting, I want you emitting full force light and balance bc you got it in you.

I really hope this helps and I’m sealing it off with my love and light to you.

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how do i become my authentic self? how do i know what that looks like? how do i fall in love with me?

Blessings on your 2018, thank you for reaching out to me. 

The best part about falling in Love with yourself, is that you never stop. It’s almost as if the more you fall in Love with yourself, the more there is to discover about yourself! A never-ending spiral, Golden ratio.

Another great part about falling in Love with yourself, is that all you do becomes enriched. Your perspectives, your reactions to the world around You, your walk, your talk, it beams through your every being. Others feel it, inevitably.

Loving yourself, becomes like a programming in how you live your Life, one that manifests and is materialized in the World around you.

They say it takes 10,000 hours of practice to turn anyone into an expert on anything. That is almost like a reprogramming of the brain. Reprogram self Love into your subconscious by becoming an expert on Yourself. 

Treat yourself as you would treat a Lover. 

Spend time with yourself. a lot, a lot of time with yourself.

It’s not solitude. It’s enrichment. 

It’s not going out to eat alone, its focusing on your own reaction to the food and experience. It’s not spending nights in bed alone. It’s spending nights exploring yourself by implementing a new lifestyle that forces your subconscious to re-program a new You. 

A new way you react to different experiences and a new way you react to the world, and most importantly a new way you react to Yourself. One that leads to Love. For you’ve gotten to know yourself so well, and have grown to Love your own existence so much, that it will exude in your entire being inspiring this Self Love onto others.

It’s as simple as 2 words : Love Yourself.

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A couple months ago, my "best friend" changed the password to something we shared when I asked why she gave me some half-assed excuse I obviously knew she was lying and when I confronted her about it she snapped saying she didn't need any toxicity in her life and that really confused me because i've put up with her depression and unwillingness to change for years and i've supported her through it all and it really hurt me and now I find myself troubled to let go because I really did care (1/2)

thank you for reaching out to me

I ask you, what do you have to lose, if you let go?

is it the years of friendship “wasted”?

- you are not the same person you were before you met this person, for this person has helped you grow and vice versa. so no, no years are ever wasted when growth through lessons have been obtained (and karma has been paid).

is it the fear of not having a friend like this ever again?

- before that friend, you didn’t have that friend. before that friend, you didn’t know that this friend was going to walk into your life. before that friend, you were just living your life and BAM! the friend came in. this can and will repeat itself (if you let go) with a friend more on your vibration.

wether ya’ll have kissed and made up by now, know that this reconciliation can be the eye of the storm. clear off this animosity between you two.  and if you really want my advice, let go…

when you give this issue to the Universe and let go, one of two things will happen:

1. your time away will give your friend the reflective time she (and you) truly need, opening new doors for the both of you to reconcile once clarity has been reached.

2. your let-go of this friend will clear your energetic karma (your energy  has attracted this situation, letting go is clearing your energy of it). when you clear your energetic pathways this way, you open yourself up to new energy. with new energy flow, you will welcome into your life new more authentic friends, through your sacrifice.

one of those two will happen. but the step I suggest in any of them manifesting, is to let go.

Love and respect yourself first, and I promise you this is how it all falls into place.

closing off with some advice from good ol dubya bush

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D8_nRkCJx9o

my Light to you.

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I found myself being in Love with an old flame and we've been dating for a couple of months. Last week I found an old letter to his ex professing his heart, soul, and love to her.. I love him and I want it to work but, can you really move forward with someone who seems to be in love with their ex? I asked him about it and he said he never sent that letter, that it was for his mental sanity and he no longer loves her, but, me. How can I trust that he means that? The letter I read was VERY DEEP

The Universe speaks very clearly.

why pretend not to hear it?

why close our eyes and ears, tightening the veil?

why chose to live in delusion?

afraid to look at Truth in the face, why hug the fears instead?

that letter was deep because that letter was for a woman who still has his heart.

why would you knowingly place yourself as second best in a man’s eyes, and ask why you’ve been labeled so?

you limit what our loving Universe can do for you, if you chose to stick to illusions. how can Truth, be alive in illusion?

you deserve TRUTH.

but it will always begin with You.

my Love and Light to you from my heart

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Embrace your soul each day more & more.

you’ll begin to see this world & those who live in it, in a new light as it all becomes transparent

you will begin to see people’s true hearts, through their mere presence, without saying a word. you will begin to read their stories through a mere touch. you will begin to see what their path holds, through their mere dialect

and the best part is, you will begin to see yourself in every soul you meet.

there will be those whose fears fight so hard for their survival, they will make the soul evade the room once you enter. for your entrance greets those fears first with the cleansing power of Love

there will be those who feel you staring straight into their soul with a simple “hello”, and will crave for more of that familiar Light you shared

there will be those who gaze in on you from a distance, a gaze unmoved. you will feel their eyes & understand the reason for the gap. protection.

there will be those that the divine Creator chooses to be in alignment w your Light. those who will walk alongside you, your Truth, & All that you truly are, strengthening your ties to all divine

& as you look around at the connections that make up this spherical web of mirrors, you will see the net of Love that connects it all right back to you ∞

- sss

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GODFIDENCE

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So Grateful for another day, another breath! Breathe in the essence of Life and let it fill you with Gratitude and Love ! The sun is shining

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A New Dawn

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